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Old 11-09-2009, 07:43 PM   #1
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First, thank you, dear bonne, for including me & my kind in the mix (ladypeople). I feel so...accepted. *sniff*

Next, "fromance" is absolutely ridiculous. Which is why I like it. We all have our femme crushes. It's how we express that little extra affection to those that we adore/relate to/respect/admire/think are smart/etc.

And they're different than our friendships with straight girlfriends because we share the experience of being queer femmes. (Provided this is how we choose to identify.)

The difficulties and quirks are no different than with any friendships, I think. They are as specific to the friendship as the individuals. All friendships bear their share of struggles sometimes. Some flounder, some fail. Most, thankfully, last and grow with time. Our shared experiences forge a stronger bond between us.

So, I'm all for fromances. Poly-fromances. We should have them as often and as much as possible.
I have to SHARE you?

Ok fine. I just can't quit you.
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Old 11-09-2009, 07:53 PM   #2
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I have to SHARE you?

Ok fine. I just can't quit you.
Super, are we in a polywomance with e?
I am so far away I guess I cannot be the primary.

(is that what it's called? I am not up on poly-lingo too good)
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Old 11-09-2009, 07:56 PM   #3
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Ladieeeeeepeoples,

Don't fight.

There's plenty to go around.



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Old 11-09-2009, 08:01 PM   #4
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Super, are we in a polywomance with e?
I am so far away I guess I cannot be the primary.

(is that what it's called? I am not up on poly-lingo too good)
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Ladieeeeeepeoples,

Don't fight.

There's plenty to go around.



Night vision goggles at the ready!

Whoaaaaaaaaamance.
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And if you ain't gettin enough you need mo'mance.

And if you ain't got nobody you got no'mance.

And if you're needy and clingy you got no chance.

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And if you ain't gettin enough you need mo'mance.

And if you ain't got nobody you got no'mance.

And if you're needy and clingy you got no chance.
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And if you ain't gettin enough you need mo'mance.

And if you ain't got nobody you got no'mance.

And if you're homely you got no chance.
Somebody rep this.

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ETA: it was edited. Hmp.
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Somebody rep this.

Stat.

ETA: it was edited. Hmp.

I was being super hostess-ey and repping everyone for saying anything and so can't rep it right now.

You are right e about the edit! Our super fast quoting action caught it on tape!
Mr/Ms. Her, I like the "needy, clingy" version much better.

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Night vision goggles at the ready!

Whoaaaaaaaaamance.
"Whoamance," the goofy state butches devolve into when observing intelligent femmes talking about their womances.
*waving into Mr. Ant's goggles and rolling eyes*
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