Single FTM's & Femme's

JustLovelyJenn · 11-11-2010, 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Tranzman

Nice music Maggie, I've never heard that song before.

So speaking of appreciation, what makes you feel appreciated by a guy?

Alright... well, this can vary from person to person, of course... but its the little things.

Remembering what I put in my coffee
Kissing me cheek when they leave a room, or enter it
Saying thank you

Yeah.... the little things.

MaggieBluIze · 11-11-2010, 04:27 PM

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Originally Posted by JustLovelyJenn

Alright... well, this can vary from person to person, of course... but its the little things.

Remembering what I put in my coffee
Kissing me cheek when they leave a room, or enter it
Saying thank you

Yeah.... the little things.

Exactly!!!!!!!

Jesse · 11-11-2010, 04:30 PM

All very simple things

Which makes me wonder why sometimes people have such difficulty showing appreciation to their partner.

For me, a big thing is that a person take the time to listen to what I have to say, and even asking me what my opinions or feelings are about a thing, rather than have a conversation inside their own head that involves assuming I would think or feel a certain way. So I guess it could be said I feel more appreciated when a person takes the time to communicate openly with me.

MaggieBluIze · 11-11-2010, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Tranzman

All very simple things

Which makes me wonder why sometimes people have such difficulty showing appreciation to their partner.

For me, a big thing is that a person take the time to listen to what I have to say, and even asking me what my opinions or feelings are about a thing, rather than have a conversation inside their own head that involves assuming I would think or feel a certain way. So I guess it could be said I feel more appreciated when a person takes the time to communicate openly with me.

Of course you do ...
I, personally, think that should always be part of a relationship.
I would think, hope, that most feel the same way.
I count on the person I am with being a part of my thoughts and things going on inside of my head. Them being a part of processing things. Thinking things through. And then, of course, just be a part of the normal, everyday, regular stuff too.

JustLovelyJenn · 11-11-2010, 04:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Tranzman

All very simple things

Which makes me wonder why sometimes people have such difficulty showing appreciation to their partner.

For me, a big thing is that a person take the time to listen to what I have to say, and even asking me what my opinions or feelings are about a thing, rather than have a conversation inside their own head that involves assuming I would think or feel a certain way. So I guess it could be said I feel more appreciated when a person takes the time to communicate openly with me.

I couldnt agree more, and I think I would have to add this too my list. Even when someone does the little things, sometimes they forget to talk.... and listen.

Jesse · 11-11-2010, 06:00 PM

LMAO! I was just in the kitchen making cole slaw for the slaw dogs I am having for dinner tonight, and found myself thinking, "Boy this slaw sure is going to be good with those ribs!"

MaggieBluIze · 11-11-2010, 06:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Tranzman

LMAO! I was just in the kitchen making cole slaw for the slaw dogs I am having for dinner tonight, and found myself thinking, "Boy this slaw sure is going to be good with those ribs!"

LOL OMG!!!!!!! LOVE it!!!!!!!!

Thank you so very much for sharing!!!!!!!

I needed this ... Too funny ... This makes my night!!!!

morningstar55 · 11-12-2010, 06:52 AM

good morning singles
breakfast is on me...

11-11-2010, 04:30 PM	#3
Jesse Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Transguy Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Central West Coast of Florida Posts: 5,204 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34,866 Thanked 17,782 Times in 3,940 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	All very simple things Which makes me wonder why sometimes people have such difficulty showing appreciation to their partner. For me, a big thing is that a person take the time to listen to what I have to say, and even asking me what my opinions or feelings are about a thing, rather than have a conversation inside their own head that involves assuming I would think or feel a certain way. So I guess it could be said I feel more appreciated when a person takes the time to communicate openly with me. __________________ “You’re so hard on yourself. Take a moment. Sit back. Marvel at your life: at the grief that softened you, at the heartache that widened you, at the suffering that strengthened you. Despite everything, you still grow. Be proud of this.”

11-11-2010, 06:00 PM	#6
Jesse Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Transguy Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Central West Coast of Florida Posts: 5,204 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34,866 Thanked 17,782 Times in 3,940 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	LMAO! I was just in the kitchen making cole slaw for the slaw dogs I am having for dinner tonight, and found myself thinking, "Boy this slaw sure is going to be good with those ribs!" __________________ “You’re so hard on yourself. Take a moment. Sit back. Marvel at your life: at the grief that softened you, at the heartache that widened you, at the suffering that strengthened you. Despite everything, you still grow. Be proud of this.”

11-12-2010, 06:52 AM	#8
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	good morning singles breakfast is on me... __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.