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Great answer Atomic. We really don't know what happened.
I kind of think its pointless to read about what might be wrong with the ex in a situation like this, I think it is best to focus on ones self and get ones life together. Who cares why the ex was an ass. All that matters is the bright and shining future filled with endless wonderful opportunity! 
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Doesn't sound like you knew her at all.
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Me too, but I am sooooooo much happier now .Closure can be over rated.
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***Moderation***
All- This is a gentle moderation reminder that mental illness can manifest in many ways and can vary from person to person in how it shows up in life and relationships. It is best not to make sweeping comments about it, specifically if it is not your *own* mental illness. Thanks! SassyLeo ***Moderation***
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10-26-2010, 08:02 PM
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If my comments were sweeping I apologize.
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To the Original thread starter, the OP :
Sorry to hear another one of us out there has had to experience such pain. I personally agree with those suggestions of taking care of yourself, love yourself and be good to yourself. Make things about Your needs now and taking good care of YOU. Surrounding Yourself with good friends of support and love and maybe finding a good therapist to help you deal with those feelings of the need to know why and what went wrong, that most of us would want to know if it were our own relationship ending this way. I"m sorry it happened to you, but know that your not the only one out there. Just remember, the most important item on your agenda now in life....IS YOURSELF. Take care of YOU, first and foremost. You will get through this and you will heal......,not today, maybe not tomorrow or next week, or months from now or even a year, but you will get through it, you will heal, and you learn from it along the way. We all did, and so will you. Hang in there, your not alone. sincerely, Just.
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I was told yesterday by my therapist that I outgrew my relationship. This morning as I was reading I came across the quote below oddly enough. I hope that by me posting it here it will help someone else.
"Every woman I have ever loved has left her print upon me, where I loved some invaluable piece of myself apart from me--so different that I had to stretch and grow in order to recognize her. And in that growing we came to seperation, that place where work begins" Audre Lorde
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"Can I just say that bipolar isn't necessarily what is going on here? Many people and even some psychiatrists confuse bipolar disorder with borderline personality disorder. I have bipolar disorder, and it expresses itself in terms of mood swings, from very high, to very low. It is episodic and is a function of synapses mis-firing in the brain. Medication can help tremendously with this illness.
Borderline personality disorder is very different." Thanks Drew! 
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