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			There will be an event in Reno on Saturday, November 20, at 6:30 pm at the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			 Columbus, Ohio 
		Will be holding a Transgender Day of Remembrance event on Thursday, November 18, 2010 beginning at 7:00 p.m. at King Avenue United Methodist Church, located at 299 King Avenue, Columbus, 43201. King Avenue United Methodist Church is handicap accessible. The vigil will be ASL interpreted. `~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~ Orlando, Florida Will be holding Transgender Day of Remembrance events Wednesday, November 17th at 6:00 pm at the Valencia East Campus Building Movie Night - Screening of Boys Don’t Cry, transgender panel, and a candlelight vigil Saturday November 20th 8PM Lake Eola Candlelight Vigil 
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			Will be holding a Transgender Day of Remembrance event candlelight vigil, speakers, and live music. at the Marshall Student Center University of South Florida 4202 E Fowler Ave, MSC 4100 Tampa, FL 33620 For more details contact Gianna Love: gianna-love@hotmail.com Facebook link: http://www.facebook.com/event.php?eid=113619102034520& 
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			It is so sad to see the number of transpeople who have been murdered just this year!   
		
		
		
		
		
		
			 
		
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			Will be holding a Transgender Day of Remembrance event on Saturday, November 20, 2010 at 7:00 pm at the King of Peace MCC church 3150 5th Ave., St Petersburg FL 33713 
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			Will be holding a Transgender Day of Remembrance event on Friday, November 19, 2010 from 7:00 - 9:30 pm at The Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual & Transgender Community Center 208 W 13th St New York, NY 10011 ************************************************** ****** Dobbs Ferry, New York Will be holding a Transgender Day of Remembrance event on Saturday November 20, 2010 at 4:00 P.M. at the South Presbyterian Church 343 Broadway Dobbs Ferry, New York All are welcome 
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			Will be holding a Transgender Day of Remembrance event on Saturday, November 20, 2010 at 7:00 pm at the Ravenna United Methodist Church 5751 33rd Avenue, NE Seattle Washington, 98105 —– Spokane, Washington Will be holding a Transgender Day of Remembrance event on Friday, November 19th, from 6-9 PM at Spokane Community College. 1810 North Greene Street Spokane, Washington 99217 —– Tacoma, Washington Will be holding a Transgender Day of Remembrance memorial hosted by the Gender Alliance of the South Sound on Sunday, November 21, 2010 at 6:30 PM at the Tacoma Rainbow Center, 741 St. Helens St. —– 
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	will be holding a Transgender Day of Remembrance event on Saturday, November 20th, 2010. Gathering in front of the Carnegie Community Center - 401 Main St. (Main & Hastings) between 5:30 & 6pm Marching down Hastings St. west (at 6pm) to SFU Harbour Centre - 515 W. Hastings. Where we will converge on room 1800. (left of the escalators & right beside security office) There we will have speakers, an info table, multimedia/DVD & the memorialization of our fallen trans community family. Planning committee group http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Vantdor Facebook group http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=112582138799998  | 
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			Will be holding a Transgender Day of Remembrance event on Saturday, November 20, 2010, 7:00 - 9:00 pm at Bas Bleu Theatre 401 Pine St. Fort Collins, CO 80521 http://www.lambdacenter.org For more info, contact Mac@lambdacenter.org 
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			Transgender Day of Remembrance Candlelight Vigil 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Saturday, November 20 · 7:00pm - 9:00pm Corey Union Steps State University College at Cortland Cortland, NY "1 in 12 Transgender men and women will be the victim of Transphobic homicide or execution. I know and love at least 12 Transgender poeple in my life. I look at my Transgender friends and ask myself, "Who's next?". Come celebrate and commemorate the lives of the beautiful Transgender people who have been taken from us since last November 20. Be the change. Save lives." www.transgenderdor.org  | 
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			Oakland, California 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Will be holding a Transgender Day of Remembrance event on Friday, Nov 19, Preservation Park, Oakland, CA. Doors will open at 7 PM, ceremony at 7:30- 9:30 This is free and open to the community. The evening’s ceremony will feature speakers from the community as well as the reading of the names. Sacramento, California Will be holding a Transgender Day of Remembrance event on Saturday, November 20, 2010 at 6:30 PM at the Trinity Episcopal Cathedral 2620 Capital Avenue, Sacramento, CA. 95816 Stockton, California Will be holding a Transgender Day of Remembrance event on Sunday, November 21, 2010 at 7:00 pm Stribley Community Center Gymnasium 1760 E. Sonora Street Stockton, CA 95205 Keynote Speaker: Rev. Vicky Kolakowski, Esq. 
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			Trans Week of Remembrance @ the University of Toronto organised by the Centre for Women and Trans People.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Anyone know when and where the San Francisco one is gonna be?
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
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			Charlottesville, Virginia 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Will be holding a Transgender Day of Remembrance event at the University of Virginia’s Newcomb Hall Main Lounge, 3d floor, Main Lounge and Art Gallery, 07:00-10:00 pm. Living Gender, a student group of the University of Virginia’s LGBT Resource Center, Charlottesville, Virginia, will be holding a photo-exhibition, performance art, and round table discussion with guest speakers in observance of Transgender Day of Remembrance. —– Fairfax, Virginia will be holding a Transgender Day of Remembrance on Saturday, November 20, 2010 at 7:00 pm at the Metropolitan Community Church of Northern Virginia 10383 Democracy Ln, Fairfax, VA Attendees are invited to bring with them a canned good and/or an article of clothing for donation to TransGender Health Empowerment in Washington, DC —– Norfolk, Virginia will be holding a Transgender Day of Remembrance on Saturday, November 20, 2010 at 4:00 - 10:00 pm Open House and a time to reflect 7:00 pm candle light reading of names Candii House, 3309 Granby Street, Norfolk, VA 23508 - One block south of Park Place Medical - Trans Clinic. The house is in the middle of the block. Please park along 33rd and 34th Streets, in the driveway of the property (white, Victorian house) but please do NOT park along Granby Street. —– Richmond, Virginia Will be holding Transgender Day of Remembrance event Thursday 18 November at 7:00 P.M., Queer Action, the LGBTI student group at Virginia Commonwealth University holds a candlelight vigil at St. Mark’s Episcopal Church, in Richmond Saturday 20 November at 1:00 P.M., a Southern Magnolia, donated by PFLAG Richmond, will be dedicated as a memorial to all those lost to anti-transgender violence, on the South lawn of the Gay Community Center of Richmond. Saturday 20 November at 7:30 P.M. a candlelight vigil will be held at the downtown campus of the University of Richmond.  | 
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			Thanks for this thread.  My heart weeps for the injustice.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			This is what I could find on S.F. as listed on The Bar Area Reporter;http://www.ebar.com/news/article.php...s&article=4353 : 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			"In San Francisco, several local organizations are joining together to host a Transgender Day of Remembrance event, also on November 20. It takes place from 6 to 8 p.m. at the Asian and Pacific Islander Wellness Center, 730 Polk Street (at Ellis). Alexandra Byerly from the El/La Transgender Latina HIV Prevention Program will be the keynote speaker." There will also be one in Oakland that is listed on the site linked in the OP, if that is any help. 
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			Winnipeg, Manitoba Canada is hosting a TDOR event as well: 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			6th Annual Winnipeg Transgender Day of Remembrance Saturday, November 20 · 5:00pm - 7:00pm Circle of Life Thunderbird House, 715 Main St. Winnipeg’s 6th Annual Transgender Day of Remembrance (WTDOR) Remember. Honour. Embrace. Celebrate. Educate. Advocate. November 20, 2010 marks the sixth annual Winnipeg Transgender Day of Remembrance (WTDOR) and the 12th annual International TDOR. This day serves as an opportunity to recognize, honour, embrace, celebrate, and remember the people who encounter or endure discrimination, prejudice, persecution, isolation, or violence ...because of their [perceived] gender identity and/or expression. TDOR is also about raising awareness, educating, and advocating for the rights and recognition of individuals who identify as transgender, trans sexual, genderqueer, any variation of/from/beyond these. This free, all ages, event will be located in an accessible, drug and alcohol free venue. We will be handing out an agenda shortly, after the moment of silence there will be one song drummed. Facebook page: http://www.facebook.com/?ref=logo#!/...46869385358123 
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