What TO DO in a relationship.....

[Daywalker]

Call her Beautiful, don't just tell her she is.



Dig up rocks for her ~ because U want to.
(just make sure that pretty rock doesn't just look
like a stoopid potato when ya get it home)



When U have passed the 7 year mark and are working on 8,
and she knows that she now haz all yer Exes beat in the
relationship duration thing...let her rejoice and dance
around the kitchen like she's spiking
a football in the End Zone.


Oh, and brush her hair for her ~ try not to pull it (too hard)

[girl_dee]

Brushing her hair...... OHHHhhhh yes good one!

Don't make promises then don't keep them.

[Lynn]

It helps if she thinks you're adorable.
Tell her you love her and that she's beautiful, but really mean it.
Choose someone who thinks you're really funny, even if you don't know why you amuse them so much.
Express gratitude and appreciation as often as you feel it.
Always ask if you can get her something while you're in the kitchen.

[girl_dee]

Make sure she knows she's not replacing your ex.

[scootebaby]

rub her feet--even tho you have a thing about feet-because it helps her!

thank her often for all she does for you

do something for no reason at all!

[IrishGrrl]

Cook dinner
Massages after a long hard day
Clean and wash her car
Bring home wild flowers you picked on the side of the road.
Fuck her well, and often.
Dont stop when she says she cant again, there is always one more in there.
Bring her coffee
Wash her hair
Tell her how beautiful she is when she wakes up in the morning, and then show her.
Smile and be proud of her when she is on your arm. Even when you are at home depot together, covered in dirt..picking up last minute supplies you ran out of while planting a garden.
Put air in her tires, and check the oil.
Take her out on surprise picnics.
Never wait for the perfect moment to tell her how you feel. Say it when you feel it, dont hold it in.
Give her white and red roses, the symbols for purity and love.
Hold her hair back while she is throwing up from the flu.
Bring her chocolates, and a heating pad when she has cramps and PMS, also, just say, yes baby..to anything she says during that time.
Listen to every lyric, to every song she posts..she may be talking to you.
Protect her, keep her safe.
Spank her ass when she needs it.
Let her spank yours if she needs it.

[girl_dee]

laugh .........

[Greco]

make love often

enjoy listening to music dance

have dinner together candles flowers even on a weekday

different friends spend time away with said friends

common friends same as above

have interests that keep the conversations
exciting

silence together

read to her if she enjoys this

let her read to you if you enjoy this

cook together already has been shared

surprise her in ways she enjoys

hmmm seems I have some thoughts
on this

enjoying reading this thread thanks

Greco

[Kenna]

...enjoy and take time for frequent family-centered dinners, at a real dinner table... away from the TV, computers and other such devices.
Even if it's a dinner for two, or just "pizza night"... sit at a dinner table and take time to be together without distractions, enjoy eachother's company and lots of laughter...or a serious talk where you give the other your undivided attention... at a real dinner table.

For years while raising my son, because we were always so busy or were distracted by TV or video games, I neglected the family dinner time....
Until his grandparents reminded me of the importance of and special communications that can happen while at a real dinner table... and it reminded me of how many special memories I have of my great-gramma while at her table. In a relationship, I think the special time spent at a dinner or breakfast table is very important and very healthy.

And it's fun to make special traditions for dinner time.... like my son's favorite that was passed down from my great-grampa..."Have dessert first; how else would you have room for it." ...I love to see people's expressions when I occasionally pull that one on them. Or, the old fashioned "pass and break the bread" at the beginning of a meal (that's one of my favorites). Dinner table traditions are a fun thing to do and opens up the door for laughter and relaxation.

I believe the things that can happen and the open communication that flows at a dinner table can really strengthen bonds in a relationship.... it also shows you are willing to MAKE time out of your busy day for the other person or family members....

I love my beautiful dinner table NOT because it is a 100 year old hand carved, honey stained solid oak with beautiful round top and "hand turned" legs, with 4 very beautiful "wheat back" solid oak comfortable chairs...but because of the many special times and memories with family and loved ones.

[Blade]

play, have fun, joke around. Life is much less stressful when you don't take everything so seriously.

[Blade]

thought of another to do........If you are feeling like a night in shining armor or whatever you call a femme in shining armor. Jump on your horse and ride off into the sunset....come back and try it again when your armor is a little tarnished.