The older I get, the more I realize...

Kenna · 01-01-2011, 12:15 AM

TOIGTMIR....

what, who and which goals are more important to me....and that personal sacrifices aren't necessarily always a part of my "survival/crisis mode", that personal sacrifice(s) can be a good thing - that I shouldn't feel such a negative loss from letting go - and those sacrifices can make the important things even more important and cherished to me.

TOIGTMIR....

how important it is to live in a "proactive mode" instead of constantly in a "survival/crisis mode" or the physical or mental crash that comes after the crisis has been dealt with.

TOIGTMIR.....

how much strength I have within....and how good it feels to be comfortable with "coming into my own" after a very difficult journey.

JustLovelyJenn · 01-01-2011, 12:12 PM

The older I get the more I realize...

... I just cant party like I used to.

... My body wont let me abuse it anymore... I must pay the consequences.

storyofmylife · 01-15-2011, 04:06 AM

the older I get, the more I realize......
I need eye glasses

01-15-2011, 04:40 AM

the more i realize that patience is a necessity and a virtue. that MY timeline is not necessarily that of the Heavens.

the more i realize that there is only so much of oneself that can be given in self-sacrifice before being consumed by that quiet fire altogether. a time comes when i MUST think of myself first or else i cannot help anyone else.

the more i value the joys of solitude AND those of companionship. they must balance and complement each other in a relationship of whatever kind. both are necessary to my being.

the more i value the little happinesses: the savouring of a good cup of tea. the comfort of a loved ones arms. the journey of a fascinating book...

the more i enjoy the easy companionship this site. rare to find such varied people united by the Dance

thank you for this thread. i have appreciated reading the conclusions of others. they make me reflect upon what is important to me!

pres

StillettoDoll · 01-15-2011, 06:02 AM

That fast food really taste bad .

Starbuck · 01-15-2011, 03:49 PM

The older I get, the more I realize that when I was little and my momma sneezed and yelled "shit!", it's not funny now!

01-01-2011, 12:15 AM	#1
Kenna Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Fiery, Sassy, Tough As Nails, Femme Tomboy Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: I am your favorite hello and hardest goodbye. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NC & CO Posts: 4,806 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,624 Thanked 12,189 Times in 3,779 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	TOIGTMIR.... what, who and which goals are more important to me....and that personal sacrifices aren't necessarily always a part of my "survival/crisis mode", that personal sacrifice(s) can be a good thing - that I shouldn't feel such a negative loss from letting go - and those sacrifices can make the important things even more important and cherished to me. TOIGTMIR.... how important it is to live in a "proactive mode" instead of constantly in a "survival/crisis mode" or the physical or mental crash that comes after the crisis has been dealt with. TOIGTMIR..... how much strength I have within....and how good it feels to be comfortable with "coming into my own" after a very difficult journey. __________________ **************************** She has been through hell, so believe me when I say, fear her when she looks into a fire and smiles. ~E.Corona~

01-01-2011, 12:12 PM	#2
JustLovelyJenn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: That's Need to Know Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Aberdeen, WA Posts: 4,478 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 12,464 Thanked 13,991 Times in 3,684 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	The older I get the more I realize... ... I just cant party like I used to. ... My body wont let me abuse it anymore... I must pay the consequences. __________________ --Jenn

01-15-2011, 04:40 AM	#4
HoneyedChrysanthemum Guest Tournaments Won: 1 Posts: n/a My Photo Gallery	the older i get... the more i realize that patience is a necessity and a virtue. that MY timeline is not necessarily that of the Heavens. the more i realize that there is only so much of oneself that can be given in self-sacrifice before being consumed by that quiet fire altogether. a time comes when i MUST think of myself first or else i cannot help anyone else. the more i value the joys of solitude AND those of companionship. they must balance and complement each other in a relationship of whatever kind. both are necessary to my being. the more i value the little happinesses: the savouring of a good cup of tea. the comfort of a loved ones arms. the journey of a fascinating book... the more i enjoy the easy companionship this site. rare to find such varied people united by the Dance thank you for this thread. i have appreciated reading the conclusions of others. they make me reflect upon what is important to me! pres

01-15-2011, 06:02 AM	#5
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01-15-2011, 04:06 AM	#3
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