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dont play me as a fool. Dont misjudge how many brain cells I have active...or rely on how much leeway your charm will buy you. The days are long gone where I abide to be with someone who will do either with me
dont tell me what to say or do or wear. I let one person in my life do that. And looking back, he wore stained clothes, smelled like manure and spouted hateful things against minorities most of the time. Again, the days are long gone where I abide to be with someone who will do this to me again.
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Pole bachit, a lis chuye.
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make her earn your trust...
for goddess sake... listen to your fukn guts... they dont lie... most times.... if you think it... it will be so... unless of course you might be a paranoiac... then... ignore this message... |
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always remember and never forget: ~ trust your instincts. Call it womens intuition, gut feeling, the voice of experience....if you feel it, there is a good reason for it. Ignore it at your own peril. ~ never get drawn into gimmicks, personas, images and the like. Reality is a lot more satisfying than fantasy. ~ differences may attract, be exciting for a bit, invigorating for a while but it is sameness and similarity which brings peace and harmony. ~ seek that which will surround you with peace and positivity. Not difficult. Just choose the opposite of your initial impression. Sorry, private joke. ~ if it makes you think too much, rationalize at all, makes you unsettled, makes you uncomfortable, makes you question "can I live with this?" - turn and walk in the other direction. Good things seldom require that much effort. |
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For pete's sake dont drink all of my dr pepper
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Do not:
Believe everything you are told Trust too quickly Rush into something blindly ...it takes a long time to really know who someone really is....true colors do shine through if you give it time.
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people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~ Maya Angelou Last edited by princessbelle; 10-19-2010 at 09:04 AM. |
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Don't overanalyze or overthink.
Don't expect me to feed your insecurities. Don't say, "You know what your problem is...?" Don't tell me what to eat or how to spend my money.
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In the flush of love's light we dare be brave And suddenly we see that love costs all we are and will ever be. Yet it is only love which sets us free. Maya Angelou Wedding Photos: https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?...1&l=22b092b98c
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Do NOT say sh*t that you know you don't mean.
Say "yes" when you mean yes and "no" when you mean no, anything else is misleading. Don't play games, be REAL for f**ks sake! Don't discuss Private matters with outsiders. Don't lose your identity, and don't ask them to become somehting else other than what they are. Don't take them for granted. Don't become their Personal Jesus. Don't put expectations on them, that you yourself aren't willing to meet. Don't abuse them in any way. If you no longer love them, let them go...don't keep playing games for your own benefit. It's wrong!! Don't cheat, if ya ain't happy with her/him...get the hell out!! and....do not think that you are "ALL THAT"....you ain't! |
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Don't expect the other party to be a mindreader. Fully disclose who/what you are, what your intentions are and most importantly what your expectations are of the other party.
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Don't take your partner for granted - let them know you appreciate all that they do for you. <3
Don't stop dating one another even if, you know, they're stuck with you. xosqueak |
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Do not be mean to my son. Simon... He is the cutest sweetest puppy in the whole world.
Do not ever ask me to get rid of my son. Wont happen I will walk away from you so fast. Do not be non chalant in regards to my moms death. It had a huge impact on my life and its made me who I am today. I miss her daily every day. Understand that I am closterphobic. I will not sleep on the inside of my bed by the wall. So please dont ask me to move my spot in the bed Do not ask me to do the dishes and then complain when I do them. Or any household chores for that matter... Never introduce me as a friend to your ex's or friends when we are together And last but not least. You know the chocolate ho ho's in my pantry? DO NOT touch one of them. (Joking) And for the love of God dont touch anything of mine chocolate...
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