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Thinker · 09-23-2010, 09:17 PM

Gentle Moderation

We appreciate the way Jude and naturlover addressed morningstar's post. We need to be able to talk to one another about these things without being harsh and hurtful.

We do *indeed* need to be ever mindful and respectful of the beautiful diversity we celebrate here.

Just because something is "not my thing" doesn't mean I need to say anything about it. I just need to say what my thing is...and I can do that without bringing up the "negative" or flip side.

09-23-2010, 09:17 PM	#11
Thinker Senior Member How Do You Identify?: transman Preferred Pronoun?: male Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 1,868 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 710 Thanked 4,133 Times in 1,079 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Gentle Moderation We appreciate the way Jude and naturlover addressed morningstar's post. We need to be able to talk to one another about these things without being harsh and hurtful. We do indeed need to be ever mindful and respectful of the beautiful diversity we celebrate here. Just because something is "not my thing" doesn't mean I need to say anything about it. I just need to say what my thing is...and I can do that without bringing up the "negative" or flip side. __________________ Practice humility and kindness.