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Old 12-24-2010, 03:31 PM   #1
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Love n Koolaid to Everyone who has been lighting Candles for mah Niece.



Yesterday I got to talk to her for a brief moment,
convinced it would be the last time we spoke.


The Candles kept her going another night.

Perhaps the most important night of all.

They placed her into a Life Support Coma.

As of this morning, she has improved
enough to gain High Priority on the Transplant list!


This will hopefully be her 3rd Heart Transplant.



One of the tough factors of this...is knowing
someone must pass on in order to keep her here with us.

Keep her here with us please.
It's truly all I want for Christmas.


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Old 12-24-2010, 04:11 PM   #2
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Lighting a candle for my friend who is grieving her love she lost suddenly a few years back. This was a special time of year for them.
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Lighting these candles for all who need them & sending My love to each of you

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Lighting a critter candle today. Their little feets have got to be freezing



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Lights a candle for my Aunt Judy who passed away last night. She fought a hard courageous battle against bone cancer for some time now. I know she's chatting it up with her passed relatives and my dearly departed now no longer in pain and able to see now as her vision was robbed in the hospital a year ago by MRSA she caught there. Rest in peace Aunt Judy, I love you.

May this candle bring some sort of peace to my Uncle Eddie who was an extraordinary man in supporting her and taking care of her during this time.


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Lighting candles of peace and love for DomnNC & family, especially Uncle Eddie. I am so very sorry.





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For those who are seeking
warmth and compassion
crossing over
and miracles
understanding and light
love and a new day
jobs and a new home
kinship and hugs
The power of unity can make
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Lighting a candle today for a special friend in WVa who is in the hospital

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I took Ivan to another vet yesterday. His usual vet was out of town until today. Ivan has gone from .51g when he first visited his doctor 3 weeks ago, to .48g yesterday. Unfortunately, the doctor who saw him yesterday is not an expert in reptiles/amphibians, so she didn't really know how to help him. She did give him an antibiotic for possible pneumonia/infection and it's strawberry flavored!!

Ivan took another dose of worm medicine last night, along with a tiny drop of the new antibiotic. This morning, however, he would have none of the strawberry antibiotic. He does look a little better today, but he's still doing that open mouthed breathing thing, which is not good. He just *hates* opening his mouth for medicine and was adamant about not taking any more of it. He even wee'd on me to try to get away. I just couldn't bring myself to insist any further, so I guess we'll just have to wait and see if he gets better.

He's back up on the big ledge this morning, and I think he's ready to find his sleeping spot and settle in now. I'm just going to leave him alone and let him sleep. The vet suggested that I set the little frog house up for him as a hospital house. I may do that, but I keep thinking how attached he is to Myra. I'd hate to take him from her, especially since she appears to be completely okay, and I think she'd miss and grieve for him, too.

Maybe I'd better just leave well enough alone and let him rest.

Hard to know what to do.......

Thank you's to everyone here who has been reaching out, saying prayers and sending Ivan the healing light. I do think it is making a difference and I certainly appreciate the support!!!

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Lighting more candles of healin for Rlin. She's doin great about 1 week post stroke.

Thanks to everyone for the positive energy for her!
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