The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

morningstar55 · 04-04-2011, 01:06 PM

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Originally Posted by blueeyes226_l

There is a PFLAGE 100 miles from me. I have a Lesbian mentore but,about 4 weeks ago she told me its wrong being with same sex person. said,someday she will talk to me about it. Her Aunt got to her with Religon. I am a Rev. but I do not belive her way. I always say to each there oun. Its even hard on us Rev's. I'm very lib about things.Her and her spouce are split big time. It blew me right out of the water. I couldn't belive it. I always looked up to her. No there is no way I can aford a place to rent. I'm still paying bills my ex "life time" partner ran up in my name and will not pay them. Hey,I will adopt you. I don't have any one,even my daughter only respects me because,i'm older then her but its very little. Any ways here on the frount lines of the war,
blueeyes226_l

hey ya Blue.... sorry to see your going thru such hoopla over there....... hope ya'll have a lawyer to back u up with your mom's will ......... just a thought.

blueeyes226_l · 04-04-2011, 01:22 PM

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Originally Posted by morningstar55

hey ya Blue.... sorry to see your going thru such hoopla over there....... hope ya'll have a lawyer to back u up with your mom's will ......... just a thought.

My thing I don't know if I should talk to my daughters hubbie about my sister or not. I know my daughter has a lot on her with doing surgerys in the hospitals. Hey,with it being spring maybe I can make it up to your place or met 1/2 way when you have a day or 2 off work. I have a road finder but,don't know how to program places I want to go. LOL
Let me know.

DamselFly · 04-08-2011, 08:44 AM

zhaoshanghao (good morning), lofters! Blueeyes, i hope you are doing better!
can anyone recommend a good small city/big town for anyone, me specifically, who is on SSD and very low-income, now severely vision-impaired? i'd even not be amiss to living in one of those senior/disabled communities, as long i have access to public transportation, reasonable medical care, and some opportunities to volunteer. i am no longer very picky, just tired of being isolated and need to be around people! i'm going to take my time investigating where to move this time!
morning cha

for everyone!
namaste,
DamselFly

Sachita · 04-09-2011, 06:12 AM

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Originally Posted by DamselFly

zhaoshanghao (good morning), lofters! Blueeyes, i hope you are doing better!
can anyone recommend a good small city/big town for anyone, me specifically, who is on SSD and very low-income, now severely vision-impaired? i'd even not be amiss to living in one of those senior/disabled communities, as long i have access to public transportation, reasonable medical care, and some opportunities to volunteer. i am no longer very picky, just tired of being isolated and need to be around people! i'm going to take my time investigating where to move this time!
morning cha

for everyone!
namaste,
DamselFly

I would check the mid-atlantic region- NC, VA, maybe even SC. Areas like Winston-salem has public transportation and affordable rentals. You just need to be careful because some of those areas means high crime. I personally love VA. The cost of living is low here. But if you want transportation you'll need to be in town. My son rents an apt for 350.00 a month which i think is super low and it's actually pretty nice. that does not include electric. Throughout NC there are some over 55 parks but I think you'll find them to be out of your price range. I would check to see if you qualify for any housing. I know VA, you might need to be a resident, has programs.

Good luck!

morningstar55 · 04-09-2011, 09:14 AM

morning Lofters

is it spring yet????

DamselFly · 04-09-2011, 11:07 AM

it is here! the temp is climbing into the 90s today! we are under a severe burn warning/risk throughout most of the state and no rain in sight!
ai,ai, ai!
namaste
DamselFly

lipstixgal · 04-09-2011, 12:32 PM

Good Afternoon lofters its a great day here today we are having a barbecue so that is fun. Well I'm not doing the cooking the g/f is, she likes to do these things and I'm too femme to do them. I stay inside and play on BFP!! I hope everyone has a great weekend!!

blueeyes226_l · 04-09-2011, 06:58 PM

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Originally Posted by DamselFly

zhaoshanghao (good morning), lofters! Blueeyes, i hope you are doing better!
can anyone recommend a good small city/big town for anyone, me specifically, who is on SSD and very low-income, now severely vision-impaired? i'd even not be amiss to living in one of those senior/disabled communities, as long i have access to public transportation, reasonable medical care, and some opportunities to volunteer. i am no longer very picky, just tired of being isolated and need to be around people! i'm going to take my time investigating where to move this time!
morning cha

for everyone!
namaste,
DamselFly

all my friends on here,
We layed my aunts body to rest yesterday. She had a peaceful passing over. Last night my Mom and I had a very bad time. She was going to toss my yeagest cat Molly out side or get read of her. I'm ashamed her and I got in to it. I lost my cool andtold her they go I go. She really p_ ss_ d me off magerly. I went in my bed room and slamed the bedroom door and locked it and went to bed with a high blood presser. Of corce she had to tel.l everyone I got mad at her and will not talk to her. This was befor I even got up. I wasn't talking to her I wasn't even up yet. Its just the same old crap. My mothers broth and his wife and one of his daughters and 1 grant daughter came up from Va. My cuz showed us some pics from Quwait ,(misspelled), where she had to go on a Gov.mission. She is in the very high in the pentagon. Thats all I can say about that. I talked to her about my daughters adatooed and gave me some pointers about her. She only lived about 1 hr from her. They go home tomorrow to Va. I guess thats it for now.
blueeyes226_l

DamselFly · 04-10-2011, 08:41 AM

dear blueeyes:
i hope your aunt had a peaceful passing! you are going through a rough time, that sounds certain! perhaps someday you will be able to find a more congenial place to live! living w/family,esp. when your family doesn't agree w/ your choices, can be extremely difficult! wish there were something i could do, besides offering to listen!
*burning incense for you and sending healing light*
namaste,
DamselFly

blueeyes226_l · 04-20-2011, 06:51 PM

Gee where is everyone????
blueeyes226

DamselFly · 04-23-2011, 12:01 PM

dear L/lofters,
i apologize for my prolonged absence. i have been taking care of an orphaned foal, a whippet, not-my-Anatolian Turkish hound, a mama cat, and finally, myself. the foal's mother died in giving birth to Nickers. he had to have a blood transfusion b/c he didn't get any colostrum. he isn't even a week old but is already over 110 lbs (weighing more than i do!), eating like a horse, healthy, sweet, a fighter, and very smart! soon i shall be able to post pics of myself w/Nickers and the rest of the menagerie. the first pics of me on the internet! i guess i'm a farmhand now, lol.
namaste,
DamselFly

04-08-2011, 08:44 AM	#3
DamselFly Member How Do You Identify?: QueerStoneFemme Preferred Pronoun?: Ma'am or Damsel Relationship Status: single Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: hovering here and there Posts: 259 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,053 Thanked 771 Times in 199 Posts Rep Power: 396593	???? zhaoshanghao (good morning), lofters! Blueeyes, i hope you are doing better! can anyone recommend a good small city/big town for anyone, me specifically, who is on SSD and very low-income, now severely vision-impaired? i'd even not be amiss to living in one of those senior/disabled communities, as long i have access to public transportation, reasonable medical care, and some opportunities to volunteer. i am no longer very picky, just tired of being isolated and need to be around people! i'm going to take my time investigating where to move this time! morning cha for everyone! namaste, DamselFly __________________ so long as space remains so long as sentient beings remain i will remain in order to help, to serve, to make my own contribution (Buddhist prayer, a favorite of H.H.)

04-09-2011, 09:14 AM	#5
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	morning Lofters is it spring yet???? __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

04-09-2011, 11:07 AM	#6
DamselFly Member How Do You Identify?: QueerStoneFemme Preferred Pronoun?: Ma'am or Damsel Relationship Status: single Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: hovering here and there Posts: 259 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,053 Thanked 771 Times in 199 Posts Rep Power: 396593	90s here! it is here! the temp is climbing into the 90s today! we are under a severe burn warning/risk throughout most of the state and no rain in sight! ai,ai, ai! namaste DamselFly __________________ so long as space remains so long as sentient beings remain i will remain in order to help, to serve, to make my own contribution (Buddhist prayer, a favorite of H.H.)

04-09-2011, 12:32 PM	#7
lipstixgal Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: coupled Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: New Jersey Posts: 3,028 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 201 Thanked 1,690 Times in 1,064 Posts Rep Power: 1494761	Good Afternoon lofters its a great day here today we are having a barbecue so that is fun. Well I'm not doing the cooking the g/f is, she likes to do these things and I'm too femme to do them. I stay inside and play on BFP!! I hope everyone has a great weekend!! __________________ Gail

04-10-2011, 08:41 AM	#9
DamselFly Member How Do You Identify?: QueerStoneFemme Preferred Pronoun?: Ma'am or Damsel Relationship Status: single Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: hovering here and there Posts: 259 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,053 Thanked 771 Times in 199 Posts Rep Power: 396593	so sorry dear blueeyes: i hope your aunt had a peaceful passing! you are going through a rough time, that sounds certain! perhaps someday you will be able to find a more congenial place to live! living w/family,esp. when your family doesn't agree w/ your choices, can be extremely difficult! wish there were something i could do, besides offering to listen! burning incense for you and sending healing light namaste, DamselFly __________________ so long as space remains so long as sentient beings remain i will remain in order to help, to serve, to make my own contribution (Buddhist prayer, a favorite of H.H.)

04-20-2011, 06:51 PM	#10
blueeyes226_l Member How Do You Identify?: soft butch-I am who I am Relationship Status: single and looking Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: near Olean,N.Y. Posts: 119 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 37 Thanked 107 Times in 57 Posts Rep Power: 171	Gee Gee where is everyone???? blueeyes226

04-23-2011, 12:01 PM	#11
DamselFly Member How Do You Identify?: QueerStoneFemme Preferred Pronoun?: Ma'am or Damsel Relationship Status: single Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: hovering here and there Posts: 259 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,053 Thanked 771 Times in 199 Posts Rep Power: 396593	here for little while dear L/lofters, i apologize for my prolonged absence. i have been taking care of an orphaned foal, a whippet, not-my-Anatolian Turkish hound, a mama cat, and finally, myself. the foal's mother died in giving birth to Nickers. he had to have a blood transfusion b/c he didn't get any colostrum. he isn't even a week old but is already over 110 lbs (weighing more than i do!), eating like a horse, healthy, sweet, a fighter, and very smart! soon i shall be able to post pics of myself w/Nickers and the rest of the menagerie. the first pics of me on the internet! i guess i'm a farmhand now, lol. namaste, DamselFly __________________ so long as space remains so long as sentient beings remain i will remain in order to help, to serve, to make my own contribution (Buddhist prayer, a favorite of H.H.)