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Old 04-13-2011, 02:54 PM   #1
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I may be old fashoned but if you make a comitment to each other as to being in a relationship you are off the market it may be poly situaton or the monog type but still. Desd and I became exclusive in June of 09 and now we are going to have a wedding even tho it ain't legal in NY but I want her to have that day in front of our family and friends even if is cares this comitment phobe BOI
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I'm off the market when it is agreed by both of us that we are exclusive. Marriage isn't a factor. And still won't be when the Prop 8 issue is settled in California and same-sex marriage is legal (yes, I am staying positive).
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I am not in a relationship. But I am off the market I do not want a romance. One can be "off the market" even if they arent in a relationship.

(I have a submissive. It is a BDSM relationship.
Mistake not the two.)

But if I Were in a romance, once we as a couple made the determination we were exclusive with one another, from that moment on, both would be off the market.

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Cool thread.

My ex-wife considers herself off the market if she finds you interesting enough for a second date. She pursues one person at a time.

Honestly, I don't know that I ever consider myself "off the market". LOL I may not put out the "On Sale Now" flyer, but it's always on the shelf. But I do warn girls ahead of time that I am a leacherous bastard. Also as I've gotten older, I don't actively look for love interests (whether I'm in or out of a relationship), I just let the cards fall where they may....also whether I'm in or out of a relationship.
No additional cards are falling right now, just clarifying for Dixie.

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Hmm...usually it's rare for me to consider myself off the market. I'm always on the market if it's just casual dating and sometimes even if there are deeper feelings involved. There have only been 2 relationships where I actually cared enough for the person to consider myself unavailable to others (one with an ex, one with my current). Any off market status is subject to change, though, depending on how I'm feeling in/with a relationship. I also rarely go "on the prowl" for other avenues. I just tend to have a flirty nature with pretty much EVERYONE, and sometimes it leads to certain scenarios/individuals that are more enticing to me.

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I am off the market

There is one person I love and am deeply in love with and the market holds no value for me.
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I am "off the market" if I am in an exclusive relationship.

"Off the market" simply means I am in an exclusive relationship. If I am in an exclusive relationship, it means that I am not looking to date others and I see the current relationship as a possible "forever" one.

It does not mean that I am married or have chosen my "forever partner".
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No surprise here.


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As most of you know, I'm off the market and have been for quite a while. I know, I know...Sorry to disappoint you but these things happen.

However, it doesn't mean I can't play and be my crazy ass self
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I may be old fashoned but if you make a comitment to each other as to being in a relationship you are off the market it may be poly situaton or the monog type but still. Desd and I became exclusive in June of 09 and now we are going to have a wedding even tho it ain't legal in NY but I want her to have that day in front of our family and friends even if is cares this comitment phobe BOI
I've considered myself off the market since I started talking to you. I knew there was something special about you and I told the few other people "Sorry, you're SOL, I got me a keeper!"

Seriously, I did.

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I've considered myself off the market since I started talking to you. I knew there was something special about you and I told the few other people "Sorry, you're SOL, I got me a keeper!"

Seriously, I did.


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And I might say "Hey"
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I always know when I am "Off The Market" when the thought of anyone else touching me makes me feel icky in my tummy.

It's very scientific.
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