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12-14-2009, 06:58 PM
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Yep,geting rid of the negative things/people in my life did wonders for me,one day I just started leting them go.It was like droping millstones.
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12-14-2009, 07:14 PM
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Just the sheer relief of it all was worth dumping years of friendship to find some peace |
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12-14-2009, 09:01 PM
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Isn't that just a wonderful feeling? You think to Yourself, "This is so mean, to let go of this person!" and so You try again.....and You don't feel any better for being "nice".....and it's hard to 'divorce' someone with whom "You're supposed to be friends". But to let go of the toxicity (and it may only be toxic for YOU) is ~ I have found ~ a very healthy thing. The peace that results is SO huge! The older I get, the more I realize that to have PEACE is a beautiful thing! |
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12-14-2009, 09:42 PM
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12-14-2009, 10:33 PM
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Yes,its wonderful to just let go of all the toxic ppl and things that have been absolutely not good for me.some of the ppl have been friends for many years but just wouldnt drop the drama that festered constrant bs.Some have been close family,wich I really thought hard about what to do about all the toxicity they brought with them,one day I sat down and talked to them about it..ya know just talking about the prob.Well it didnt do a darn bit of good cause it just went on as before..so out they went.I wished I hadnt had to do this but haveing peace in my life had to happen.Now I am free to just be me and do what I should have been doing. Rockin |
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12-15-2009, 09:21 AM
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learning to fix things yourself saves money
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12-27-2009, 02:16 PM
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I'm not really that old at all!!
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