A question about passing...

rlin · 10-12-2010, 07:22 AM

i am pretty thick...
i think maybe if you tone down your butches noticing everything about them... maybe toss in a couple of surprises to them that they didnt notice immediately...
i may be curious... i mean... i might have a little fleeting thought or think about possibilities...
but... i mostly give ppl the benefit of the doubt...

a butch that was passing well could go unrecognized by me definitively... i mean... i may have a pull or a twinge... but... i could definitely miss...
or let myself not think about it...
maybe that something familiar twinge... tied to a tendency to not notice surroundings... or maybe if one was clumsy in a sense... or they were both preoccupied...

i do definitely see times when i could meet a butch and not realize they were born female... most definitely...
especially if i never touch them... or if my glasses need cleaning!

hope this helps...
its a bit scattered but damn... its early for me...

10-12-2010, 07:22 AM	#4
rlin Member How Do You Identify?: human Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: nomad Posts: 712 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,450 Thanked 1,189 Times in 451 Posts Rep Power: 1004849	i am pretty thick... i think maybe if you tone down your butches noticing everything about them... maybe toss in a couple of surprises to them that they didnt notice immediately... i may be curious... i mean... i might have a little fleeting thought or think about possibilities... but... i mostly give ppl the benefit of the doubt... a butch that was passing well could go unrecognized by me definitively... i mean... i may have a pull or a twinge... but... i could definitely miss... or let myself not think about it... maybe that something familiar twinge... tied to a tendency to not notice surroundings... or maybe if one was clumsy in a sense... or they were both preoccupied... i do definitely see times when i could meet a butch and not realize they were born female... most definitely... especially if i never touch them... or if my glasses need cleaning! hope this helps... its a bit scattered but damn... its early for me...