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 I have always appreciated when some else can express what there interest is. It doesn't mean anything more than this is how i fell and what i am looking for at this moment  | 
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			Yup it can be hard.. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I have the same issue as AtomicZombie lol.. I can't always tell if someone is just looking for something casual or something more long term... if they are being genuine or saying whatever they think will get them in my pants lol.. Ive also had the issue of Butches thinking I am into them because I am nice or they assume because I am being sweet I want in their pants... -- Dating can be confusing! But I agree about paying attention to body language sometimes how we act or react speaks louder then what we say   
		
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			 The morning phone call.. the sound of her voice.. giggles and laughter. 
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Ummmm.....no clue. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I'm one of those dense people when it comes to flirting. Years ago, in a group of friend/acquaintances I jokingly said "how come you all flirt with each other and no one flirts with me?" There was general laughter and then one was kind enough to inform me "uh, Jo...we do...you just don't get it." True story. 
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			One girl told me it made her feel "a little jealous" when I told her about this beautiful love letter I had from an ex-girlfriend who I adore. I think she might be into me...  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	   
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			If she hugs you, kisses your cheek and says "text me tomorrow" but then texts you an hour later telling you how cute you are... she might be into you  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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 Your profile says, 'as long as you pull my hair you can call me anything  .'Doesn't that sound like you want something casual? I think casual can be fun and fabulous and I think that if you want your hair pulled, You should get your hair pulled, so I am not being judge-y.  | 
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			Ummm.... so...... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Why not just say "I'm into you?" I know, I'm no fun.....  
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			 if they are still calling you after they've moved on.... 
		they may be into you. *shrugs* ![]() 
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			I'm still painfully naive about whether or not she likes me... ha... ha...  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			I like attention, so I can always tell if someone likes me.  It works the other way too, I can always see if someone likes my partner, which can be hard. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I'm not always good. Once I spent a whole night with two old friends and completely missed the fact that they were now together. My gf at the time, who was usually rubbish at this sort of thing, was the one to point it out! It's the way someone looks at you, this searching - looking for deeper meaning kind of look. Their body language changes, they move closer, become more attentive. They listen and remember things you say. Plus they contact you quite randomly. It can always go the other way as well, they can be very distant, even give you dirty looks when you are both out, but then you they always know where you are.. 
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