Would you date yourself?

AtLast · 02-28-2011, 04:55 AM

Yes, I would. I'm intelligent, honest, polite and a good dancer.... ;?)...

DapperButch · 02-28-2011, 07:08 AM

I can't remember if I posted in this thread already or not, but I am too lazy to look.

No, I would not date me. My core self, my values, yes, I would.

But, I can be too self absorbed at times, I think. No one I have dated has actually called me that, but I think it is accurate. I can get in my own head and focused on my own stuff, I think.

Also, I can become a bit emtionally distant and unaccessible, at times. Just because of the above, I think (not b/c I am "distancing", per se). I can be brought back, but personally, I like a more attentive partner! I HAVE gotten WAY better over time, though!

MrSunshine · 02-28-2011, 07:16 AM

fabulously

Julie · 02-28-2011, 11:20 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MrSunshine

fabulously

You would say that!
Me on the other hand...
I know I have said it before!
No F*G* Way.

BullDog · 02-28-2011, 11:24 AM

I think I already am. Except she never takes me anywhere. She's always working.

proximitywithoutintimacy · 02-28-2011, 11:41 AM

Would I date myself?

No.

But... would I sleep with myself?

Absolutely

PumaJ · 03-26-2011, 12:49 PM

I am still only dating myself, these days. But..I have started having conversations with others about what dating is in regard to dating another person. I can't believe I am so ignorant in this area! But, within a year or so of coming out, the Feminist "movement" hit the San Francisco area and dating between lesbians seemed to get pushed out the window along with Butch & Femme.

In high school I didn't date because I wasn't interested in guys. I did hang out with my girlfriends, a lot. But they were as femme as I was and not latent lesbians, anyway. Plus, back then, even the "free love" attitude of the hippies in San Francisco did not include owning oneself as "gay" in the high schools of the city.

I think I've actually been practicing dating on myself the past few years and I'm a pretty good date, now;-) Maybe, someday I'll get good enough at it that I will actually date someone else! What a concept:-)

02-28-2011, 07:08 AM	#2
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02-28-2011, 11:24 AM	#5
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03-26-2011, 12:49 PM	#7
PumaJ Member How Do You Identify?: High Femme Queer Feminist Preferred Pronoun?: she, her Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Portland Metro, Oregon Posts: 200 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,419 Thanked 500 Times in 147 Posts Rep Power: 1652642	I am still only dating myself, these days. But..I have started having conversations with others about what dating is in regard to dating another person. I can't believe I am so ignorant in this area! But, within a year or so of coming out, the Feminist "movement" hit the San Francisco area and dating between lesbians seemed to get pushed out the window along with Butch & Femme. In high school I didn't date because I wasn't interested in guys. I did hang out with my girlfriends, a lot. But they were as femme as I was and not latent lesbians, anyway. Plus, back then, even the "free love" attitude of the hippies in San Francisco did not include owning oneself as "gay" in the high schools of the city. I think I've actually been practicing dating on myself the past few years and I'm a pretty good date, now;-) Maybe, someday I'll get good enough at it that I will actually date someone else! What a concept:-) __________________ PumaJ

02-28-2011, 04:55 AM	#1
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02-28-2011, 07:16 AM	#3
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02-28-2011, 11:41 AM	#6
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