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|  12-14-2010, 03:35 AM | #1061 | 
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|  12-14-2010, 03:57 AM | #1062 | 
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			Lighting a candle for ME this morning.  I'm working outside today it is 15 degrees and a breeze is blowing. 
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|  12-14-2010, 07:38 AM | #1063 | 
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			Not on site much. I come by to respond to messages mostly. And to check here and see how everyone is doing. I continue to light a candle each day for hope and solace and health for all who come here. This is a special place. A locus of peace and meditative harmony. May you all be blessed by the love which shines so brightly here ... As for me, it is a true winter ... short days ... darkness prevails ... waiting. I can reach Dolo by phone less and less. Her husband doesn't turn on the computer so we can call. Just on Sundays. Dolo doesn't remember to do it. I count the days to when I leave as I listen to the high pitched wheezes that accompanies each of her inhalations. She told me that they went to Germany to visit Christmas villages. I am glad for this bit of joy for her. I want to bring something, but don't know what ... nor why I would even think to do so. I think that times like this, one becomes not rational in their thoughts. I can't bring her time. I can't offer life ... Last edited by waxnrope; 12-14-2010 at 07:40 AM. | 
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|  12-14-2010, 08:12 AM | #1064 | 
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			For waxnrope and Dolo. May their bond from brighter times sustain their strength and connection throughout the darkest of times.   | 
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|  12-14-2010, 09:07 AM | #1065 | 
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|  12-14-2010, 09:26 AM | #1066 | |
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  Bring her memories of your little surprises: the crinkling cellophane and the taste of a peppermint candy cane. Things for her to hold and touch. A silk scarf, a simple strip of satin ribbon with a tiny bell, a tiny really soft baby toy like a fuzzy teddy bear (add a a splash of what you wear). Things for her to hear: Bring a tape recording of you singing to her. A small battery operated cassette player so others can sing and talk and leave her messages. My hope and prayers for a fast journey and good days and nights ahead for you and Dolo. Godspeed waxnrope. | |
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|  12-14-2010, 09:35 AM | #1067 | 
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			I'm lighting a candle for all those affected by the rain in the West and the cold temps in the mid~west to the east/northeast!  Stay dry/warm everyone! | 
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|  12-14-2010, 09:45 AM | #1068 | |
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  My heart goes out to you, and too Dolo, her family and loved ones. Just knowing your love is there, sending her energy, she can feel it and the presence of you. Know that, prayer is an amazing gift it sustains when we feel as if there is nothing left. This day I reach out to you and Dolo sending light, prayer and solace. Never give up, just when you think it's forever dark; a flicker of light renews you.   
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|  12-14-2010, 10:36 AM | #1069 | 
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|  12-14-2010, 01:28 PM | #1070 | 
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|  12-14-2010, 02:16 PM | #1071 | |
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|  12-14-2010, 08:38 PM | #1072 | 
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|  12-14-2010, 08:57 PM | #1073 | 
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|  12-14-2010, 10:10 PM | #1074 | 
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|  12-15-2010, 11:03 AM | #1075 | 
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|  12-15-2010, 04:19 PM | #1076 | 
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			The call came... it's too soon as I looked at origin of the phone call. No. It's too soon. She has to wait for me. I've got to say goodbye. She's quit eating and drinking fluids. Very weak. Please, no ideas or suggestions. Just prayers and light and whatever your spiritual practice involves. It's the intent. The fervor. The love that counts. Thank you all. | 
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|  12-15-2010, 07:32 PM | #1077 | |
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|  12-15-2010, 07:35 PM | #1078 | 
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|  12-15-2010, 07:39 PM | #1079 | |
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|  12-15-2010, 08:02 PM | #1080 | 
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	Rep Power: 0            |   Have you ever felt the need to let go? That no one cares. Would anyone care? That some say they do - yet when there is need no one is there. When you feel you have done all you can - and yet the 'answer' never comes? you have dug so deep that you can dig no longer. That you are tired. There is no rest. Then you look up and you see a light.. and a voice. and it calls to you to come towards it. That the answer is there. Remember, the answer is here.   | 
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