Support for HarleyLuvnButch

Surayna · 12-27-2009, 07:38 PM

Rest peacefully Matthew -

Your family and friends are in our thoughts and prayers.

PinkieLee · 12-28-2009, 08:36 AM

Harley... I am so very sorry for your loss. I know that there are no words that express the sorrow in your heart, just please know that you have many friends here lifting you & Matthew up in prayer.

Matthew was an incredible fighter and encouraging & uplifting spirit ~ something he learned well from you.

I pray for peace and comfort for you and all of your loved ones during this difficult time.

Tonya

daisygrrl · 12-28-2009, 09:02 AM

I'm so sorry for your loss

Words fail me, so I'm sending hugs

HumV4me · 12-28-2009, 03:59 PM

Thank you so much everyone for your kind words of support... I know Harley will appreciate them when she has time.

I got to talk to her sister last night... they are projecting the mass or funeral in about 2 weeks. I have made myself available for this weekend just in case there needs to be another helping hand. So far, right now, there are a few friends there supporting her.

I am really fearful for Carolyn now that Matthew is passed on to his next journey. She lived her whole life for the past 17 years, for him. He was her world. Shucks, all kids were her world... a lil baby can't even get brought into the room without her face lighting up. She has to hold it. Her spirit finds strength and joy in young spirits. I hope she will beable to continue feeling for others as she has in the past.

Anyhow, I feel like I'm rambling on and on.

Thanks again ya'll for everything.

Bit · 12-28-2009, 04:17 PM

{{{{{{{{{{{{{Harley}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Bit · 12-28-2009, 04:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by HumV4me

I am really fearful for Carolyn now that Matthew is passed on to his next journey.

{{{{{{{{{Alicia Ann}}}}}}}}}}}} Sweetheart, grief changes people, it's true, and Harley will have a huge adjustment to make. That's not usually easy. I think the best thing anyone can do is to just be there, yanno?

NotAnAverageGuy · 12-28-2009, 04:27 PM

I prolly don't know Harley or Matthew but I want to send my condolences to the family for their loss.

cara · 12-28-2009, 04:32 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss, Harley. My heart is aching for you.

*sending lotsa hugs though they hardly seem enough*

HumV4me · 12-30-2009, 06:11 PM

Ok... sorry it took a couple of days to get this to everyone...

Funeral services for Matthew will be this Saturday, January 2nd 2009.

It will be held at Davis funeral Home.... 2127 W. Charleston Blvd. (near Rancho Blvd.)

Visitation will be from 11:00 am till 1:00 pm.

Services will start at 1:00 pm.

There will be a reception at Matthews home... 2613 Yardley st. Las Vegas Nevada 89102

My home will be open for anyone who is traveling... I live in Barstow, only 2 hours from Vegas... I have room in my car for 1 more person... seating 3 deep in the back seat with my "SIS" and I... the boi's get to drive.

We will be leaving around 7:30 am due to it being New Years weekend and all. We will be coming back that evening cause most of us have to work the following day.

Please call me if you'd like to meet up so we can follow one another there... my number is (909) 844-0962.

OH! And I almost forgot... Matthews favorite colors are Black and Blue... for those who worry about tie colors and such.

I look forward to hearing and seeing from ya'll.

HumV4me · 12-31-2009, 12:05 AM

Ok I never though about giving ya'll Matthews last name... ((((thanks friend))))

Matthew Colarusso.

I soooo appreciate all the in put and /or questions... this is such a learning process in it's on way.

We all love ya'll!! ( I can't help my country-fied self. ;-)

HumV4me · 01-01-2010, 11:50 AM

Good Morning... Corky, cara, Bit, daisygrrl, PinkieLee, Surayna, Gemme, Wolfy and everyone... thank you soooo much for all your support.

Harley will be able to see your hugs and thoughts soon... even if I have to take the laptop!

I've been tossing an idea around and I was remembering somewhere where there were butterflies released. I really connected in that ceremonial custom.

I was communicating with Lorreta (Harley's sister) and found out they could use something for the house, for the reception.

Some things mentioned were:

chips
dips
soda
covered dish
baked goods
plastic ware

I hope everyone is safe on this New Year Day. Oh... I also hope everyone took a moment to look at the Blue Moon, last night. Last moon of the decade, First moon of the yea,r Full moon all around... We will see another in 19 years.

Talk about new beginnings.

HumV4me · 01-09-2011, 05:12 PM

wow it's been a year already.

Just_G · 01-09-2011, 05:15 PM

I think about both of them quite often....hard to believe it has been a year!

12-27-2009, 07:38 PM	#1
Surayna Member How Do You Identify?: Femme - babygirl Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Incredibly content, amazingly happy, and loved by some wonderful people! Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: PNW Posts: 179 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 93 Thanked 82 Times in 36 Posts Rep Power: 17	Rest peacefully Matthew - Your family and friends are in our thoughts and prayers. __________________ "The more you love, the more you can love – and the more intensely you love." ~Lazarus Long~ "Love is more than three words mumbled before bedtime. Love is sustained by action, a pattern of devotion in the things we do for each other every day." ~Nicholas Sparks~ "Bite Marks Are Love Notes Written In Flesh" ~anonymous~

12-28-2009, 09:02 AM	#3
daisygrrl Member How Do You Identify?: mouthy but adorable; kinky Gerbera Preferred Pronoun?: hey, cutie (or dudette) Relationship Status: xoxo Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: The South (Gooogia peach) Posts: 475 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,157 Thanked 525 Times in 223 Posts Rep Power: 1065210	I'm so sorry for your loss Words fail me, so I'm sending hugs __________________ You can’t change that system by just getting your own rights, tinkering with the engine and leaving. You have to take on the whole machine. --Riki Anne Wilchins Hold on to the lessons, let go of the pain. --Leslie Feinberg

12-28-2009, 03:59 PM	#4
HumV4me Member How Do You Identify?: FEMME Preferred Pronoun?: Honey, Baby, Love, Dearest Relationship Status: in an animal house Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: CALIFORNIA Posts: 131 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 49 Thanked 75 Times in 34 Posts Rep Power: 100332	Thank you so much everyone for your kind words of support... I know Harley will appreciate them when she has time. I got to talk to her sister last night... they are projecting the mass or funeral in about 2 weeks. I have made myself available for this weekend just in case there needs to be another helping hand. So far, right now, there are a few friends there supporting her. I am really fearful for Carolyn now that Matthew is passed on to his next journey. She lived her whole life for the past 17 years, for him. He was her world. Shucks, all kids were her world... a lil baby can't even get brought into the room without her face lighting up. She has to hold it. Her spirit finds strength and joy in young spirits. I hope she will beable to continue feeling for others as she has in the past. Anyhow, I feel like I'm rambling on and on. Thanks again ya'll for everything. __________________ Alicia Ann

12-30-2009, 06:11 PM	#9
HumV4me Member How Do You Identify?: FEMME Preferred Pronoun?: Honey, Baby, Love, Dearest Relationship Status: in an animal house Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: CALIFORNIA Posts: 131 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 49 Thanked 75 Times in 34 Posts Rep Power: 100332	Ok... sorry it took a couple of days to get this to everyone... Funeral services for Matthew will be this Saturday, January 2nd 2009. It will be held at Davis funeral Home.... 2127 W. Charleston Blvd. (near Rancho Blvd.) Visitation will be from 11:00 am till 1:00 pm. Services will start at 1:00 pm. There will be a reception at Matthews home... 2613 Yardley st. Las Vegas Nevada 89102 My home will be open for anyone who is traveling... I live in Barstow, only 2 hours from Vegas... I have room in my car for 1 more person... seating 3 deep in the back seat with my "SIS" and I... the boi's get to drive. We will be leaving around 7:30 am due to it being New Years weekend and all. We will be coming back that evening cause most of us have to work the following day. Please call me if you'd like to meet up so we can follow one another there... my number is (909) 844-0962. OH! And I almost forgot... Matthews favorite colors are Black and Blue... for those who worry about tie colors and such. I look forward to hearing and seeing from ya'll. __________________ Alicia Ann

12-31-2009, 12:05 AM	#10
HumV4me Member How Do You Identify?: FEMME Preferred Pronoun?: Honey, Baby, Love, Dearest Relationship Status: in an animal house Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: CALIFORNIA Posts: 131 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 49 Thanked 75 Times in 34 Posts Rep Power: 100332	Ok I never though about giving ya'll Matthews last name... ((((thanks friend)))) Matthew Colarusso. I soooo appreciate all the in put and /or questions... this is such a learning process in it's on way. We all love ya'll!! ( I can't help my country-fied self. ;-) __________________ Alicia Ann

12-28-2009, 08:36 AM	#2
PinkieLee Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Relationship Status: I need ya boo, gotta see ya boo Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Big Money Texas Posts: 4,708 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 24,309 Thanked 13,075 Times in 3,049 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Harley... I am so very sorry for your loss. I know that there are no words that express the sorrow in your heart, just please know that you have many friends here lifting you & Matthew up in prayer. Matthew was an incredible fighter and encouraging & uplifting spirit ~ something he learned well from you. I pray for peace and comfort for you and all of your loved ones during this difficult time. Tonya

12-28-2009, 04:17 PM	#5
Bit Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Stonefemme Relationship Status: married to Gryph Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Wichita, KS Posts: 2,177 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,126 Thanked 3,770 Times in 1,264 Posts Rep Power: 10778870	{{{{{{{{{{{{{Harley}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

12-28-2009, 04:27 PM	#7
NotAnAverageGuy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Trans Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 1,723 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 109 Thanked 282 Times in 178 Posts Rep Power: 0	I prolly don't know Harley or Matthew but I want to send my condolences to the family for their loss.

12-28-2009, 04:32 PM	#8
cara Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer/lesbian femme Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: Married to my love 08.15.15 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Indianapolis, IN Posts: 3,401 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,995 Thanked 13,255 Times in 2,725 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I'm so sorry for your loss, Harley. My heart is aching for you. sending lotsa hugs though they hardly seem enough

01-01-2010, 11:50 AM	#11
HumV4me Member How Do You Identify?: FEMME Preferred Pronoun?: Honey, Baby, Love, Dearest Relationship Status: in an animal house Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: CALIFORNIA Posts: 131 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 49 Thanked 75 Times in 34 Posts Rep Power: 100332	Good Morning... Corky, cara, Bit, daisygrrl, PinkieLee, Surayna, Gemme, Wolfy and everyone... thank you soooo much for all your support. Harley will be able to see your hugs and thoughts soon... even if I have to take the laptop! I've been tossing an idea around and I was remembering somewhere where there were butterflies released. I really connected in that ceremonial custom. I was communicating with Lorreta (Harley's sister) and found out they could use something for the house, for the reception. Some things mentioned were: chips dips soda covered dish baked goods plastic ware I hope everyone is safe on this New Year Day. Oh... I also hope everyone took a moment to look at the Blue Moon, last night. Last moon of the decade, First moon of the yea,r Full moon all around... We will see another in 19 years. Talk about new beginnings. __________________ Alicia Ann

01-09-2011, 05:12 PM	#12
HumV4me Member How Do You Identify?: FEMME Preferred Pronoun?: Honey, Baby, Love, Dearest Relationship Status: in an animal house Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: CALIFORNIA Posts: 131 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 49 Thanked 75 Times in 34 Posts Rep Power: 100332	wow it's been a year already. __________________ Alicia Ann

01-09-2011, 05:15 PM	#13
Just_G Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch, Switch, Comedian...G...whichever. Preferred Pronoun?: He....with an e! Relationship Status: I'll take kinky & twisted for $200, Alex!! Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: in the middle Posts: 2,281 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 874 Thanked 6,165 Times in 1,450 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	I think about both of them quite often....hard to believe it has been a year! __________________ Happy are those who dream and are ready to pay the price to make them come true!