The Art of Us

imperfect_cupcake · 01-13-2010, 03:13 PM

relationships...

brings out the best in me AND bring up every single issue on co-dependancy I was unable to work on when single.

I have learned if both people in the relationships put in equal work on shit, call each other up on owning their stuff and work on it, it plumets and mires.

I can disapear in a relationship, so it's very important my partner understands my need for space. Luckily I've some how wound up with a partner who understands me VERY well and will often give me a heads up onto my behaviour before I've even clocked it. She'll suggest me having alone time just before I realise I need it myself, for example.

It's nice to have a *partner* again. Someone I can really take on the world with. I feel I can trust her. More than anyone I've been with in years.

coming up two years. Then the honeymoon period is supposedly over! we'll see

imperfect_cupcake · 01-13-2010, 09:49 PM

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I have learned if both people in the relationships put in equal work on shit, call each other up on owning their stuff and work on it, it plumets and mires.

ha.

that should read "if both people in the relationship DON'T put in equal work..."

but I imagine talking things to death and living in permenant therapy within the relationship would do the same damage..

Jet · 01-13-2010, 09:56 PM

A relationship isn't for me. I have yet to see one that works in my life, no matter how much I love....so I'm done.

LadyFlamezzz · 01-15-2010, 05:08 PM

I always wanted my first relationship to be my last...the old white picket fence storyline ya know? The forever after kind of love!
I learned as i aged a little that I'm fine with being alone I can conquer just as much on my own or in a relationship.With that said I do have to admit that my present is my last relationship. I have found not only my equal in many ways but my best friend as well> we talk about everything and I think that is the key to long lasting lives together <open honest heart felt > communication. I can honestly tell you all, I can tell hym anything and everything and I do,lol

Hy has also been good for me in the respect of teaching me things that although i already knew some of them i didn't always know how to apply in my daily life. Like being kind to people. I grew up hard as nails my motto has always been do unto others before they can do unto me...hy changed all that. I am so thankful my partner now is a part of my life. I find myself missing hym even on short store runs,lol

Because of hym I have more true friends in my life now. People i can honestly say I love and treasure and hope are a part of my life from here on out. Hy showed me how to find the good in all people. Hy also changed my views on a few important things that kept me closed minded to change. For that gift i am forever grateful to hym...I see things more clearly now days and I know what questions to ask If i don't know something and hopefully how to ask them.

Oh my I'm rambling again aren't I?.lol

Just goes to show how very much I love hym and it's so nice to have a partner i highly respect. i couldn't say that about one or two!

anyway I vote on being in my relationship as opposed to not being in it,lol

LadyFlamezzz · 01-15-2010, 05:59 PM

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Originally Posted by LadyFlamezzz

I always wanted my first relationship to be my last...the old white picket fence storyline ya know? The forever after kind of love!
I learned as i aged a little that I'm fine with being alone I can conquer just as much on my own or in a relationship.With that said I do have to admit that my present is my last relationship. I have found not only my equal in many ways but my best friend as well> we talk about everything and I think that is the key to long lasting lives together <open honest heart felt > communication. I can honestly tell you all, I can tell hym anything and everything and I do,lol

Hy has also been good for me in the respect of teaching me things that although i already knew some of them i didn't always know how to apply in my daily life. Like being kind to people. I grew up hard as nails my motto has always been do unto others before they can do unto me...hy changed all that. I am so thankful my partner now is a part of my life. I find myself missing hym even on short store runs,lol

Because of hym I have more true friends in my life now. People i can honestly say I love and treasure and hope are a part of my life from here on out. Hy showed me how to find the good in all people. Hy also changed my views on a few important things that kept me closed minded to change. For that gift i am forever grateful to hym...I see things more clearly now days and I know what questions to ask If i don't know something and hopefully how to ask them.

Oh my I'm rambling again aren't I?.lol

Just goes to show how very much I love hym and it's so nice to have a partner i highly respect. i couldn't say that about one or two!

anyway I vote on being in my relationship as opposed to not being in it,lol

LWF, I didn't realize this was a poetry thread my apologies for just posting and it not be in the format you wanted....oopsy

LeftWriteFemme · 01-15-2010, 06:24 PM

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Originally Posted by LadyFlamezzz

LWF, I didn't realize this was a poetry thread my apologies for just posting and it not be in the format you wanted....oopsy

Wonderful Lady,

Any way you want to post in here is great as far as I'm concerned! I am always thrilled when you share your thoughts in the format of your choice!

Very truly,

Sherrie

Leigh · 01-16-2010, 11:12 AM

I don't exactly have any fancy poetry to put in here but for Me, it all depends on the relationship I am in as to whether or not I am good in it. I've had relationships where I was a much better person for being in them, and other ones where I was pretty much dragged so far under that I was barely floating above water. I know that the next one I am in I will try not to make the same mistakes as I have in the past, so that hopefully I will finally be able to find My forever love

friskyfemme · 01-23-2010, 10:57 AM

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Originally Posted by LadyFlamezzz

I always wanted my first relationship to be my last...the old white picket fence storyline ya know? The forever after kind of love!
I learned as i aged a little that I'm fine with being alone I can conquer just as much on my own or in a relationship.With that said I do have to admit that my present is my last relationship. I have found not only my equal in many ways but my best friend as well> we talk about everything and I think that is the key to long lasting lives together <open honest heart felt > communication. I can honestly tell you all, I can tell hym anything and everything and I do,lol

Hy has also been good for me in the respect of teaching me things that although i already knew some of them i didn't always know how to apply in my daily life. Like being kind to people. I grew up hard as nails my motto has always been do unto others before they can do unto me...hy changed all that. I am so thankful my partner now is a part of my life. I find myself missing hym even on short store runs,lol

Because of hym I have more true friends in my life now. People i can honestly say I love and treasure and hope are a part of my life from here on out. Hy showed me how to find the good in all people. Hy also changed my views on a few important things that kept me closed minded to change. For that gift i am forever grateful to hym...I see things more clearly now days and I know what questions to ask If i don't know something and hopefully how to ask them.

Oh my I'm rambling again aren't I?.lol

Just goes to show how very much I love hym and it's so nice to have a partner i highly respect. i couldn't say that about one or two!

anyway I vote on being in my relationship as opposed to not being in it,lol

This has all the elements of poetry. Heartfelt, rhythmic, an universally understood.

Leigh · 01-23-2010, 11:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Tommi

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Braedon is poetic (See above, no matter what form).
be back after football in whatever format ..

Go Chargers

Go Go Go
My girl loves me
So So So

Well I'll be damned ......... I'm a poet and didn't even know it

LeftWriteFemme · 01-23-2010, 11:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Braedon

Well I'll be damned ......... I'm a poet and didn't even know it

Hy has that effect on me too, it's the darnedest thing.........

Sachita · 01-17-2010, 02:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Ol' Jet

A relationship isn't for me. I have yet to see one that works in my life, no matter how much I love....so I'm done.

awww Jet

You know I thought this and part of me still wants to cling to this. Yeah, I'm a little bitter and my feathers tattered from being hurt but I also know that deep down I want to feel in love again. I'm not sure it will happen but I hope so.

Like you its going to take a special person and they just might have to jump through a few hoops.

SuperFemme · 01-17-2010, 02:16 PM

I think my last relationship is the best. Like wine, some things are better with age.

Luckily somebody was able to pry open my tiny tiny heart and fill it with love again.

LeftWriteFemme · 01-17-2010, 06:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Sachita

its going to take a special person and they just might have to jump through a few hoops.

I thought I would give you a little peek at the new generation who are learning to jump through hoops......

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7HiPePejNiM&feature=related"]YouTube- Katie's Heber Pow Wow Hoop Dance '09[/ame]

and someone who can jump through hoops so well she could distract you from your broken heart

[ame="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-fKM6kiWjJo&feature=related"]YouTube- Hoop Dancer - Lisa Odjig (Nov 2007)[/ame]

Odarlin · 01-19-2010, 02:50 AM

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Originally Posted by LeftWriteFemme

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and someone who can jump through hoops so well she could distract you from your broken heart

YouTube- Hoop Dancer - Lisa Odjig (Nov 2007)

Absolutely amazing. Thank you.

She is so strong and elegant.

It puts a spin to ponder upon the phrase.

LeftWriteFemme · 01-19-2010, 04:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Odarlin

Absolutely amazing. Thank you.

She is so strong and elegant.

It puts a spin to ponder upon the phrase.

So glad you like it!!! I am a big fan of Pow Wow music and dancers. Have you ever seen any jingle dress dancers?

Jet · 02-25-2010, 08:58 PM

In interesting to see that relationships bring out the best in a majority of voters. i wouldn't have guessed.

LeftWriteFemme · 02-25-2010, 10:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Ol' Jet

In interesting to see that relationships bring out the best in a majority of voters. i wouldn't have guessed.

I was surprised.....my sponsor say "When I want to see all my defects I get into a relationship!" I understand her statement all too well....

Sachita · 02-03-2010, 07:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Sachita

awww Jet

You know I thought this and part of me still wants to cling to this. Yeah, I'm a little bitter and my feathers tattered from being hurt but I also know that deep down I want to fall in love again. I'm not sure it will happen but I hope so.

Like you its going to take a special person and they just might have to jump through a few hoops.

.

I wanted to revisit this. Its truly amazing how quickly your journey can change. I prayed like never before. I talked to the moon, the trees, my cats and dogs, anyone would listen.

Faith is a powerful thing. Manifest your reality by believing it can happen. Never ever give up. In a million years I would have never thought I could feel this way. Everything I've done in life has brought me to this.

So I want to thank my ex from the bottom of my heart for being such a cheating lying shit head and making room in my life. I want to thank hym for teaching me tolerance and for encouraging me to follow my dream, build a wonderful home for me and farmer J to enjoy. lol

wolfwalker · 02-03-2010, 10:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Sachita

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I wanted to revisit this. Its truly amazing how quickly your journey can change. I prayed like never before. I talked to the moon, the trees, my cats and dogs, anyone would listen.

Faith is a powerful thing. Manifest your reality by believing it can happen. Never ever give up. In a million years I would have never thought I could feel this way. Everything I've done in life has brought me to this.

So I want to thank my ex from the bottom of my heart for being such a cheating lying shit head and making room in my life. I want to thank hym for teaching me tolerance and for encouraging me to follow my dream, build a wonderful home for me and farmer J to enjoy. lol

and I would like to thank you ex also. maybe a nice card? LOL

Does hallmark make a card like that?

Dear person described above.

thank you,

LeftWriteFemme · 02-25-2010, 06:00 PM

Out of the Blue

You came to me from out of the blue
And now that I’ve seen that blue sky of yours
I can not imagine how it brought me to you

The clear expanse belies the storm
The storm carried to me across the miles
Lightning broadcasts the power of you

Rain falls and I dance
Trying to hypnotize
I don’t need to try

Your chance was long gone
Gone before I dialed
Before you said, Hello there

Escape is lost to pairs you see
There is nothing left but we
Miles harmless; land or sea.

View Poll Results: Does being in a relationship change you?
Relationships bring out the best in me	80	79.21%
I get into a relationship to see all my defects	7	6.93%
I blend in with the curtains when in a relationship	3	2.97%
Feel the weight of the world, must become a god in order to bear it	13	12.87%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 101. You may not vote on this poll

01-15-2010, 05:08 PM	#4
LadyFlamezzz Member How Do You Identify?: Femme who lives with A DayWalker Preferred Pronoun?: who cares just yell for Mrs Day Relationship Status: Very attached Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: In hys heart Posts: 241 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 263 Thanked 492 Times in 148 Posts Rep Power: 3181107	I always wanted my first relationship to be my last...the old white picket fence storyline ya know? The forever after kind of love! I learned as i aged a little that I'm fine with being alone I can conquer just as much on my own or in a relationship.With that said I do have to admit that my present is my last relationship. I have found not only my equal in many ways but my best friend as well> we talk about everything and I think that is the key to long lasting lives together <open honest heart felt > communication. I can honestly tell you all, I can tell hym anything and everything and I do,lol Hy has also been good for me in the respect of teaching me things that although i already knew some of them i didn't always know how to apply in my daily life. Like being kind to people. I grew up hard as nails my motto has always been do unto others before they can do unto me...hy changed all that. I am so thankful my partner now is a part of my life. I find myself missing hym even on short store runs,lol Because of hym I have more true friends in my life now. People i can honestly say I love and treasure and hope are a part of my life from here on out. Hy showed me how to find the good in all people. Hy also changed my views on a few important things that kept me closed minded to change. For that gift i am forever grateful to hym...I see things more clearly now days and I know what questions to ask If i don't know something and hopefully how to ask them. Oh my I'm rambling again aren't I?.lol Just goes to show how very much I love hym and it's so nice to have a partner i highly respect. i couldn't say that about one or two! anyway I vote on being in my relationship as opposed to not being in it,lol __________________

02-25-2010, 06:00 PM	#20
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01-13-2010, 03:13 PM	#1
imperfect_cupcake Senior Member How Do You Identify?: feminine dolly dyke Preferred Pronoun?: Your Grace Relationship Status: I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: In a gauze of mystery Posts: 1,776 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,426 Thanked 9,712 Times in 1,611 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	relationships... brings out the best in me AND bring up every single issue on co-dependancy I was unable to work on when single. I have learned if both people in the relationships put in equal work on shit, call each other up on owning their stuff and work on it, it plumets and mires. I can disapear in a relationship, so it's very important my partner understands my need for space. Luckily I've some how wound up with a partner who understands me VERY well and will often give me a heads up onto my behaviour before I've even clocked it. She'll suggest me having alone time just before I realise I need it myself, for example. It's nice to have a partner again. Someone I can really take on the world with. I feel I can trust her. More than anyone I've been with in years. coming up two years. Then the honeymoon period is supposedly over! we'll see

01-13-2010, 09:56 PM	#3
Jet Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: .. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .. Posts: 3,471 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 292 Thanked 2,647 Times in 1,293 Posts Rep Power: 0	A relationship isn't for me. I have yet to see one that works in my life, no matter how much I love....so I'm done.

01-16-2010, 11:12 AM	#7
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	I don't exactly have any fancy poetry to put in here but for Me, it all depends on the relationship I am in as to whether or not I am good in it. I've had relationships where I was a much better person for being in them, and other ones where I was pretty much dragged so far under that I was barely floating above water. I know that the next one I am in I will try not to make the same mistakes as I have in the past, so that hopefully I will finally be able to find My forever love

01-17-2010, 02:16 PM	#12
SuperFemme Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Permanently Banned 10/24/2010 Preferred Pronoun?: She. Relationship Status: Married (one of 18,000) Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Atascadero, CA Posts: 4,933 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,309 Thanked 7,108 Times in 2,327 Posts Rep Power: 0	I think my last relationship is the best. Like wine, some things are better with age. Luckily somebody was able to pry open my tiny tiny heart and fill it with love again.

02-25-2010, 08:58 PM	#16
Jet Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: .. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .. Posts: 3,471 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 292 Thanked 2,647 Times in 1,293 Posts Rep Power: 0	In interesting to see that relationships bring out the best in a majority of voters. i wouldn't have guessed.