Would you date yourself? - Page 4

asphaltcowboi · 01-08-2011, 09:28 AM

no!!! im way to butch for me!

dykeumentary · 01-08-2011, 12:07 PM

I'd date me, there surely would never be a dull moment. Probably wouldn't last long though, because I'd never get a word in.

Julie · 01-08-2011, 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by JAGG

Well I can cook for myself, I don't need that. I mean ...ah ...okay define cook? I heat stuff up real good. I wouldn't say I like cooking but I do like eating so, there ya have it.

Define Cooking...
Preparing delicious meals from scratch (scratch me out)

Seriously -- Why would anybody want to date someone just like themselves?
Where would be the fun?
Where would be the allure?
Where would be the mystery?
Where would be the debate?

And what about sex?
What if you are a TOP - would you constantly Top yourself?
If you are bottom - MY GOD... talk about suffering.
And if you are a switch - well... Who goes first?

Why would anybody want to date someone just like them?

The_Lady_Snow · 01-08-2011, 12:16 PM

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Originally Posted by InfiniteFemme

Define Cooking...
Preparing delicious meals from scratch (scratch me out)

Seriously -- Why would anybody want to date someone just like themselves?
Where would be the fun?
Where would be the allure?
Where would be the mystery?
Where would be the debate?

And what about sex?
What if you are a TOP - would you constantly Top yourself?
If you are bottom - MY GOD... talk about suffering.
And if you are a switch - well... Who goes first?

Why would anybody want to date someone just like them?

Cause Kobi wanted to know????

DapperButch · 01-08-2011, 12:18 PM

No.

Now there is good stuff about me - integrity, honestly, good communicator, good listener and emotional supporter, loyal, kind, great in a crisis....but...

I like someone who is more gentle in nature and is a different kind/type of nurturer than I tend to be (no, I can't describe it..but it is a different way of nurturing...the way I nurture wouldn't meet my needs).

In terms of values and general approach to life, I seek someone similar to me.

Ryobi · 01-08-2011, 12:36 PM

My first reaction was no. But, upon further review, Me, Myself and I already have a good relationship going, I'm a good guy, have a big heart, and don't take much for granted. So, my answer is yes. Yes, I would date Myself.

shadows papa · 01-08-2011, 12:46 PM

Would I date me? I will say yes,but with a caveat; I am fairly intelligent and can hold a good convo, attentive,funny,loyal, and though I am steady as a rock, I can be spontaneous and unpredictable. I think those are good traits for being dateable. (is dateable a word??) On the caveat emptor side... I don't like crowds and will usually be one of the first to leave if an event goes much past 11 pm. I live for working out, ANYTHING to do with bikes, triathlons, etc. so much of my time, at times, will be tied up with getting ready for some type of event.

I tend to live inside my own head a LOT, so if silence bothered a potential date, that would be an issue. I am a "quantum leaper" in my thought process and will spew forth a soliloquy that may start with how strong ants are for their size and end with why Greek, Doric, French Provincial architecture intriques me, stopping along the way at dogs,bikes, and the price of gas, etc. Luckily I have found my perfect counterpart and she actually LIKES these things about me... so YES I would date me, but it's a moot point!!

Soft*Silver · 01-08-2011, 03:27 PM

well, my impish first thought was to be funny and say that ever since I strapped on, my dating pool got smaller, so dating myself might be my only option but....thats not true at all...funny but not true...

At the moment I wouldnt date me because I am emotionally not available. I am not damaged goods. I just am not emotionally willing to participate in a romantic relationship. So, no, I wouldnt put myself in that position.

If I was emotionally available? No. I am bullheaded and two bullheaded people in a relationship does not work. Locked horns do not end up in stalemate. It oftens ends up in a blood bath. I am also the worst possible combination of being bullheaded AND sensitive...so imagine bloodbath and tears when I am with someone like myself..or someone deft and clumsy at relationships. My best companion tends to be someone who helps me lighten up and makes me laugh. Its like I sit around in a bathtub full of sorrow sometimes and they have to pull that damn plug so we can fill the tub with bubbles. I respond really really well to that!

princessbelle · 01-08-2011, 04:04 PM

No way!!!!! I am wayyyy too much of a girl for my personal taste in dating. I couldn't wait over an hour for me to get ready to go out on a date. I don't have enough patience to put up with me.

cuddlyfemme · 01-08-2011, 04:06 PM

Not at all.....i'm way to femme

Dutch Leonard · 01-08-2011, 06:43 PM

I've never looked in the mirror and said "I'd hit that!"

I'm not my type. And if I did, I'd dump myself for the first femme that smiled and flashed some cleavage at me.

Nat · 01-08-2011, 06:43 PM

I do date myself.

I take myself to the movies, take myself to museums and cafes and trips. I sleep with myself. I don't even mind myself snoring. I even buy myself flowers sometimes.

Dutch Leonard · 01-08-2011, 06:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Nat

I do date myself.

*snicker* me too, but I'd still dump myself for the first femme that came along.

Glenn · 01-08-2011, 08:54 PM

When I was dating myself it worked out so well that I married myself. I cheated on myself a couple of times, but in time I forgave myself, and now I'm more together than ever!

RockOn · 01-08-2011, 09:43 PM

I would not and could not date myself. It would scare the pure hell out of me to see me coming at me with my strap on ... I would run for the hills.

I am attracted to the girly (femme) types.

Your posts are hilarious ... fun reading them!

Soft*Silver · 01-09-2011, 10:52 PM

did I misunderstand the original post? Didnt it state not to worry about the butch-femme part of ourselves. For heavens sakes, thats a given in our polarized world. I wouldnt date a femme.

(Oh..wait...maybe I would...but she would have to be a submissive.)

Arwen · 01-10-2011, 12:00 AM

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Originally Posted by June

After tonight's dinner, not only would I date myself, I would marry me and give me a very large pink diamond set in platinum.

That's tacky.
Give me it.
I'll date you.

Arwen · 01-10-2011, 12:14 AM

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Originally Posted by June

Only if I get to be The Daddy.

You are my only DaddyJune.

Arwen · 01-10-2011, 12:30 AM

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Originally Posted by June

Excellent! I can't wait till you fondle my *bits* just be sure you don't cut me with that rock, girl.

This is what's called "Negotiation". I hope everyone is taking note of how fast The Arwen is now running away smoothly this is going.

I hear my other Daddy calling. I'll be right back. No really....

theoddz · 01-10-2011, 09:31 AM

Of *course* I would date myself.

One doesn't run across someone like me just every day, you know.

~Theo~

01-08-2011, 09:28 AM	#61
asphaltcowboi Senior Member How Do You Identify?: butch Relationship Status: HAPPY Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: ..... Posts: 1,509 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,367 Thanked 3,297 Times in 1,042 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	no!!! im way to butch for me! __________________

01-08-2011, 12:07 PM	#62
dykeumentary Member How Do You Identify?: butch dyke Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 449 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 341 Thanked 1,548 Times in 359 Posts Rep Power: 19160663	I'd date me, there surely would never be a dull moment. Probably wouldn't last long though, because I'd never get a word in. __________________ The Origins of Butch & Femme (a retelling): https://youtu.be/U7VkXpZl4Mk Watch more of my funny butch/femme movies here: https://www.youtube.com/dykeumentary1

01-08-2011, 12:18 PM	#65
DapperButch Roadster Guy How Do You Identify?: FTM, Stone Butch Preferred Pronoun?: He Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Northeast Posts: 7,745 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 26,545 Thanked 26,809 Times in 5,771 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	No. Now there is good stuff about me - integrity, honestly, good communicator, good listener and emotional supporter, loyal, kind, great in a crisis....but... I like someone who is more gentle in nature and is a different kind/type of nurturer than I tend to be (no, I can't describe it..but it is a different way of nurturing...the way I nurture wouldn't meet my needs). In terms of values and general approach to life, I seek someone similar to me. __________________ -Dapper Are you educated or indoctrinated?

01-08-2011, 12:36 PM	#66
Ryobi Member How Do You Identify?: TG Stone Butch. Over all, I identify by living my life. Preferred Pronoun?: He/His Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Upper Midwest Posts: 633 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 683 Thanked 1,238 Times in 357 Posts Rep Power: 12468328	My first reaction was no. But, upon further review, Me, Myself and I already have a good relationship going, I'm a good guy, have a big heart, and don't take much for granted. So, my answer is yes. Yes, I would date Myself. __________________ "If you can't do great things, do small things in a great way" Napoleon Hill. "To choose a word is to choose a world" Anonymous

01-08-2011, 12:46 PM	#67
shadows papa Member How Do You Identify?: With a Warning Label Preferred Pronoun?: Her Bastard Relationship Status: Peaceful Easy Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Back Where I Come From Posts: 699 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,223 Thanked 1,643 Times in 484 Posts Rep Power: 3193790	Would I date me? I will say yes,but with a caveat; I am fairly intelligent and can hold a good convo, attentive,funny,loyal, and though I am steady as a rock, I can be spontaneous and unpredictable. I think those are good traits for being dateable. (is dateable a word??) On the caveat emptor side... I don't like crowds and will usually be one of the first to leave if an event goes much past 11 pm. I live for working out, ANYTHING to do with bikes, triathlons, etc. so much of my time, at times, will be tied up with getting ready for some type of event. I tend to live inside my own head a LOT, so if silence bothered a potential date, that would be an issue. I am a "quantum leaper" in my thought process and will spew forth a soliloquy that may start with how strong ants are for their size and end with why Greek, Doric, French Provincial architecture intriques me, stopping along the way at dogs,bikes, and the price of gas, etc. Luckily I have found my perfect counterpart and she actually LIKES these things about me... so YES I would date me, but it's a moot point!! __________________ "Cry,cuss,sling snot, whatever. Just KEEP PEDALING!!" Shad

01-08-2011, 03:27 PM	#68
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,594 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,948 Thanked 15,897 Times in 4,064 Posts Rep Power*: 21474857	well, my impish first thought was to be funny and say that ever since I strapped on, my dating pool got smaller, so dating myself might be my only option but....thats not true at all...funny but not true... At the moment I wouldnt date me because I am emotionally not available. I am not damaged goods. I just am not emotionally willing to participate in a romantic relationship. So, no, I wouldnt put myself in that position. If I was emotionally available? No. I am bullheaded and two bullheaded people in a relationship does not work. Locked horns do not end up in stalemate. It oftens ends up in a blood bath. I am also the worst possible combination of being bullheaded AND sensitive...so imagine bloodbath and tears when I am with someone like myself..or someone deft and clumsy at relationships. My best companion tends to be someone who helps me lighten up and makes me laugh. Its like I sit around in a bathtub full of sorrow sometimes and they have to pull that damn plug so we can fill the tub with bubbles. I respond really really well to that! __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears

01-08-2011, 04:04 PM	#69
princessbelle Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme ones Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Tennessee Posts: 6,100 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,380 Thanked 30,496 Times in 5,198 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	No way!!!!! I am wayyyy too much of a girl for my personal taste in dating. I couldn't wait over an hour for me to get ready to go out on a date. I don't have enough patience to put up with me. __________________ ~ I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~ Maya Angelou

01-08-2011, 04:06 PM	#70
cuddlyfemme Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: her/she Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: South Carolina Posts: 2,271 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 717 Thanked 2,452 Times in 1,270 Posts Rep Power: 11496123	Not at all.....i'm way to femme

01-08-2011, 06:43 PM	#71
Dutch Leonard Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Butch Tournaments Won: 7 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: East of the Rockies Posts: 291 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,901 Thanked 389 Times in 120 Posts Rep Power: 4100778	I've never looked in the mirror and said "I'd hit that!" I'm not my type. And if I did, I'd dump myself for the first femme that smiled and flashed some cleavage at me.

01-08-2011, 06:43 PM	#72
Nat Senior Member How Do You Identify?: bigender (DID System) Preferred Pronoun?: he/him or alter-specific Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Central TX Posts: 3,537 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,047 Thanked 13,968 Times in 2,589 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I do date myself. I take myself to the movies, take myself to museums and cafes and trips. I sleep with myself. I don't even mind myself snoring. I even buy myself flowers sometimes. __________________ I'm a fountain of blood. In the shape of a girl. - Bjork What is to give light must endure burning. -Viktor Frankl

01-08-2011, 08:54 PM	#74
Glenn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Ol butch bones. Preferred Pronoun?: Old thing Relationship Status: Too old to play. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: :rolleyes: Posts: 1,547 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,602 Thanked 3,729 Times in 1,095 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	When I was dating myself it worked out so well that I married myself. I cheated on myself a couple of times, but in time I forgave myself, and now I'm more together than ever!

01-08-2011, 09:43 PM	#75
RockOn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: sitting over there ----->>>>> :) Preferred Pronoun?: .... Relationship Status: .... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .... Posts: 3,522 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,081 Thanked 10,304 Times in 2,610 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	I would not and could not date myself. It would scare the pure hell out of me to see me coming at me with my strap on ... I would run for the hills. I am attracted to the girly (femme) types. Your posts are hilarious ... fun reading them!

01-09-2011, 10:52 PM	#76
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,594 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,948 Thanked 15,897 Times in 4,064 Posts Rep Power*: 21474857	did I misunderstand the original post? Didnt it state not to worry about the butch-femme part of ourselves. For heavens sakes, thats a given in our polarized world. I wouldnt date a femme. (Oh..wait...maybe I would...but she would have to be a submissive.) __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears

01-10-2011, 09:31 AM	#80
theoddz Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Cranky Old Poop Preferred Pronoun?: Mr. Beast Relationship Status: Married to a beautiful babe whom I don't deserve. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Central Texas Posts: 3,546 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,163 Thanked 9,941 Times in 2,517 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Of course I would date myself. One doesn't run across someone like me just every day, you know. *~Theo~* __________________ *"All that is gold does not glitter, Not all those who wander are lost; The old that is strong does not wither, Deep roots are not reached by the frost."* -- J. R. R. Tolkien