What do YOU need to feel loved?

Lynn · 01-03-2011, 10:27 PM

To feel loved, I need to be accepted as I am, without a need for me to change in order to meet anyone else's expectations. I need to be able to ask for and get hugs and support. I will feel loved if I am loved according to my own needs and desires, and not those defined by another. I feel loved when I am listened to and HEARD, and when I am CONSIDERED. When we do something just because I want to do it, and when she is happy because *I* am happy, I feel loved. And, when you tell me how you need to be loved and then let me love you that way, I also feel loved. xxoo

I do feel loved.

01-03-2011, 10:27 PM	#1
Lynn Member How Do You Identify?: Unabashed Feminine Lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: Her, She Relationship Status: Married! Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Upstate NY Posts: 689 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,499 Thanked 2,413 Times in 505 Posts Rep Power: 9668976	To feel loved, I need to be accepted as I am, without a need for me to change in order to meet anyone else's expectations. I need to be able to ask for and get hugs and support. I will feel loved if I am loved according to my own needs and desires, and not those defined by another. I feel loved when I am listened to and HEARD, and when I am CONSIDERED. When we do something just because I want to do it, and when she is happy because I am happy, I feel loved. And, when you tell me how you need to be loved and then let me love you that way, I also feel loved. xxoo I do feel loved. __________________ In the flush of love's light we dare be brave And suddenly we see that love costs all we are and will ever be. Yet it is only love which sets us free. Maya Angelou Wedding Photos: https://www.facebook.com/media/set/?...1&l=22b092b98c