" Thought of the day "

Andrew, Jr. · 05-22-2011, 05:19 PM

When you laugh, everyone laughs with you. When you cry, you cry alone.

~Rosie

Billy · 05-23-2011, 08:35 AM

Thought for the Day
“The road to success
is always under construction

dixie · 06-03-2011, 06:26 AM

Today I will do my part to follow through on an inner change. When something inside of me has truly been worked through and released, I will believe in it. I have been restored to sanity. It is in my ability to believe in this that will make it real in my day-to-day life. When I refuse to really accept that an inner transformation has taken place, I will sabotage my own getting well - I take away the inner healing by telling myself that it is not real. I have the courage today to believe that a Higher Power is at work in my life and that I am meant to be whole and happy.

I have the courage to heal.

"Work and love - these are the basics;
Waking life is a dream controlled."
-George Santayana

Kobi · 06-03-2011, 07:19 AM

Thought For The Day

There is so much wisdom and food for thought here.
Yet, my thought for the day is....
just 14 more hours til I can go back to bed.

Jar · 06-03-2011, 07:49 AM

My thought for the day .....
why in the hell does my boss think his college kid is SO much help? He's a junior in college but he can't put a box together when the directions are right on the box. WTF??? He put together and packed 20 boxes yesterday and they're all gonna fall apart. DON'T SEND ME ANY MORE HELP MORON!!

QueenofSmirks · 06-03-2011, 08:01 AM

"It's good to have a job... it's good to have a job...."

dixie · 06-04-2011, 05:31 AM

When I feel angry, I seem to have two ways of dealing with it. I either hold it in and say nothing or I let it out in accusing, venting, nonproductive ways. When I do this, I rupture perfectly good relationships. It is fair for me to register disgruntled feelings when appropriate but that's all I need to do. When I can't hold back from getting into an argument using blame and accusation, I create a mess. When something goes wrong, feeling angry is normal. I need to give myself a few minutes to feel the anger before I act out the feeling, rather than immediately dumping it on someone else. When I can give myself permission to feel my own anger without fearing it will devour me, I can own it as mine and decide what to do with it next.

It is okay to feel anger.
It is okay to let anger go.

"Remember, you can't steal second if you don't take your foot off first."
-Mike Todd

06-03-2011, 07:19 AM	#4
Kobi Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Biological female. Lesbian. Relationship Status: Happy Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Hanging out in the Atlantic. Posts: 9,234 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,840 Thanked 34,622 Times in 7,640 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	Thought For The Day There is so much wisdom and food for thought here. Yet, my thought for the day is.... just 14 more hours til I can go back to bed. __________________

06-03-2011, 07:49 AM	#5
Jar Member How Do You Identify?: TG Butch Preferred Pronoun?: He, him, da bomb... Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Up and to the right Posts: 610 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 869 Thanked 2,341 Times in 534 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	My thought for the day ..... why in the hell does my boss think his college kid is SO much help? He's a junior in college but he can't put a box together when the directions are right on the box. WTF??? He put together and packed 20 boxes yesterday and they're all gonna fall apart. DON'T SEND ME ANY MORE HELP MORON!! __________________ *~ Jar ~* No matter what life brings you, always learn a lesson from your dog ... kick some grass over that shit and move on

06-03-2011, 08:01 AM	#6
QueenofSmirks Member How Do You Identify?: Just Me Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: Busy Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: Phoenix - Valley of the Sun Posts: 1,429 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,010 Thanked 2,916 Times in 880 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	"It's good to have a job... it's good to have a job...." __________________ Stephanie "There is only one success - to be able to spend your life in your own way." Christopher Morley

05-22-2011, 05:19 PM	#1
Andrew, Jr. Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Over the Rainbow in a House Posts: 5,072 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16,004 Thanked 5,249 Times in 2,216 Posts Rep Power: 0	When you laugh, everyone laughs with you. When you cry, you cry alone. ~Rosie

05-23-2011, 08:35 AM	#2
Billy Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Billy~ Preferred Pronoun?: Mr Princess ~ Relationship Status: Married April 20 2013 Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Nashville TN Posts: 1,730 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,059 Thanked 3,871 Times in 1,053 Posts Rep Power: 20503085	Thought for the Day “The road to success is always under construction

06-03-2011, 06:26 AM	#3
dixie Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: I usually just poke it with a stick. Preferred Pronoun?: Bitch Relationship Status: Intertwined deeply Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: We're all a little mad here. Posts: 6,627 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,972 Thanked 21,383 Times in 4,808 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Today I will do my part to follow through on an inner change. When something inside of me has truly been worked through and released, I will believe in it. I have been restored to sanity. It is in my ability to believe in this that will make it real in my day-to-day life. When I refuse to really accept that an inner transformation has taken place, I will sabotage my own getting well - I take away the inner healing by telling myself that it is not real. I have the courage today to believe that a Higher Power is at work in my life and that I am meant to be whole and happy. I have the courage to heal. "Work and love - these are the basics; Waking life is a dream controlled." -George Santayana

06-04-2011, 05:31 AM	#7
dixie Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: I usually just poke it with a stick. Preferred Pronoun?: Bitch Relationship Status: Intertwined deeply Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: We're all a little mad here. Posts: 6,627 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,972 Thanked 21,383 Times in 4,808 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	When I feel angry, I seem to have two ways of dealing with it. I either hold it in and say nothing or I let it out in accusing, venting, nonproductive ways. When I do this, I rupture perfectly good relationships. It is fair for me to register disgruntled feelings when appropriate but that's all I need to do. When I can't hold back from getting into an argument using blame and accusation, I create a mess. When something goes wrong, feeling angry is normal. I need to give myself a few minutes to feel the anger before I act out the feeling, rather than immediately dumping it on someone else. When I can give myself permission to feel my own anger without fearing it will devour me, I can own it as mine and decide what to do with it next. It is okay to feel anger. It is okay to let anger go. "Remember, you can't steal second if you don't take your foot off first." -Mike Todd