Top 10 Lesbian Myths

[Kobi]

Lesbians are notorious bad dressers.

This always makes me chuckle. Tho, I did finally order my first ever fleece lined flannel shirt.

And sneakers can be formal footware - requires an attitude but can be done!

[LipstickLola]

I am not a bad dresser, casual most of the time, but not bad.......
I do not 'hate' anyone, some men aggravate me, but so does the toilet paper being hung wrong.
I do not have penis envy.
I had a wonderful senstive man, (I even said he had one ovary), still, he wasn't "right" he is a man. I like women, period.
LesbyLola

[Diva]

Originally Posted by Kobi

Lesbians are notorious bad dressers.

This always makes me chuckle. Tho, I did finally order my first ever fleece lined flannel shirt.

And sneakers can be formal footware - requires an attitude but can be done!

Maybe if they're blinged out.....

[Julie]

Originally Posted by Kobi

Lesbians are notorious bad dressers.

This always makes me chuckle. Tho, I did finally order my first ever fleece lined flannel shirt.

And sneakers can be formal footware - requires an attitude but can be done!

I am a Femme first - which means...
I am a FABULOUS dresser.
When I bring the Lesbian of myself into the equation.
You can find me wearing Birkenstocks.
This whole statement of thought is soooooo soooooo sooooooo
I am getting older and losing my words.
Is this a Lesbian thing?

[LipstickLola]

Originally Posted by InfiniteFemme

I am a Femme first - which means...
I am a FABULOUS dresser.
When I bring the Lesbian of myself into the equation.
You can find me wearing Birkenstocks.
This whole statement of thought is soooooo soooooo sooooooo
I am getting older and losing my words.
Is this a Lesbian thing?

What is the difference between being a femme and a lesbian? is one mutally exlclusive/inclusive of the other?? I'm seriously asking anyone who'd like to answer. Thank you IF for your answer the other day. I am hoping to see if someone can expand on your answer.

The reason I ask (you ask) , is that I feel like nothing I am, or feel, fits ANY of these subdivided labels that I find so prevalent here on the planet. Here I thought I was doing well to finally come out as a lesbian, only to find that well? hell.......that ain't all there is!!! I'm talkin years of self-evolution here. I wear Birks, but I wear boots too, and? you'll catch me in kitten heals on just the right occasion (tongue cheek here)
Is there anybody out there who 'gets me'???? think I'm strange?? (yes, tell me)
This is the lesbian myth thread, but it seems all encompassing
I am NOT in the least uncomfortable with who I am, but it seems as though I may indeed be misunderstanding myself, LOL...geebus!

[Julie]

Lola - I don't really think there is a clear cut definition of what femme is and means. It is individual for all of us. For me, it is not about what I wear - but who I am inside. I cannot explain it. It is like LOVE - there is no clear definition for Love, as it means something different to all of us.

I wish you luck in figuring all this out. And maybe you are simply a Lesbian Women, which is equally as fabulous. Just enjoy and love who you are, that is really all that matters at the end of the day.

[LipstickLola]

Originally Posted by InfiniteFemme

Lola - I don't really think there is a clear cut definition of what femme is and means. It is individual for all of us. For me, it is not about what I wear - but who I am inside. I cannot explain it. It is like LOVE - there is no clear definition for Love, as it means something different to all of us.

I wish you luck in figuring all this out. And maybe you are simply a Lesbian Women, which is equally as fabulous. Just enjoy and love who you are, that is really all that matters at the end of the day.

Well, thanks again!
Honestly, I'm so happy to be in this particular space,(finally figuring out I wasn't 'broken') I suppose there's always a chance I could become enlightened to something else, who knows? Life is like that, yes?

[Kobi]

Originally Posted by LipstickLola

Well, thanks again!
Honestly, I'm so happy to be in this particular space,(finally figuring out I wasn't 'broken') I suppose there's always a chance I could become enlightened to something else, who knows? Life is like that, yes?

You will learn more here on the Planet then you ever thought even was possible.
And, I suspect like the rest of us, you take what fits, try out a few new things, acknowledge the rest, and become a well rounded and informed
POQ i.e. person of queerness.

Kumbaya

[LipstickLola]

Originally Posted by Kobi

You will learn more here on the Planet then you ever thought even was possible.
And, I suspect like the rest of us, you take what fits, try out a few new things, acknowledge the rest, and become a well rounded and informed
POQ i.e. person of queerness.

Kumbaya

Oh I'm well rounded alright!
POQ eh? I like it
Peace out, LOL

[Sweet_Amor_Taino]

Ok I beleive that everyone is different and everyone has the right to love and fuck as they please BUT for me being an old school Butch I can not mentally imagine myself being fucked by my femme. OK you could call me Narrowed mind, limited, old fashion its OK I have been called all that already... I am just sharing.

[Kobi]

Originally Posted by InfiniteFemme

I am a Femme first - which means...
I am a FABULOUS dresser.
When I bring the Lesbian of myself into the equation.
You can find me wearing Birkenstocks.
This whole statement of thought is soooooo soooooo sooooooo
I am getting older and losing my words.
Is this a Lesbian thing?

Julie,

Breathe.

This is just another myth. It is a thread on lesbian myths. So, I was saying there is a myth that lesbians are poor dressers.

So this whole statement of thought is soooo soooo soooo mythical.

Capiche?

[Julie]

Originally Posted by Kobi

Julie,

Breathe.

This is just another myth. It is a thread on lesbian myths. So, I was saying there is a myth that lesbians are poor dressers.

So this whole statement of thought is soooo soooo soooo mythical.

Capiche?

LOL I just adore how literal you are.
Capiche.. Indeed.