"Butch" and "Femme" - Truly Antiquated Terms or More Marginalization?

[Toughy]

see this is what I dont get..........

All of us suspend reality and believe a penis shaped dildo is actually a real live cock.....butch cock. I know for myself when I strap on it's my cock. A blowjob I can feel on this detachable butch cock because that butch cock is real in my mind and her mind.

I also have had my clit be a clit and my clit has also been a cock. It all depends on what's going on (energy wise) between me and the femme in my (or her) bed. She can suck my clit or suck my cock. Whichever it is is real in my mind and her mind.

Sometimes suspending reality is (in my mind) part and parcel of this erotic dance called butch/femme.

I also know that my sexual boundaries are different with every femme I have ever been with. I have had what is typically thought of as stone relationships as well as relationships where all parts are accessible all the time. And relationships that fall in the middle. As I said my sexuality is pretty fluid.

I'm done with this derail.

oh...........frisky..........I'm not offended in any way........takes a lot more than this to offend me.

[SuperFemme]

Originally Posted by Toughy

see this is what I dont get..........

All of us suspend reality and believe a penis shaped dildo is actually a real live cock.....butch cock. I know for myself when I strap on it's my cock. A blowjob I can feel on this detachable butch cock because that butch cock is real in my mind and her mind.

I also have had my clit be a clit and my clit has also been a cock. It all depends on what's going on (energy wise) between me and the femme in my (or her) bed. She can suck my clit or suck my cock. Whichever it is is real in my mind and her mind.

Sometimes suspending reality is (in my mind) part and parcel of this erotic dance called butch/femme.

I also know that my sexual boundaries are different with every femme I have ever been with. I have had what is typically thought of as stone relationships as well as relationships where all parts are accessible all the time. And relationships that fall in the middle. As I said my sexuality is pretty fluid.

I'm done with this derail.

oh...........frisky..........I'm not offended in any way........takes a lot more than this to offend me.

Toughy said blowjob. <insert beavis and butthead laugh here>

[Apocalipstic]

Originally Posted by Toughy

see this is what I dont get..........

All of us suspend reality and believe a penis shaped dildo is actually a real live cock.....butch cock. I know for myself when I strap on it's my cock. A blowjob I can feel on this detachable butch cock because that butch cock is real in my mind and her mind.

I also have had my clit be a clit and my clit has also been a cock. It all depends on what's going on (energy wise) between me and the femme in my (or her) bed. She can suck my clit or suck my cock. Whichever it is is real in my mind and her mind.

Sometimes suspending reality is (in my mind) part and parcel of this erotic dance called butch/femme.

I also know that my sexual boundaries are different with every femme I have ever been with. I have had what is typically thought of as stone relationships as well as relationships where all parts are accessible all the time. And relationships that fall in the middle. As I said my sexuality is pretty fluid.

I'm done with this derail.

oh...........frisky..........I'm not offended in any way........takes a lot more than this to offend me.

That, except for I have the dick.

[Toughy]

Originally Posted by apocalipstic

That, except for I have the dick.

I have always wondered how a femme relates to her dick/cock. It can't be the same as the way a butch relates to her/hys cock.....or can it?

anyway that would be a total derail and doesn't require an answer.....

[Kosmo]

Originally Posted by Toughy

I have always wondered how a femme relates to her dick/cock. It can't be the same as the way a butch relates to her/hys cock.....or can it?

anyway that would be a total derail and doesn't require an answer.....

*jumping on the derail track for a sec*

However a femme wants to relate would be my opinion

*jumps back off*

[friskyfemme]

Good day to all...

As it is with my thought patterns...this thought just came to mind with relationship to labelling...it seems that persons label themselves based on the event taking place when they discover themselves...similar to the Native American tradition of naming a child based upon the awareness of the name giver at the time the individual presents his/her self. Or, as in religious ceremonies, where the celebrated one receives or choses another name that personifies who they are...I personally believe that we identify with the energy related to our name (label). stonefemme=7. Lucky! Now on a tangent
putting numerical value to labels here!

[hippieflowergirl]

Originally Posted by Kosmo

*jumping on the derail track for a sec*

However a femme wants to relate would be my opinion

*jumps back off*

wait Kos...what is it you're jumping on and off of exactly?

[Apocalipstic]

Originally Posted by Toughy

I have always wondered how a femme relates to her dick/cock. It can't be the same as the way a butch relates to her/hys cock.....or can it?

anyway that would be a total derail and doesn't require an answer.....

Ha, I just saw this.

I think it can be the same way. Heh!

I know not every Butch relates to her/his dick in the way way either. For some it is a sex toy, for some it's an always there body organ, for some its there when it's there, for some it's mental.

All I know is it makes the top of my head blowoff (Pun intended) and makes me feel invincible, powerful, hot, sexy and in control.....smirk.