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Old 02-13-2011, 10:03 PM   #1
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Do you believe in love?
Do you believe in shame?
And if love can conquer all then why do we only feel the pain?


I heard you speak my name, heard you singing The Stones,
Maybe heard you laughing in a line of static on my telephone

So why your eyelids are closed, inside a case of rust,
And did you have to change all your poets fire into frozen dust?

I've tried to justify it, to learn from your mistake,
But where's the stupid lie that has to make it's point -
With such a pointless waste.

Come out...


Do you believe in shame?
Do you believe in love?
And if they taste the same would you love again or abandon both?


I don't think I ever can, belive my friend has gone,
Keep saying it's alright,
I'm going to bring you back but I know I'm wrong.
There's nothing I can say, there's nothing left to do
It's just that lately I feel so damn lonely when I think of you

And it may seem selfish now, but I'll hold on to the memory
Until all this fear is washed away

Do you believe in love?
Do you believe in life?
'Cos I believe a little part of you inside of me will never die..

'Cos I Believe a little part of you inside of me will never die..
'Cos I believe a little part of you inside of me will never die..
'Cos I believe a little part of you inside of me will never... die.
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I'm beginning to worry Misty... how many girls did you break up with?? *smirk* Just joking buddy!!
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This actually got me thru a rough breakup once...lol

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the song that got me through my first real breakup:



a song that got me through the divorce:



a song that got me through my last breakup:



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