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Old 02-03-2011, 10:28 PM   #1
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Well, since every Femme is different I can't really answer that question.

But if you were buying me a gift I'd say go with pearls.
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Does she have any tools?

How about a tool box, with a gift certificate for a Spa?
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she loves shoes and victorias secret (there is a god!). its too early in the relationship for pearls and im a broke college student. thats what i have to work with lol
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Old 02-03-2011, 10:56 PM   #4
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if it's fairly early in the relationship do not buy her lingerie. That's really inappropriate.

Surely she has actual interests? Hobbies? Likes and dislikes?
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she loves shoes and victorias secret (there is a god!). its too early in the relationship for pearls and im a broke college student. thats what i have to work with lol

You could cook for her. And/or give her a gift that doesn't have to be extravagant, but shows that you pay attention to what she says.
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shes crazy obsessed with opera. maybe i could do something like that. the cooking thing is a great idea. :O i could make her a big giant cookie that says i love you, or is that too cheesy?
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shes crazy obsessed with opera. maybe i could do something like that. the cooking thing is a great idea. :O i could make her a big giant cookie that says i love you, or is that too cheesy?

That would be sweet...if she likes cookies!
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It really depends on her likes. Since you're on a budget and you're relationship is fairly new I'd suggest a homemade dinner. It doesn't have to 5 star but a meal of her fav's. Another thought is a coupon book of things you will do for her... like 5 massages, 5 foot rubs, 5 bubble baths. Well just some thoughts. Good luck and don't beat yourself up over being on a budget.

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Valentines Day is really overhyped. You arent suppose to make a mockery out of love. To go all out for a relationship that has just started leaves nothing for it to grow into OR it makes everything from here on in have to be bigger and grander. Love isnt suppose to be measured that way. Love isnt suppose to develop that way. Its not built on promotional holidays. Its built on where the two of you are. So where are you two in your relationship? Thats how you gauge what to get her...

a beautiful card, some pretty nail polish, an opera poster you found in an antique store for $5 ...combined with a nice simple spagetti dinner you make, watching Phatom of the the Opera on your set after, enjoying your special cookie together during...in candlelight...

so much better than the "perfect" first valentines gift. Relax...enjoy it...make it what it is, between the two of you...
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