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Old 06-02-2011, 09:40 AM   #1
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I have a bad habit of replying to a compliment with "Oh, this old thing?" or "You're kidding; I haven't had my hair done in weeks". I don't think it's a butch-femme thing; I think many people have trouble accepting compliments and shrug them off.
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Old 06-02-2011, 10:01 AM   #2
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My experience with this topic is that anyone, wether butch, femme, allien, etc, would much rather be complimented before they ask
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Old 06-02-2011, 10:39 AM   #4
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I was gonna say, if they have to ask, no one is going to believe the compliment. I always try to compliment, (if one is in order) before the question is asked, no matter who it is.

That being said, I also know some people who will always "fish" for a compliment. When I know their fishing, I won't say anything to the matter. It's a fun game for me.
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Femme : *Do these jeans look ok?* (spinning around)

Butch: * Yes it does, I love those jeans on you*

Femme: * so, you don't like the way I look in any of my other jeans do you?*


Butch: *There was no right answer, was there?*




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Now that is a simple, brilliant assessment of the situation.
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