The Loft: Butches and Femmes in their 40s, 50s and over.

morningstar55 · 05-02-2011, 05:53 AM

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Originally Posted by MsW8ing

Stopping in to say hello to all Lofters. Hope ya all had a great weekend

good morning MsW8 ..

..... love your siggy

Sweet_Amor_Taino · 05-02-2011, 07:31 AM

I once read an add that said Lesbians give the U-Haul a lot of business that it was best to own one. Why becuase they are ready to move in within weeks of knowing each other. I am sure it does not apply to us all but we are nesters by nature and unfortunately run fast into what is not right for us.

After rushing in and not looking both ways before crossing over I have learned to take it slow. I beleive in getting to know each other slowly and enjoying the beauty of dating. Though it does not guarantee it will work but it offers us both the opportunity to romance,have fun and our true nature to emerge and show who we really are and if its meant to be.

Taino
I think I went off line but any how I hope it was useful.

morningstar55 · 05-02-2011, 07:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Sweet_Amor_Taino

I once read an add that said Lesbians give the U-Haul a lot of business that it was best to own one. Why becuase they are ready to move in within weeks of knowing each other. I am sure it does not apply to us all but we are nesters by nature and unfortunately run fast into what is not right for us.

After rushing in and not looking both ways before crossing over I have learned to take it slow. I beleive in getting to know each other slowly and enjoying the beauty of dating. Though it does not guarantee it will work but it offers us both the opportunity to romance,have fun and our true nature to emerge and show who we really are and if its meant to be.

Taino
I think I went off line but any how I hope it was useful.

soo soo true...... Sir amor

.. i enjoy some old fashion dating .. i think its a lost part of getting to really know someone these days.

cuddlyfemme · 05-02-2011, 08:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Sweet_Amor_Taino

I once read an add that said Lesbians give the U-Haul a lot of business that it was best to own one. Why becuase they are ready to move in within weeks of knowing each other. I am sure it does not apply to us all but we are nesters by nature and unfortunately run fast into what is not right for us.

After rushing in and not looking both ways before crossing over I have learned to take it slow. I beleive in getting to know each other slowly and enjoying the beauty of dating. Though it does not guarantee it will work but it offers us both the opportunity to romance,have fun and our true nature to emerge and show who we really are and if its meant to be.

Taino
I think I went off line but any how I hope it was useful.

I totally agree, I think both people should get to know each other and see each's true nature before living together. I've been in several relationships that ended because I wouldn't rush in to live with the Butch

morningstar55 · 05-02-2011, 10:37 AM

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Originally Posted by cuddlyfemme

I totally agree, I think both people should get to know each other and see each's true nature before living together. I've been in several relationships that ended because I wouldn't rush in to live with the Butch

i was accused of not really being gay cuz i wouldnt jump and move in right away...... and on top of it.. my sister had just pased away .. anyways our relationship ended.

msW8ing · 05-02-2011, 06:27 PM

Reminds of one of my dear little straight friends when I left the ex..she asked me how long we were together I said only 3 years. She said "only" wow thats like 15 in lesbian years isn't it. roflmao made me laugh til I cried. Then I have a Stone Butch friend in Mo. that is in a band..they had rent a u-haul trailer one weekend for thier equiptment and one of the fans walked over to meet Hym as Hy was loading the equiptment after the set and she said " Wow now they bring the uhaul to the bar?? They don't even wait for the first date anymore. lol Synical yes funny too.

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i was accused of not really being gay cuz i wouldnt jump and move in right away...... and on top of it.. my sister had just pased away .. anyways our relationship ended.

msW8ing · 05-02-2011, 06:16 PM

Your so right Taino, when people rush they miss cherishing all those wonderfully romantic firsts...the first time you hold hands...that first long kiss so deep you forget to breath...the butterflies when they call you..the excitement of the dates to come..the neckin and sweet stuff...learning about one another. *sigh* I'm such a sap I know lol But I do agree with you.

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Originally Posted by Sweet_Amor_Taino

I once read an add that said Lesbians give the U-Haul a lot of business that it was best to own one. Why becuase they are ready to move in within weeks of knowing each other. I am sure it does not apply to us all but we are nesters by nature and unfortunately run fast into what is not right for us.

After rushing in and not looking both ways before crossing over I have learned to take it slow. I beleive in getting to know each other slowly and enjoying the beauty of dating. Though it does not guarantee it will work but it offers us both the opportunity to romance,have fun and our true nature to emerge and show who we really are and if its meant to be.

Taino
I think I went off line but any how I hope it was useful.

msW8ing · 05-02-2011, 06:19 PM

Why thank you kindly. I appreciate the compilment and good morning back. Hope your having a better day.

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Originally Posted by morningstar55

good morning MsW8 ..

..... love your siggy

blueeyes226_l · 05-02-2011, 08:45 PM

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Originally Posted by MsW8ing

Why thank you kindly. I appreciate the compilment and good morning back. Hope your having a better day.

Hello MsW8ing and welcome to are group.

msW8ing · 05-02-2011, 11:49 PM

Well thank you so much blueeyes. And hello back atcha.

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Hello MsW8ing and welcome to are group.

ruthie14 · 05-03-2011, 04:22 AM

Morning all!

Morning star... good luck on the job search. I am having the devil of a time finding a new job so for now, stuck with the very stressful one. Ended up in the er again on sunday night with a migraine. This job is too damn stressful!

Welcome to all the newcomers! Nice to see some new "faces"!

I love what all of you are talking about. Getting to know someone before you rush in. I am also having trouble with friends here insisting that I just go out and get laid. NOT into that either. I get a lot of offers for that kinda thing, but no one wants to date or have a gf.. just sex. I'm just not built that way. OK for them, not a prude, just not right for me. Don 't get me wrong, love sex, have a high sex drive, but only within a relationship... just me. Glad to see others who share this point of view. I was begining to think I was one of a very few.

Ruthie

morningstar55 · 05-03-2011, 04:40 AM

good morning Loft thread dwellers and peekers

ha ruthie...... i been told that before too .. about getting laid.. lol
i been in such a slump... with my mood for drawing/painting /creating.. some told me i need love in my life to get my mojo back...... or to just get laid.. ha .. well i dont know about that... there has to be feelings there in the love making dept for me.
just my 2 cents.. ty for the reppies everone.

msW8ing · 05-03-2011, 11:31 AM

I'm so right there with ya all on the just sex thing. Personally I need an emotional connection to go there with someone. I'm not wired for a "friends with benefits" or just to "get laid" if I wanted just to get laid I'd crawl up a chickens butt and wait. lol It's not just the sex it's the intimacy. So many have no clue that they are NOT the same thing. I'm so glad there are others that think as I do. Thank you!

morningstar55 · 05-17-2011, 06:28 AM

mawning Lofters
hope you all have a awsome day

05-02-2011, 07:31 AM	#2
Sweet_Amor_Taino Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Gentleman Preferred Pronoun?: he/him Relationship Status: Exclusively dating, Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Austin Tx Posts: 538 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 388 Thanked 853 Times in 298 Posts Rep Power: 4397590	Single and I do not own a U-Haul.. LOL I once read an add that said Lesbians give the U-Haul a lot of business that it was best to own one. Why becuase they are ready to move in within weeks of knowing each other. I am sure it does not apply to us all but we are nesters by nature and unfortunately run fast into what is not right for us. After rushing in and not looking both ways before crossing over I have learned to take it slow. I beleive in getting to know each other slowly and enjoying the beauty of dating. Though it does not guarantee it will work but it offers us both the opportunity to romance,have fun and our true nature to emerge and show who we really are and if its meant to be. Taino I think I went off line but any how I hope it was useful. __________________ When we are aware that each moment of each day and each step we take,is truly mystical and full of wonder,we will live our lives with greater thought and care, we will also respect and appreciate This moment.

05-03-2011, 04:22 AM	#11
ruthie14 Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: NJ Posts: 844 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,904 Thanked 1,245 Times in 461 Posts Rep Power: 5946335	\ Morning all! Morning star... good luck on the job search. I am having the devil of a time finding a new job so for now, stuck with the very stressful one. Ended up in the er again on sunday night with a migraine. This job is too damn stressful! Welcome to all the newcomers! Nice to see some new "faces"! I love what all of you are talking about. Getting to know someone before you rush in. I am also having trouble with friends here insisting that I just go out and get laid. NOT into that either. I get a lot of offers for that kinda thing, but no one wants to date or have a gf.. just sex. I'm just not built that way. OK for them, not a prude, just not right for me. Don 't get me wrong, love sex, have a high sex drive, but only within a relationship... just me. Glad to see others who share this point of view. I was begining to think I was one of a very few. Ruthie

05-03-2011, 04:40 AM	#12
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	good morning Loft thread dwellers and peekers ha ruthie...... i been told that before too .. about getting laid.. lol i been in such a slump... with my mood for drawing/painting /creating.. some told me i need love in my life to get my mojo back...... or to just get laid.. ha .. well i dont know about that... there has to be feelings there in the love making dept for me. just my 2 cents.. ty for the reppies everone. __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

05-03-2011, 11:31 AM	#13
msW8ing Member How Do You Identify?: multi-faceted gem, femme, submissive babygirl if the chemistry is there. Preferred Pronoun?: lady Relationship Status: working on myself Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Lewiston, Idaho Posts: 920 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,700 Thanked 2,497 Times in 654 Posts Rep Power: 21474851	I'm so right there with ya all on the just sex thing. Personally I need an emotional connection to go there with someone. I'm not wired for a "friends with benefits" or just to "get laid" if I wanted just to get laid I'd crawl up a chickens butt and wait. lol It's not just the sex it's the intimacy. So many have no clue that they are NOT the same thing. I'm so glad there are others that think as I do. Thank you! __________________ *Don't judge me by my past..I don't live there anymore* A lady who knows the ropes..will never be bound. ~Mae West

05-17-2011, 06:28 AM	#14
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	mawning Lofters hope you all have a awsome day __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.