Single FTM's & Femme's - Page 10

Sweepea · 08-18-2010, 04:40 PM

Hi, I am single and a femme---lol have no clue what I am doing-- but here goes....

lipstixgal · 08-18-2010, 06:23 PM

I'm single too but not FTM's or butches here in NJ that I know of..

hot-not · 08-30-2010, 01:06 AM

Hi Aall. We are having a mini gathering in Minneapolis Oct 22 - 24, 2010 and I am here to recruit. Of course as a single femme I am very happy to invite single FTM/butches. At the same time, there are quite a few single butches/FTMs coming to the little bash and there appears to be a slight shortage of single femmes coming at this time. Well i just felt that single femmes should know about this opportunity . We are in the planning stages but please feel free to im me for more info and let me know if your interested in coming.

April; aka hot-not

sylvie · 09-28-2010, 12:59 PM

hi everyone :-)

just running through quick and waving hello to all ..
and bumping this thread!

little man · 09-28-2010, 05:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by softness

I too wonder why people dont date anymore! As soon as you go out, wham, they want to plant their shoes under the bed and their gutchies in a drawer. No thanks. At 53, I am D.O.N.E. with move ins. No one is going to live with me again. And personally, I would prefer a long distance dating than someone where I live. And yes, I can date long distance. I enjoy a car ride, have traveled by plane and train and bus (never again by bus!), as well as my dates have to come to see me. I dont want someone under foot all the time. I dont need someone in my bed, let alone on my couch 24/7. I have become a very independent woman these past two years. Now, if someone locally could keep my boundaries I set, then yeah, I would date them too, but my experience has been that once you date someone locally and go out more than 5 times together, everyone locally considers you off limits to anyone else. Now how can I date if everyone considers me "taken"?

I wonder if anyone else feels this way about dating long distance? I know I have had some people negate my long distance relationships as though they arent REAL relationships. Shame on them for being so narcissistic that only their way is the right way. I just shake my head and consider the source. Not everyone has the same needs. Not everyone has the same needs in relationships. Let alone in dating.

Some might argue its an expensive date if you have to buy a ticket and some might say there would be assumed sexual privelages right off the bat. I counter that 10 local dates could cost the same amount as a ticket. And no, there is no assumed sexual privelages! Yikes! Why not pass the plate around and take up a donation to just buy sex! Why bother with dating at all!!!!

i would agree, that dating is a long lost art. it does seem that "dating" someone means you're off the market. if you date more than one person, you're automatically a player. wtf?

i would also agree on the LDR issue, as well. i don't know that i'm suitable for cohabitation any more. maybe, but maybe not. i'm more interested in finding someone who has a life and wants to make a little room for me...not someone looking to be "completed" by another. hell, i'm at the doorstep of 53 and don't have the time (nor the interest) in games...

at this stage, sex is a bonus. i'm more interested in companionship and good conversation...someone i whose company i enjoy. the chasing my dick days are behind me, i think...although the right person might have me chasing them.

these are great points, thanks for bringing them up.

Leigh · 09-28-2010, 05:43 PM

Just coming in to say hi to everyone

atomiczombie · 09-28-2010, 06:45 PM

sylvie · 10-21-2010, 07:13 AM

passing through to say hello again..
this thread doesn't get used enough!

maybe we need to throw a party and have some fun in here, heh

MaggieBluIze · 10-21-2010, 07:18 AM

Ooooooh Yes!!!!!
Let's have a party!!!!!!!

Morning Everyone!!!!!

sylvie · 10-21-2010, 07:27 AM

*hauls out the ticklebox of decorations and gets the music*
woohooo, glad someone is in with me!!

morning Maggie!

MaggieBluIze · 10-21-2010, 09:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sylvie

*hauls out the ticklebox of decorations and gets the music*
woohooo, glad someone is in with me!!

morning Maggie!

Ticklebox? Love it!!! Great name!!!
I'm in and hoping others will join us!!!
If not, well, we will make it super fabulous for us!!!!!!

paposeco · 10-21-2010, 09:18 AM

Hi everyone, just zoomin' by...sippin' coffee and thinking, that I'm ready to date again, but not so much into the LDR thing...been there done that..not going to say "never" but....
Y'all have a great day.

sylvie · 10-21-2010, 08:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MaggieBluIze

Ticklebox? Love it!!! Great name!!!
I'm in and hoping others will join us!!!
If not, well, we will make it super fabulous for us!!!!!!

fabulous for us it may very well be!
but, maybe others will get jealous and follow us in... *points to the ticklebox* it's fulla goodies!

sylvie · 10-21-2010, 08:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by paposeco

Hi everyone, just zoomin' by...sippin' coffee and thinking, that I'm ready to date again, but not so much into the LDR thing...been there done that..not going to say "never" but....
Y'all have a great day.

welcome !! *waves*
hope you had a great day too!

MaggieBluIze · 10-22-2010, 08:13 AM

Good Morning Everyone!!!

TGIF!!!!!!!!!

Have a great day and make some beautiful memories this weekend!!!!

Spoon · 11-04-2010, 01:15 PM

Single Femme-ish here to *bump* this thread! Hi, everyone!

MaggieBluIze · 11-04-2010, 01:50 PM

Yay!!!!!
Thanks!!!!
Gonna *Bump Bump Bump* with you!!!!
Have a great day!!!!!!!!!!!!

MaggieBluIze · 11-05-2010, 09:29 AM

TGIF!!!!!!!!!!!

Happy Fabulous Friday Everyone!!!!

Hope you have a wonderful day and make lots of memories this weekend!!!

Jesse · 11-05-2010, 10:42 AM

Happy Friday Everyone!

Make it Freaky

Make it Fabulous

Make it how you want it to be!

MaggieBluIze · 11-05-2010, 11:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tranzman

Happy Friday Everyone!

Make it Freaky

Make it Fabulous

Make it how you want it to be!

YES!!!!!

Exactly!!!!!

I agree 100%!!!

08-18-2010, 04:40 PM	#181
Sweepea Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Highland CA Posts: 19 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 14 Thanked 31 Times in 8 Posts Rep Power: 81	Hola Hi, I am single and a femme---lol have no clue what I am doing-- but here goes....

08-30-2010, 01:06 AM	#183
hot-not Member How Do You Identify?: femme Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Minneapolis MN Posts: 363 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 42 Thanked 227 Times in 53 Posts Rep Power: 2429388	A Femme-FTM/Butch gathering Hi Aall. We are having a mini gathering in Minneapolis Oct 22 - 24, 2010 and I am here to recruit. Of course as a single femme I am very happy to invite single FTM/butches. At the same time, there are quite a few single butches/FTMs coming to the little bash and there appears to be a slight shortage of single femmes coming at this time. Well i just felt that single femmes should know about this opportunity . We are in the planning stages but please feel free to im me for more info and let me know if your interested in coming. April; aka hot-not

09-28-2010, 12:59 PM	#184
sylvie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Mr Mtn's babygirl Preferred Pronoun?: girly, she Relationship Status: fiercely protected ♥ Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Moving home in OR with Him VERY soooon !! Posts: 2,548 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,834 Thanked 7,501 Times in 1,850 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	hi everyone :-) just running through quick and waving hello to all .. and bumping this thread! __________________ my Mantra: i am letting go of angers, continuing to find forgiveness, welcoming inner peace & deserving of it all. my facebook weight loss page: http://www.facebook.com/asyllyjourney

09-28-2010, 05:43 PM	#186
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	Just coming in to say hi to everyone __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

09-28-2010, 06:45 PM	#187
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08-18-2010, 06:23 PM	#182
lipstixgal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: coupled Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,028 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 201 Thanked 1,690 Times in 1,064 Posts Rep Power: 1494761	I'm single too but not FTM's or butches here in NJ that I know of..

10-21-2010, 07:13 AM	#188
sylvie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Mr Mtn's babygirl Preferred Pronoun?: girly, she Relationship Status: fiercely protected ♥ Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Moving home in OR with Him VERY soooon !! Posts: 2,548 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,834 Thanked 7,501 Times in 1,850 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	passing through to say hello again.. this thread doesn't get used enough! maybe we need to throw a party and have some fun in here, heh __________________ my Mantra: i am letting go of angers, continuing to find forgiveness, welcoming inner peace & deserving of it all. my facebook weight loss page: http://www.facebook.com/asyllyjourney

10-21-2010, 07:18 AM	#189
MaggieBluIze Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Feisty Kick Butt Bratty Babygirl Femme LOL Preferred Pronoun?: Something Sweet Please =) Relationship Status: My rainbow bubble holds love, happiness and life with my sweet Husbutch Daddy Bass! Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Austin TX Baby!!! Posts: 2,154 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,912 Thanked 5,385 Times in 1,504 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Ooooooh Yes!!!!! Let's have a party!!!!!!! Morning Everyone!!!!! __________________ s her sweet Daddy Bass ~~http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a1...ion/maggie.jpg

10-21-2010, 07:27 AM	#190
sylvie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Mr Mtn's babygirl Preferred Pronoun?: girly, she Relationship Status: fiercely protected ♥ Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Moving home in OR with Him VERY soooon !! Posts: 2,548 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,834 Thanked 7,501 Times in 1,850 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	hauls out the ticklebox of decorations and gets the music woohooo, glad someone is in with me!! morning Maggie! __________________ my Mantra: i am letting go of angers, continuing to find forgiveness, welcoming inner peace & deserving of it all. my facebook weight loss page: http://www.facebook.com/asyllyjourney

10-21-2010, 09:18 AM	#192
paposeco Member How Do You Identify?: TG Male Preferred Pronoun?: he,him,sir,dood... Relationship Status: ISO my Queen... Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: ..is nice & peaceful. Posts: 272 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 286 Thanked 301 Times in 127 Posts Rep Power: 178137	Hi everyone, just zoomin' by...sippin' coffee and thinking, that I'm ready to date again, but not so much into the LDR thing...been there done that..not going to say "never" but.... Y'all have a great day.

10-22-2010, 08:13 AM	#195
MaggieBluIze Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Feisty Kick Butt Bratty Babygirl Femme LOL Preferred Pronoun?: Something Sweet Please =) Relationship Status: My rainbow bubble holds love, happiness and life with my sweet Husbutch Daddy Bass! Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Austin TX Baby!!! Posts: 2,154 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,912 Thanked 5,385 Times in 1,504 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Good Morning Everyone!!! TGIF!!!!!!!!! Have a great day and make some beautiful memories this weekend!!!! __________________ s her sweet Daddy Bass ~~http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a1...ion/maggie.jpg

11-04-2010, 01:15 PM	#196
Spoon Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Girlie Geek. Sofa King Queer. Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Searching. Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Michigan. Posts: 23 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6 Thanked 53 Times in 9 Posts Rep Power: 1905	Single Femme-ish here to bump this thread! Hi, everyone! __________________ "Where there is no hope, one must invent hope."---Albert Camus

11-04-2010, 01:50 PM	#197
MaggieBluIze Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Feisty Kick Butt Bratty Babygirl Femme LOL Preferred Pronoun?: Something Sweet Please =) Relationship Status: My rainbow bubble holds love, happiness and life with my sweet Husbutch Daddy Bass! Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Austin TX Baby!!! Posts: 2,154 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,912 Thanked 5,385 Times in 1,504 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Yay!!!!! Thanks!!!! Gonna Bump Bump Bump with you!!!! Have a great day!!!!!!!!!!!! __________________ s her sweet Daddy Bass ~~http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a1...ion/maggie.jpg

11-05-2010, 09:29 AM	#198
MaggieBluIze Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Feisty Kick Butt Bratty Babygirl Femme LOL Preferred Pronoun?: Something Sweet Please =) Relationship Status: My rainbow bubble holds love, happiness and life with my sweet Husbutch Daddy Bass! Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Austin TX Baby!!! Posts: 2,154 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,912 Thanked 5,385 Times in 1,504 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	TGIF!!!!!!!!!!! Happy Fabulous Friday Everyone!!!! Hope you have a wonderful day and make lots of memories this weekend!!! __________________ s her sweet Daddy Bass ~~http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a1...ion/maggie.jpg

11-05-2010, 10:42 AM	#199
Jesse Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Transguy Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Central West Coast of Florida Posts: 5,204 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34,866 Thanked 17,782 Times in 3,940 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Happy Friday Everyone! Make it Freaky Make it Fabulous Make it how you want it to be! __________________ “You’re so hard on yourself. Take a moment. Sit back. Marvel at your life: at the grief that softened you, at the heartache that widened you, at the suffering that strengthened you. Despite everything, you still grow. Be proud of this.”