Ok, soooooo....

DapperButch · 03-16-2011, 05:26 AM

Well, this is IT, folks!

Last chemo infusion today!

It has been a tough road since August, but I am FINALLY done! Just in time for summer!

The support I have received through my gf (tantalizingfemme), has been incredible over this time, and I just want to give a thanks to her here at bfp! I truly couldn't have asked for a better partner!

Also, a little shout out to Bete for being a wonderful support to me as well. I didn't know her before the chemo, so it is pretty cool that we became friends during this time and I had an online support friend.

Also, I appreciate the support that I have received from EVERYONE here.

One can get a little whacky with chemo (perceptions get off and brain doesn't work oh, so well), so I apologize if I have been a little "off" in my posts at all. I suspect that the ones who know have kind of treated me with kid gloves if I offended without thinking, which I appreciate!

I hope to not have any problems in the future. With the surgery and chemo, I only have about a 18-20% the cancer will return, so that is awesome!

Thanks again, all!

suebee · 03-16-2011, 05:45 AM

GREAT news Dapper! I'm so glad to hear that all of that is over for you. Take a deep breath and know that it's behind you!

Sue

SelfMadeMan · 03-16-2011, 06:59 AM

DB - I feel so bad that I never even saw this thread until today! I am sorry you had to go through that scare at all, and everything that came with it, but I am so thankful that you are ok :-) Sounds like you maintained a positive attitude throughout the process and that is so important - that and the love and support of your girl. I'm glad you're healing well - sending you lots of positive thoughts!

julieisafemme · 03-16-2011, 02:28 PM

Fantastic news. We are sending you healing and happiness and so glad you had support from your wonderful girlfriend through all of this.

DomnNC · 03-16-2011, 04:05 PM

That's awesome Dapper, my thoughts and prayers for you for a complete and awesome recovery!!! Congrats!!

Gemme · 03-16-2011, 09:22 PM

FINALLY!!! Now I can stop being nice to your ass.

Here's to happy healing for you!

Greyson · 03-17-2011, 07:01 AM

Dapper, thanks for sharing your good news. I sense you are a one of a kind sort of guy. I am very happy to know you are going to be here with us and posting more things to ponder.

Diva · 03-16-2011, 07:26 AM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch

Well, this is IT, folks!

Last chemo infusion today!

It has been a tough road since August, but I am FINALLY done! Just in time for summer!

The support I have received through my gf (tantalizingfemme), has been incredible over this time, and I just want to give a thanks to her here at bfp! I truly couldn't have asked for a better partner!

Also, a little shout out to Bete for being a wonderful support to me as well. I didn't know her before the chemo, so it is pretty cool that we became friends during this time and I had an online support friend.

Also, I appreciate the support that I have received from EVERYONE here.

One can get a little whacky with chemo (perceptions get off and brain doesn't work oh, so well), so I apologize if I have been a little "off" in my posts at all. I suspect that the ones who know have kind of treated me with kid gloves if I offended without thinking, which I appreciate!

I hope to not have any problems in the future. With the surgery and chemo, I only have about a 18-20% the cancer will return, so that is awesome!

Thanks again, all!

Sweet Dapper....
Thanks so much for this good news! I'm sorry I haven't kept up with You (I started to say "haven't kept up with Your ass..." but that would have been over the top, I'm thinkin'... )..... I have no excuse for that....

But THIS! THIS is grand news and I'm so happy for You and Tantalizing Femme....and God bless her for helping You through this hard part...and onward!

betenoire · 03-16-2011, 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch

Well, this is IT, folks!

Last chemo infusion today!

WOOO! I am incredibly excited on your behalf. You should have a PARTY.

Quote:

Also, a little shout out to Bete for being a wonderful support to me as well. I didn't know her before the chemo, so it is pretty cool that we became friends during this time and I had an online support friend.

Oh don't even. It's clearly been a two-way street - you've been a good friend to me as well. Which is a lot of work, because I just happen to be batshit crazy.

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Originally Posted by Diva

Sweet Dapper....
Thanks so much for this good news! I'm sorry I haven't kept up with You (I started to say "haven't kept up with Your ass..." but that would have been over the top, I'm thinkin'... )

Silly, there is already precedence in this thread for ass and poop jokes. I started it - don't let the grand tradition die!

PumaJ · 03-16-2011, 10:44 AM

Mazel Tov, Dapper! Being new to BFPlanet, I had no idea you were hang to walk such a tough road:-( I am delighted for you and your honey that you are doing well and are done with chemotherapy.

Sending continued healing energy and wishes for many years of goods health and happiness.

PinkieLee · 03-16-2011, 10:52 AM

What wonderful news Dapper! It's amazing what supportive friendships & love can do for your health... powerful stuff!

A happy & healthy road ahead!

betenoire · 03-16-2011, 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch

The support I have received through my gf (tantalizingfemme), has been incredible over this time, and I just want to give a thanks to her here at bfp! I truly couldn't have asked for a better partner!

By the way, I think you need to buy her lots of presents. And pay her lots of attention. I like that woman.

DapperButch · 03-16-2011, 10:57 AM

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Originally Posted by betenoire

WOOO! I am incredibly excited on your behalf. You should have a PARTY.

I AM. Remember Nick is coming and you are not? I thought we went over this?

Oh don't even. It's clearly been a two-way street - you've been a good friend to me as well. Which is a lot of work, because I just happen to be batshit crazy.

This would be accurate. But, no you have been great.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Diva

Sweet Dapper....
Thanks so much for this good news! I'm sorry I haven't kept up with You (I started to say "haven't kept up with Your ass..." but that would have been over the top, I'm thinkin'... )..... I have no excuse for that....

But THIS! THIS is grand news and I'm so happy for You and Tantalizing Femme....and God bless her for helping You through this hard part...and onward!

Silly, there is already precedence in this thread for ass and poop jokes. I started it - don't let the grand tradition die!

Good point! I repped Diva telling her she could call me an ass, anytime! You know, as long as I could have a piece of her a....<cough..oops that would be over the top to say, I'm thinkin' ...>

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Originally Posted by betenoire

By the way, I think you need to buy her lots of presents. And pay her lots of attention. I like that woman.

Presents? But I am a cheap bastard! Actually, I'm not. I think you are right!

betenoire · 03-16-2011, 11:05 AM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch

I AM. Remember Nick is coming and you are not? I thought we went over this?

This joke was funnier when I invited your ladyfriend to the Lesbian Film Fest and said that you had to stay home. Don't recycle my jokes, bro!

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Presents? But I am a cheap bastard! Actually, I'm not. I think you are right!

Good Dapper. *pat pat*

DapperButch · 03-16-2011, 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted by betenoire

This joke was funnier when I invited your ladyfriend to the Lesbian Film Fest and said that you had to stay home. Don't recycle my jokes, bro!

WhatEVA!

Good Dapper. *pat pat*

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morningstar55 · 03-16-2011, 11:27 AM

ya know......... i dont know why i have not ever seen this thread.....
Dapper... thats great news .... glad to read how well your coming along.

makes one just wanna dance .. lol

princessbelle · 03-16-2011, 11:33 AM

I hadn't seen this thread either. I wish you continued healing and a very long, happy life.

Diva · 03-16-2011, 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch

You know, as long as I could have a piece of her a....<cough..oops that would be over the top to say, I'm thinkin' ...>
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Or over the bottom.....as it were.....

betenoire · 03-16-2011, 11:23 AM

Dirty.

Diva · 03-16-2011, 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by betenoire

Dirty.

Thank You.

<yelling>
CLEAN UP ON AISLE DIVA.......................

03-16-2011, 05:26 AM	#1
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