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10-17-2010, 06:35 PM
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message to self.....
always remember and never forget: ~ trust your instincts. Call it womens intuition, gut feeling, the voice of experience....if you feel it, there is a good reason for it. Ignore it at your own peril. ~ never get drawn into gimmicks, personas, images and the like. Reality is a lot more satisfying than fantasy. ~ differences may attract, be exciting for a bit, invigorating for a while but it is sameness and similarity which brings peace and harmony. ~ seek that which will surround you with peace and positivity. Not difficult. Just choose the opposite of your initial impression. Sorry, private joke. ~ if it makes you think too much, rationalize at all, makes you unsettled, makes you uncomfortable, makes you question "can I live with this?" - turn and walk in the other direction. Good things seldom require that much effort. |
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10-19-2010, 08:19 AM
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Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status:
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For pete's sake dont drink all of my dr pepper
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10-19-2010, 09:01 AM
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Do not:
Believe everything you are told Trust too quickly Rush into something blindly ...it takes a long time to really know who someone really is....true colors do shine through if you give it time.
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~ I've learned that people will forget what you said,
people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~ Maya Angelou Last edited by princessbelle; 10-19-2010 at 09:04 AM. |
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10-19-2010, 09:49 AM
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Don't overanalyze or overthink.
Don't expect me to feed your insecurities. Don't say, "You know what your problem is...?" Don't tell me what to eat or how to spend my money.
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In the flush of love's light we dare be brave And suddenly we see that love costs all we are and will ever be. Yet it is only love which sets us free. Maya Angelou Wedding Photos: https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?...1&l=22b092b98c
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10-19-2010, 10:54 AM
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do not..
Do NOT say sh*t that you know you don't mean.
Say "yes" when you mean yes and "no" when you mean no, anything else is misleading. Don't play games, be REAL for f**ks sake! Don't discuss Private matters with outsiders. Don't lose your identity, and don't ask them to become somehting else other than what they are. Don't take them for granted. Don't become their Personal Jesus. Don't put expectations on them, that you yourself aren't willing to meet. Don't abuse them in any way. If you no longer love them, let them go...don't keep playing games for your own benefit. It's wrong!! Don't cheat, if ya ain't happy with her/him...get the hell out!! and....do not think that you are "ALL THAT"....you ain't! |
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10-19-2010, 11:08 AM
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Timed Out
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Don't expect the other party to be a mindreader. Fully disclose who/what you are, what your intentions are and most importantly what your expectations are of the other party.
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10-19-2010, 11:23 AM
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My rainbow is way overdue 
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Speaking only from my experiences...Don't become lovers before you become friends. Like someone alot before you fall in love.
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Remember anyone can love you when the sun is shining...In the storm is where you learn who truly cares for you 
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10-19-2010, 11:38 AM
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DO NOT get with someone thinking you can help them "change"!
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“You’re so hard on yourself. Take a moment. Sit back. Marvel at your life: at the grief that softened you, at the heartache that widened you, at the suffering that strengthened you. Despite everything, you still grow. Be proud of this.”
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10-19-2010, 11:36 AM
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Don't take your partner for granted - let them know you appreciate all that they do for you. <3
Don't stop dating one another even if, you know, they're stuck with you. xosqueak |
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10-19-2010, 07:30 PM
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Senior Member
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Do not be mean to my son. Simon... He is the cutest sweetest puppy in the whole world.
Do not ever ask me to get rid of my son. Wont happen I will walk away from you so fast. Do not be non chalant in regards to my moms death. It had a huge impact on my life and its made me who I am today. I miss her daily every day. Understand that I am closterphobic. I will not sleep on the inside of my bed by the wall. So please dont ask me to move my spot in the bed Do not ask me to do the dishes and then complain when I do them. Or any household chores for that matter... Never introduce me as a friend to your ex's or friends when we are together And last but not least. You know the chocolate ho ho's in my pantry? DO NOT touch one of them. (Joking) And for the love of God dont touch anything of mine chocolate...
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10-19-2010, 10:08 PM
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☆ the stars are aligned ☆
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married to my Boo Daddy <3 
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don't talk about a future with me if you're not serious about it
don't make a promise to me, break it, promise it again and then get huffy when i'm wary and remind you of the first time you broke it don't swear tooth&nail you're not into someone else when you're involved with them the whole time - fucking own up to it and let me know you're not interested don't agree to something or tell me what i want to hear just to make me happy - it's extremely misleading don't expect me to put my life on hold for you to get over your issues and come around. i will walk away realize that sometimes the words you don't say speak louder than the actions you're doing don't break the trust i have in you and expect to gain it back so freely. it will take a lot |
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10-19-2010, 10:26 PM
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And above all (for me) be honest and up front always and treat me the way you would want to be treated!!!
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