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She is truly a beautiful little soul, but also one hell of a grot! She is getting better at taking showers, even if she doesn't care for them. It's getting her to wash her hair that's the problem. Once she gets in there, her mind wanders, she goes on autopilot, and before you know it she's finished her shower and has forgotten to wash her hair AGAIN! It doesn't seem to bother her that it's like a dirty mop on her head... now that would just drive me crazy... |
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I am really glad that he has learned moderation with the "Axe" body spray. When he was about 8, his stepfather gave him part of a Halston z14 cologne gift set. Stepdad drove him to school every morning and I will never forget seeing Mel (stepdad) arriving back home, all four windows down and his head stuck out the window much like a dog riding in the car. It was February and much too cold to have windows down. Mel came into the house, eyes red and watery. I asked if he was ok. He looked at me and said, "We HAVE to teach that boy some moderation... I feel like I have been maced!" ![]() ![]() The moderation lessons took a while, but at least he wasn't stanky! |
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”There is a double standard in communication between those that hold the most common views and those who do not: “When I do not understand other people that is perceived as being my fault. “When other people do not understand me, that is somehow my fault as well.” - Ilah, adult probable Aspie from USA |
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Violaine, I can relate to that quote by Ilah. Thank you for posting that.
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That's a GREAT Bratboy story, Christie! Made me laugh pretty hard.
That quote you posted pretty much sums up how I feel, too, belle. Soooo, I'm almost halfway through The Highly Sensitive Person. I hit a hard place, the part about going to school. I'm surprised that I got this far through the book without it pushing any buttons for me, since everything applies to me... guess that means I managed to forget most of my early childhood, which is probably a blessing. It's real hard not to be mad at my mom right now, which is very uncomfortable since we're pretty close. *sigh* But hey, maybe having another way to understand what happened to me will help me to finally come to peace with it all. I mean seriously, how many times do I have to DO this work, anyway? I think this is the fifth or sixth time dealing with it all; there's always something more to deal with, sheesh. It's time to let it go for good and get on with my life. |
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![]() there was a mystery for a long time as to something happening with departures, not all of them, but still, i was not quite able to put my finger on what it was. an awkwardness of some sort was there beyond abruptly leaving [no 20 minute lingering goodbyes for me- i'd rather just take off without saying a word sometimes], but a friend explained a recent interaction observed between me and someone saying our goodbyes. during the drive home, i mentioned that i sensed the person with whom i was talking wanted to hug me, but what happened? apparently, he tried to hug me several times- and i pulled completely away from the hugs and stepped back. ![]() urs, i am so happy for your daughter- ![]() Last edited by violaine; 01-18-2010 at 03:44 PM. |
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do any of you have an awareness of overloaded in the act or does the realisation come only afterwards ?
![]() i am asking because i know specific things that can get me to the point of overload or a potential MeltDown - but if i'm going through the motions of transitons/sensory issues, et c- i'm not sure i recognise the overload is happening until i'm on the other side of it. how i might present to someone experiencing me in overload = short, frustrated, different tone, not quite as communicative or able to find the words, et c. thank you! ![]() |
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