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			{{{{{{{{{{{{Mitmo}}}}}}}}}}}}}}  Oh my heart aches for you!  What a difficult thing for you and your Diego both!  We'll keep him in our thoughts, darlin. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	White Tigress, hello and thank you for joining us! I enjoyed your post. Honestly, I find that people who follow the Native American ways do tend to be understanding of the work a healer does. Tis late and I need to go offline. Good night to everyone!! Blessings for peace, healing, and harmony on us all.  | 
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			Hey y'all. Wiccan here.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I'm going to go against the flow and say that casting a hex or a curse does not invalidate your realness any more than leading a life of complete and utter spiritual fluff does. (NOTE: I do not think bit was invalidating me! I need to clarify that. This is a thought I've heard expressed before in a less ... kind manner. But bit is correct...witches do not go around randomly throwing curses. That's a Christian myth used to scare people.) I have cast curses as well as hexes and also bindings. There is a difference. I would do it again in heartbeat if the situation were the same. Several people here have pointed out that it comes back on the caster. It does but not always in the same way. In fact, rarely in the same way. The Law of Threefold (Lo3) (not Three, but Threefold--that's important) is one of the few fundamentals of Wiccan spirituality. When I teach this part of Wicca, I have my students take a piece of paper and fold it three times. Then I ask them to count the layers. That is the amount of return you can expect. For good and bad alike. Drop a rock in to a bucket and count the ripples. When you stir up something, that is what happens. I have stirred my share of ripples up. I also teach my students that we are not Lords of Karma. We are not the judges of our fellow man. To pass judgment on another is to see what we often dislike in our own mirrors. I'm glad to be here. My views on my religion (Wicca) are my own. I do not expect to change anyone's mind but I do hope for intelligent discourse and fun camaraderie. 
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			Thank you all for teaching me about your beliefs.  I am learning a lot here.   
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I do not understand Karma in all honesty. I thought Karma was something bad, but it is not. It can be good. Am I right in that? So what is paying back a debt in Karma? Isn't that = to throwing a stone and watching the water ripple?  | 
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			{{{{{{{{{{{Arwen}}}}}}}}}}}}  I've done my share of bindings as well, but only when someone needed some serious protection. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Thank you for the edit on your post; when I first read it, I did think that you felt invalidated and quite honestly, I could see where my post might very well come across as invalidating! I truly did not mean to do so. ~~~~~~~~ Andrew, most people in this country misunderstand Karma and I am not sure I grasp the concept well enough to explain the way Eastern peoples (Buddhists, Hindus, etc) use it... BUT... I can tell you how we are commonly using it in the US. Here in this country, when most people say "Karma," they mean "consequences." And it is very true that consequences can be either negative or positive, just as the original actions were. I think ripples in a pond would be a good analogy, especially since once the ripples reach the edge, they start back in the other direction and pretty soon there are ripples going out from the center AND ripples coming back INTO the center, crossing each other and affecting each other. That pretty much is how our actions affect our lives, I think, and that would be why it's so important to be sure that what we send out is positive, so that what comes back is positive.  | 
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			Poppin' in for a minute... <waves hello>  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I am looking forward to participating in the conversations. I practice shamanism and have for almost two decades. I believe that everything is alive and all things have a place in the world. I experience the worlds as all connected. I believe we live in a multiverse and not a universe. I think all people should be free to practice whatever they want, free from discrimination, judgment and oh yeah the biggie... no threat of death. I feel incredibly fortunate to live in a place that allows me the freedom to be who I am. Must get back to work before the pile of paper on my desk becomes a landslide...  | 
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			 So, in another spot I was starting to talk about using a pendulum. Her name is Gladys and she is Peacock Ore for the holding stone and Citrine for the pointer. I have had a couple others over the years and they work really well for me. Better in most cases then using cards. I use a protective devise called Mirror box and that works really well. In cases of real need I will ask my Ancestors if I can push a person's karma, but its only in a major case of some one doing serious harm to several people. 
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