WHO is on your Mind ... Why?

DomnNC · 03-18-2011, 10:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sweet

Ohhhhh buddy you are in trouble now!!!
It was NOT ME that hit a HUGE black dog with MY DAMN car...now was it?
Just for that.... I get to drive your truck to work all next week and you can have the 4 cylinder jelly bean!!

Somehow I don't think that's gonna go over!

Blade · 03-18-2011, 11:16 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sweet

Ohhhhh buddy you are in trouble now!!!
It was NOT ME that hit a HUGE black dog with MY DAMN car...now was it?
Just for that.... I get to drive your truck to work all next week and you can have the 4 cylinder jelly bean!!

Excuse me Ma'am but I don't have jelly bean license. And ummm my truck will not be parked in that demolition parking lot you work at.

Quote:

Originally Posted by DomnNC

Somehow I don't think that's gonna go over!

you are a wise man....

MissItalianDiva · 03-18-2011, 11:19 PM

The lightning crashes and literally a blast from the past comes walking back around...odd how someone we have not thought about or discussed in years upon seeing them it rushes back and you somehow find yourself clicking again right at the same spot as if no time and no apologies were needed.

Duchess · 10-26-2012, 09:16 PM

When I was a kid, I thought drug addiction was a problem for people with mental or financial issues. When my aunt became an addict everybody thought it was a phase, until it became apparent that she was high all the time.

My grandparents threatened to stop her allowance and kick her out of the house. Nothing mattered but the drugs. She would do anything and ANYone to get high. Her actions eventually resulted in a very painful death. Thank you very much AIDS!!!!

She definitely educated us. I miss her terribly.

Duchess

Darbonaire · 10-26-2012, 09:50 PM

Who called me "unexpectedly apparently..or accidentally...lol> just singing some song about a choo choo train.....made me miss her for a moment....<sad smile>....

Duchess · 10-26-2012, 10:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Darbonaire

Who called me "unexpectedly apparently..or accidentally...lol> just singing some song about a choo choo train.....made me miss her for a moment....<sad smile>....

So sweet

bright_arrow · 10-27-2012, 12:53 AM

Been talking to a lot of friends lately, and everyone seems to be having some struggles. Just hoping karma comes around and evens it all out for them

Duchess · 10-27-2012, 11:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Duchess

Her actions eventually resulted in a very painful death.

I was accused of blaming AIDS for my Aunt's death. Apparently this sentence I wrote was missed the first time around.

Duchess

Tcountry · 10-27-2012, 11:55 PM

A very good friend of mine...& why not? I really care about her...
*tip hat*

txdoc · 10-28-2012, 02:39 AM

My youngest son as I see him beginning to fall in love.

lusciouskiwi · 10-28-2012, 03:33 AM

Handsome is. How she is, whether she's enjoying her break away, if she's thinking about me and us and the future. Just when I was feeling all calm about it, all que sera sera, the tears come.

CherylNYC · 10-28-2012, 08:35 AM

My good friend Woody. She was an amazing, awe inspiring person, and a role model for butches everywhere. She was so tremendously supportive of me and my own losses, even while she was battling her own illness. I so wish she were still here with us, but she told me at the end that she had done everything in her life that she really wanted to, and that she had no regrets. I hope I can say the same when my time comes.

Woody did so many interesting things during her lifetime. She was a biker and inveterate world traveller, a builder, a chimney sweep, she drove a limo and taught English in China. (I can't help but laugh thinking of all those Chinese people who must 'pahk the cah' the way they do in 'Baaston'.) She was an archeologist, and worked on international digs, she smuggled gold in Thailand, and she raised huge amounts of money and awareness for women's issues with just as much energy and commitment as she directed towards the art installations she built.

Woody and her rainbow mohawk were iconic riding down 5th Ave in the NYC Pride Parade. Everyone looked for her, and everyone needed to get their picture taken with her. A photo of Woody at NYC Pride even illustrates the Wikipedia definition of 'dyke'. Woody passed on the morning of her home Pride Parade in Boston in 2009. Two weeks later NYC Pride was led by a huge double sided poster of Woody with her birth and death dates, festooned with rainbow feather boas. Some spectators burst into tears when they saw it.

Sometimes Woody is on my mind, and today is one of those days.

PaPa · 03-18-2011, 11:42 PM

I have been fortunate enough to bond with someone special....she may think that I am crazy but what is going through my head? The song Don't Wanna Miss a Thing by Aerosmith. I hope she knows how much she means to me.

Luv · 03-19-2011, 01:09 AM

one of my good sister-friends is on my mind..usually when that happens it means I need to say a prayer for them. Ya know they saying,,let go and let God

~BluEydFemme~ · 03-17-2012, 09:00 AM

My Father is the one who is on my mind....not just today but EVERY DAY since he has passed. It was 2 months ago this past Thursday that he's been gone. I miss him DEARLY yet know he's happy in Heaven now. R.I.P. Dad! I Love U!

Chancie · 03-17-2012, 09:19 AM

My mother has been on my mind a lot lately.

I talk to her every week and we text, and

I try very hard to see her every couple of months.

I know her health is deteriorating, and

She seems a little flakier to me.

I am concerned about the quality of her life in the next few years.

genghisfawn · 03-17-2012, 09:47 AM

I was lucky enough to have three godparents growing up... my mother's best friend Emily, and her parents, Eunice and Kurt. I called the women Auntie, but Kurt I called Papa, because everybody did.

Papa passed away when I was overseas and I couldn't come back. Auntie Eunice passed away in January and we're in Regina for her funeral. Auntie and Papa are on my mind today... Papa's loud, roaring voice; German sentence structure; cigar smoke; fat armchair; piles of newspapers; pump organ; packs of gum; being called "girlie"... Auntie's soft smile; red hair; large glasses; gentle eyes; mouth-melting cinnamon buns; long hugs; good advice.

03-18-2011, 11:19 PM	#3
MissItalianDiva Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Miss Twiggy Preferred Pronoun?: Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious and that shit doesn't sound atrocious! Relationship Status: divorce happens..all that glitters ain't gold Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: SLC Utah Posts: 2,284 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,768 Thanked 7,159 Times in 1,793 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Just when you begin to not remember and let it fade... The lightning crashes and literally a blast from the past comes walking back around...odd how someone we have not thought about or discussed in years upon seeing them it rushes back and you somehow find yourself clicking again right at the same spot as if no time and no apologies were needed.

10-26-2012, 09:16 PM	#4
Duchess Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Absolute Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Toe curling :-) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Atlanta Posts: 2,382 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,792 Thanked 5,591 Times in 1,521 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	My Auntie Shawn is on my mind today.... When I was a kid, I thought drug addiction was a problem for people with mental or financial issues. When my aunt became an addict everybody thought it was a phase, until it became apparent that she was high all the time. My grandparents threatened to stop her allowance and kick her out of the house. Nothing mattered but the drugs. She would do anything and ANYone to get high. Her actions eventually resulted in a very painful death. Thank you very much AIDS!!!! *She definitely educated us. I miss her terribly.* *Duchess* __________________ *無料のライブ*

10-26-2012, 09:50 PM	#5
Darbonaire Timed Out How Do You Identify?: MALE Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Working on myself, thank you Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Virginia Posts: 186 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 343 Thanked 552 Times in 145 Posts Rep Power: 0	My grand-daughter Who called me "unexpectedly apparently..or accidentally...lol> just singing some song about a choo choo train.....made me miss her for a moment....<sad smile>....

10-27-2012, 11:55 PM	#9
Tcountry Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Country Boi Preferred Pronoun?: call it as u see it Relationship Status: Completely...complete ;) Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Either at the beach or in the pool Posts: 1,665 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,929 Thanked 4,287 Times in 1,181 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	A very good friend of mine...& why not? I really care about her... tip hat __________________ "You don't Find life worth living; You MAKE IT that way"

10-28-2012, 03:33 AM	#11
lusciouskiwi Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme lesbian feminist Preferred Pronoun?: Anything except for "aunty" Relationship Status: Happy with my butch. Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Aotearoa New Zealand Posts: 2,681 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 25,494 Thanked 9,095 Times in 1,899 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Handsome is. How she is, whether she's enjoying her break away, if she's thinking about me and us and the future. Just when I was feeling all calm about it, all que sera sera, the tears come. __________________ happiness is a form of courage. George Holbrook Jackson Risk! Risk anything! Care no more for the opinions of others, for those voices. Do the hardest thing on earth for you. Act for yourself. Face the truth. Katherine Mansfield Motivate yourself or be miserable. Whatever has to be done, it's always your choice. Wayne Dyer

10-27-2012, 12:53 AM	#7
bright_arrow ☆ the stars are aligned ☆ How Do You Identify?: one queer mama Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: married to my Boo Daddy <3 Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: nor cal Posts: 2,910 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,644 Thanked 9,363 Times in 2,296 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Been talking to a lot of friends lately, and everyone seems to be having some struggles. Just hoping karma comes around and evens it all out for them

10-28-2012, 02:39 AM	#10
txdoc Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her Relationship Status: Wrangled Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: TX Posts: 333 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 703 Thanked 684 Times in 189 Posts Rep Power: 0	My youngest son as I see him beginning to fall in love.

10-28-2012, 08:35 AM	#12
CherylNYC Member How Do You Identify?: Stonefemme lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: I'm a woman. Behave accordingly. Relationship Status: Single, not looking. Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: NYC Posts: 1,467 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,474 Thanked 7,111 Times in 1,205 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	My good friend Woody. She was an amazing, awe inspiring person, and a role model for butches everywhere. She was so tremendously supportive of me and my own losses, even while she was battling her own illness. I so wish she were still here with us, but she told me at the end that she had done everything in her life that she really wanted to, and that she had no regrets. I hope I can say the same when my time comes. Woody did so many interesting things during her lifetime. She was a biker and inveterate world traveller, a builder, a chimney sweep, she drove a limo and taught English in China. (I can't help but laugh thinking of all those Chinese people who must 'pahk the cah' the way they do in 'Baaston'.) She was an archeologist, and worked on international digs, she smuggled gold in Thailand, and she raised huge amounts of money and awareness for women's issues with just as much energy and commitment as she directed towards the art installations she built. Woody and her rainbow mohawk were iconic riding down 5th Ave in the NYC Pride Parade. Everyone looked for her, and everyone needed to get their picture taken with her. A photo of Woody at NYC Pride even illustrates the Wikipedia definition of 'dyke'. Woody passed on the morning of her home Pride Parade in Boston in 2009. Two weeks later NYC Pride was led by a huge double sided poster of Woody with her birth and death dates, festooned with rainbow feather boas. Some spectators burst into tears when they saw it. Sometimes Woody is on my mind, and today is one of those days. __________________ Cheryl

03-18-2011, 11:42 PM	#13
PaPa Senior Member How Do You Identify?: GQ Butch Daddy Relationship Status: A Very Protective BIG Daddy... Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 2,657 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,597 Thanked 5,871 Times in 1,530 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Always on my mind lately.... I have been fortunate enough to bond with someone special....she may think that I am crazy but what is going through my head? The song Don't Wanna Miss a Thing by Aerosmith. I hope she knows how much she means to me.

03-19-2011, 01:09 AM	#14
Luv Member How Do You Identify?: .... Relationship Status: .. Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: ..... Posts: 753 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,199 Thanked 1,217 Times in 367 Posts Rep Power: 12549741	one of my good sister-friends is on my mind..usually when that happens it means I need to say a prayer for them. Ya know they saying,,let go and let God

03-17-2012, 09:00 AM	#15
~BluEydFemme~ Member How Do You Identify?: Fairy-Loving Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: Waiting for that special Butch... Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 732 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 214 Thanked 144 Times in 83 Posts Rep Power: 5392159	My Father Is On My Mind My Father is the one who is on my mind....not just today but EVERY DAY since he has passed. It was 2 months ago this past Thursday that he's been gone. I miss him DEARLY yet know he's happy in Heaven now. R.I.P. Dad! I Love U! __________________ FairyGirl

03-17-2012, 09:19 AM	#16
Chancie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: queer femme-inist Relationship Status: I'm lucky. Join Date: May 2010 Location: Western Mass Posts: 3,774 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,518 Thanked 14,540 Times in 2,744 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	My mother has been on my mind a lot lately. I talk to her every week and we text, and I try very hard to see her every couple of months. I know her health is deteriorating, and She seems a little flakier to me. I am concerned about the quality of her life in the next few years.

03-17-2012, 09:47 AM	#17
genghisfawn Member How Do You Identify?: Femme/Gentlewoman Preferred Pronoun?: She/her Relationship Status: Happily married 05/17/14 Join Date: Jan 2012 Location: Saskatchewan, Canada Posts: 561 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,056 Thanked 2,158 Times in 403 Posts Rep Power: 21474850	I was lucky enough to have three godparents growing up... my mother's best friend Emily, and her parents, Eunice and Kurt. I called the women Auntie, but Kurt I called Papa, because everybody did. Papa passed away when I was overseas and I couldn't come back. Auntie Eunice passed away in January and we're in Regina for her funeral. Auntie and Papa are on my mind today... Papa's loud, roaring voice; German sentence structure; cigar smoke; fat armchair; piles of newspapers; pump organ; packs of gum; being called "girlie"... Auntie's soft smile; red hair; large glasses; gentle eyes; mouth-melting cinnamon buns; long hugs; good advice.