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Old 02-08-2011, 11:41 PM   #1
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Hopefully in a loving relationship that I can be myself in and not hold back because she can't give me her all. And still friends with my ex-husband.
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Bump! I found this thread the other day and wanted to revive it. I don't know why it is in the break up group because it is a good subject.

In 5 years I really hope to be retired or planning to retire.



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Oh, good idea, great topic!

Five years from now, I want to be ....

1) living in a place that is not overcrowded, yet in close proximity to an interesting city, which affords an climate of arts, entertainment and cultural exploration;

2) enjoying an long term monogamous dating relationship with another person who is sane, has a great sense of humor, and has great problem solving abilities (etc);

3) to have an occupation which is satisfying and rewarding and keeps me busy as I grow older and provides enough income so I am independent financially on my own and can afford to relax when I want to relax (etc);

4) I desire all three things above for my two sons and daughter;

5) To remain in good health so that I can enjoy life, each and every day.
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Lets see. . .
mostly credit card debt free
3 month emergency fund
done (or very close to it) with my master's degree
modified my work life, or moved on to a position more suited, to the life I would actually enjoy living.
1 week in Florence, Italy
1 week in Bologna, Italy
continuing cultivate my relationships and my internal growth in life/spirituality
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