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			 Goodbye sweetcali.   
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			To You, sweet Sweet......what a lovely Journey awaits You! 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Dearest Sweet, 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	You have many friends and family that continue to lift you up in prayer, love & light. May this journey be a peaceful one and please know you are beyond loved. Blessings to you my gorgeous friend. ![]() ((((((((MIKE and family))))))))))) may comfort, peace & love surround you during this time.  | 
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			A pink calico ribbon for a very pink lady. Rest well, sweetheart.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			remain with you Mike, Cali and your children.  
		
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			Sending you Love and Light...  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			*Truffle* May your journey be filled with love. Mike ~ Always sending you great support and love from where I am. I am here if you need me, always. With deep love.. Julie Native American Tradition Let Me Walk In Beauty O Great Spirit, whose voice I hear in the winds and whose breath gives life to all the world, hear me. I am small and weak. I need your strength and wisdom. Let me walk in beauty and let my eyes ever behold the red and purple sunset. Make my hands respect the things you have made and my ears grow sharp to hear your voice. Make me wise so that I may understand the things you have taught my people. Let me learn the lessons you have hidden in every leaf and rock. I seek strength not to be greater than my brother or sister but to fight my greatest enemy, myself. Make me always ready to come to you with clean hands and straight eyes So when life fades as the fading sunset my spirit may come to you without shame. Great Spirit of love, come to me with the power of the North. Make me courageous when the cold winds of life fall upon me. Give me strength and endurance for everything that is harsh, everything that hurts, everything that makes me squint. Make me move through life ready to take what comes from the North. Spirit who comes out of the East, come to me with the power of the rising sun. Let there be light in my word. Let there be light on the path that I walk. Let me remember always that you give the gift of a new day. Never let me be burdened with sorrow by not starting over. Great Spirit of creation, send me the warm and soothing winds from the South. Comfort me and caress me when I am tired and cold. Enfold me as your gentle breezes enfold your leaves on the trees. And as you give to all the earth your warm, moving wind, Give to me so that I may grow close to you in warmth. Great life-giving Spirit, I face the West, the direction of the sundown. Let me remember every day that the moment will come when my sun will go down. Never let me forget that I must fade into you. Give me beautiful color. Give me a great sky for setting, and when it is time to meet you, I come with glory. And Giver of all life, I pray to you from the earth, help me to remember as I touch the earth that I am little and need your pity. Help me to be thankful for the gift of the earth and never to walk hurtfully on the world. Bless to love what comes from mother earth and teach me how to love your gifts. Great Spirit of the heavens, lift me up to you that my heart may worship you and come to you in glory. Hold in my memory that you are my Creator, greater than I, eager for my good life. Let everything that is in the world lift my mind, and my heart, and my life to you so that we may come always to you in truth and in heart. 
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			 MUCH love to Kristin, Mike, the Heathens, and the entire family!!!! Feeling very teary at the moment.....     ![]() 
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			It's hard to say goodbye to someone we've never met. Though seeing her words here when she could was always inspiring. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			SweetCali, Mike and the family, may you all find peace and know that we are all with you. 
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			Only last week did I hear of sweetcali's condition... I am praying for peace for all of you!   
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I hope you find comfort and peace in these words as I have many times. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	You would know the secret of death. But how shall you find it unless you seek it in the heart of life? The owl whose night-bound eyes are blind unto the day cannot unveil the mystery of light. If you would indeed behold the spirit of death, open your heart wide unto the body of life. For life and death are one, even as the river and the sea are one. In the depth of your hopes and desires lies your silent knowledge of the beyond; And like seeds dreaming beneath the snow your heart dreams of spring. Trust the dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity. Your fear of death is but the trembling of the shepherd when he stands before the king whose hand is to be laid upon him in honour. Is the shepherd not joyful beneath his trembling, that he shall wear the mark of the king? Yet is he not more mindful of his trembling? For what is it to die but to stand naked in the wind and to melt into the sun? And what is it to cease breathing, but to free the breath from its restless tides, that it may rise and expand and seek God unencumbered? Only when you drink from the river of silence shall you indeed sing. And when you have reached the mountain top, then you shall begin to climb. And when the earth shall claim your limbs, then shall you truly dance. ~Kahlil Gibran~  | 
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			Hey Folks - Had a couple of folks ask to use the pink calico ribbon in support of Kristen's journey - PLEASE DO!!! 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Pink ribbons for all! 
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			YEA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Sending much love to you all.  Please pass my love to Cali, and Mike stay strong my friend I know this is so hard.  Love to you and the heathens. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Mike, 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			{{{{{{{{{{{{{{Mike, Cali, and kids}}}}}}}}}}}}}}  May peace and comfort be yours.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			mike-- 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			brandy and i continue to keep you, sweet and the girls in our thoughts. i know this must be an incredibly difficult time for all of you. we wish you as much peace as possible during this transition that you are all experiencing in one form or another. nick 
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			I am just reading this thread for the first time today.  Mike, you and Sweet and the kids are in my thoughts and prayers.  May she make a peaceful transition to her next journey. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
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