What Do You Miss?

tapu · 06-09-2011, 01:49 PM

Having two cars.

tapu · 06-09-2011, 01:50 PM

Having two mama's around.

tapu · 06-09-2011, 01:50 PM

Ah. And having two incomes.

avec_amore · 06-09-2011, 02:20 PM

Someone to cook for
Inside jokes
Spooning with someone (instead of the couch cushions : /)
Having a date to concerts (i'm going to Peter Gabriel alone next week...)
The smell of "hym" and "hys" things with my things in the closet and bath
*sigh*

Starrynightaw · 06-16-2011, 04:24 PM

That few moments before going to sleep when I was at complete relaxation and felt arms around me. Now it's a million pillows surrounding me like a fort. Still missing something...

wolfbittenpoet · 06-16-2011, 04:28 PM

Having someone to watch sleep all night besides the cat.
Having stripes all over my body under my shirt because they lose control.
Having a surprise 2 am snack watching the stars or old movies.
Knowing someone will worry if I don't call or show up somewhere.

foxyshaman · 06-16-2011, 04:41 PM

My map girl. She could get me anywhere. And her eggs benedict, we would have that on Sunday mornings, laying in bed watching Coronation Street. I hate coronation street now and have not touched eggs bene.

*Anya* · 06-24-2011, 10:14 AM

Coffee ready when I wake up; warm cup of soup when I am ill; sex whenever and always (although I have learned a lot about my own sexual pleasure than I did when coupled for so long); the strong arms to hold me to give me inner strength when times are hard; when I see a funny movie or laugh at The Big Bang Theory but I am laughing alone-oh gosh getting maudlin here. I do not want to remain single forever but am not desperate or needy. I am comfortable in my skin with myself but want to have someone to share my skin.

Hack · 06-25-2011, 07:47 PM

Being necessary to someone other than my boss.

My green sweatshirt.

Walking down the street and feeling her hand slip in to mine.

Popping one eye open while lying in bed just in time to see her walk across my line of sight wearing nothing but a towel after her bath.

Mister Bent · 06-25-2011, 07:59 PM

My stainless steel fish bottle opener, it's just not beer without it.

Stella, my orange iPod shuffle. Though for some dumb reason she left the charger base.

bigbutchmistie · 07-21-2011, 09:40 AM

I Miss :

Hearing a cute femme's laugh

The sparkle in her eye when she looks at me

The smile on her face just because

Holding her in my arms

Protecting her

Being silly with her

Watching that special femme sleep in the moonlight

Putting my hand on the small of her back as we walk side by side

Talking and laughing and sharing secrets and dreams

Stealing kisses at the red light or anywhere just because I cant get enough of her

Her hand on my leg as I drive

Buying/Picking flowers just because I know she isnt expecting it

Leaving little love notes in unexpected places for her to find.

Passion filled love making

Just watching tv together

Walking up behind her in the kitchen while she cooks and wrapping her up in my arms from behind....

Sweet phone calls/texts throughout the day

LaneyDoll · 06-25-2011, 10:14 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hack

Being necessary to someone.

Beautifully stated.

tapu · 06-25-2011, 11:22 PM

Going to bed together every night, for years.

(Plus that cooked food thing still. That's looming pretty large in my life, today.)

proximitywithoutintimacy · 07-19-2011, 07:55 PM

I miss the sound of her voice.

I miss being held.

Strappie · 07-19-2011, 08:46 PM

CUSTOMER SERVICE... you know, the old fashion kind!! Straight up kindness and doing people right!

clay · 07-19-2011, 09:25 PM

I miss "belonging" to someone!!! I miss the fact that I mattered!!
I miss having coffee in the mornings! I miss the spooning, girl skin on girl skin! I miss the waking up to watch her breathe...sleep washed over her, the sliver of silvery moonlight, illuminating her body, assuring me she is still there!!! I miss the weekends stolen away...just US weekend!!! I miss being two!!!

msW8ing · 07-21-2011, 08:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Strappie

CUSTOMER SERVICE... you know, the old fashion kind!! Straight up kindness and doing people right!

AHAHAHAHA Strappie plz plz don't ever change. I sooooooooo needed this belly laugh today. Dude your so twisted in a good way.

Trey339 · 10-15-2011, 02:05 PM

well,,, after being (2yrs) single from a very ltr,,,I can honestly say I miss the closeness and intimacy of sleeping with my lady the most,,,

Trey339 · 10-15-2011, 02:09 PM

and yes,,,a million other things,,,

Silverseastar · 10-27-2011, 09:22 PM

I miss....

being touched. Falling asleep spooned from behind with her fist in my hair. Laughing and being silly with someone you also can be deeply intimate with. Feeling like I matter deeply to one important person. Having someone to do those special things for and with that define your special relationship.

This thread makes me misty eyed!

06-09-2011, 01:49 PM	#1
tapu Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Understated butch. Preferred Pronoun?: I Relationship Status: Party of One Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Maine Posts: 1,654 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,324 Thanked 3,114 Times in 1,103 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Having two cars. __________________ Really? That's not funny to you?

06-09-2011, 01:50 PM	#2
tapu Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Understated butch. Preferred Pronoun?: I Relationship Status: Party of One Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Maine Posts: 1,654 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,324 Thanked 3,114 Times in 1,103 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Having two mama's around. __________________ Really? That's not funny to you?

06-09-2011, 01:50 PM	#3
tapu Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Understated butch. Preferred Pronoun?: I Relationship Status: Party of One Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Maine Posts: 1,654 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,324 Thanked 3,114 Times in 1,103 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Ah. And having two incomes. __________________ Really? That's not funny to you?

06-09-2011, 02:20 PM	#4
avec_amore Junior Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: female ones Relationship Status: single Join Date: May 2011 Location: Denver (for now...) Posts: 38 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 61 Thanked 52 Times in 13 Posts Rep Power: 194057	I miss... Someone to cook for Inside jokes Spooning with someone (instead of the couch cushions : /) Having a date to concerts (i'm going to Peter Gabriel alone next week...) The smell of "hym" and "hys" things with my things in the closet and bath sigh

06-16-2011, 04:28 PM	#6
wolfbittenpoet Member How Do You Identify?: Typewriter Boy Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: FL Posts: 534 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 891 Thanked 1,578 Times in 402 Posts Rep Power: 7303677	Having someone to watch sleep all night besides the cat. Having stripes all over my body under my shirt because they lose control. Having a surprise 2 am snack watching the stars or old movies. Knowing someone will worry if I don't call or show up somewhere. __________________ Burn Burn Burn

06-16-2011, 04:24 PM	#5
Starrynightaw Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme. Queer. Submissive. Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, Girl, Honey :) Relationship Status: Single! Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Southern Alabama, But I can also be found in surrounding areas. (Travel Alot) Posts: 89 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11 Thanked 168 Times in 55 Posts Rep Power: 745055	That few moments before going to sleep when I was at complete relaxation and felt arms around me. Now it's a million pillows surrounding me like a fort. Still missing something...

06-16-2011, 04:41 PM	#7
foxyshaman Member How Do You Identify?: spiritually minded dirt dog Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: canada Posts: 898 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,957 Thanked 2,592 Times in 663 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	My map girl. She could get me anywhere. And her eggs benedict, we would have that on Sunday mornings, laying in bed watching Coronation Street. I hate coronation street now and have not touched eggs bene. __________________ Do not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail. Muriel Strode

06-24-2011, 10:14 AM	#8
Anya Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: West Coast Posts: 8,258 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39,306 Thanked 40,455 Times in 7,284 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I miss... Coffee ready when I wake up; warm cup of soup when I am ill; sex whenever and always (although I have learned a lot about my own sexual pleasure than I did when coupled for so long); the strong arms to hold me to give me inner strength when times are hard; when I see a funny movie or laugh at The Big Bang Theory but I am laughing alone-oh gosh getting maudlin here. I do not want to remain single forever but am not desperate or needy. I am comfortable in my skin with myself but want to have someone to share my skin.

06-25-2011, 07:47 PM	#9
Hack Just a guy. How Do You Identify?: Just a guy Preferred Pronoun?: male Relationship Status: Sparkle's consort Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: MA Posts: 1,458 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 807 Thanked 3,776 Times in 958 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Being necessary to someone other than my boss. My green sweatshirt. Walking down the street and feeling her hand slip in to mine. Popping one eye open while lying in bed just in time to see her walk across my line of sight wearing nothing but a towel after her bath.

06-25-2011, 07:59 PM	#10
Mister Bent Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: . Posts: 2,905 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,151 Thanked 5,825 Times in 1,722 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	My stainless steel fish bottle opener, it's just not beer without it. Stella, my orange iPod shuffle. Though for some dumb reason she left the charger base. __________________ Every normal man must be tempted at times to spit on his hands, hoist the black flag, and begin to slit throats. - H. L. Mencken

07-21-2011, 09:40 AM	#11
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	I Miss : Hearing a cute femme's laugh The sparkle in her eye when she looks at me The smile on her face just because Holding her in my arms Protecting her Being silly with her Watching that special femme sleep in the moonlight Putting my hand on the small of her back as we walk side by side Talking and laughing and sharing secrets and dreams Stealing kisses at the red light or anywhere just because I cant get enough of her Her hand on my leg as I drive Buying/Picking flowers just because I know she isnt expecting it Leaving little love notes in unexpected places for her to find. Passion filled love making Just watching tv together Walking up behind her in the kitchen while she cooks and wrapping her up in my arms from behind.... Sweet phone calls/texts throughout the day Last edited by bigbutchmistie; 07-21-2011 at 09:45 AM.

06-25-2011, 11:22 PM	#13
tapu Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Understated butch. Preferred Pronoun?: I Relationship Status: Party of One Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Maine Posts: 1,654 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,324 Thanked 3,114 Times in 1,103 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Going to bed together every night, for years. (Plus that cooked food thing still. That's looming pretty large in my life, today.) __________________ Really? That's not funny to you?

07-19-2011, 07:55 PM	#14
proximitywithoutintimacy Member How Do You Identify?: Rocker Lesbian Preferred Pronoun?: That One Girl ;) Relationship Status: Putting My Heart Back Together Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: USA Posts: 175 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 141 Thanked 290 Times in 106 Posts Rep Power: 670282	I miss the sound of her voice. I miss being held.

07-19-2011, 08:46 PM	#15
Strappie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: I know who I am... Doesn't matter Relationship Status: It's a new day.... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Mpls, MN Posts: 3,283 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,813 Thanked 4,945 Times in 1,350 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	CUSTOMER SERVICE... you know, the old fashion kind!! Straight up kindness and doing people right!

07-19-2011, 09:25 PM	#16
clay Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Butch (Silver Fox) Dom Daddi Preferred Pronoun?: 50 Shades of Clay Darker & Deeper Relationship Status: married to my forever Join Date: May 2011 Location: salt air & sandy beaches Posts: 13,136 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 97,020 Thanked 31,667 Times in 7,748 Posts Rep Power: 21474864	I miss "belonging" to someone!!! I miss the fact that I mattered!! I miss having coffee in the mornings! I miss the spooning, girl skin on girl skin! I miss the waking up to watch her breathe...sleep washed over her, the sliver of silvery moonlight, illuminating her body, assuring me she is still there!!! I miss the weekends stolen away...just US weekend!!! I miss being two!!!

10-15-2011, 02:05 PM	#18
Trey339 Member How Do You Identify?: Gq Butch Dom Preferred Pronoun?: Trey Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: united states Posts: 350 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 814 Thanked 864 Times in 216 Posts Rep Power: 8640663	well,,, after being (2yrs) single from a very ltr,,,I can honestly say I miss the closeness and intimacy of sleeping with my lady the most,,,

10-15-2011, 02:09 PM	#19
Trey339 Member How Do You Identify?: Gq Butch Dom Preferred Pronoun?: Trey Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: united states Posts: 350 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 814 Thanked 864 Times in 216 Posts Rep Power: 8640663	and yes,,,a million other things,,,

10-27-2011, 09:22 PM	#20
Silverseastar Member How Do You Identify?: femme, submissive, girl Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Singular Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Vancouver BC Posts: 133 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 348 Thanked 492 Times in 107 Posts Rep Power: 3095523	I miss.... being touched. Falling asleep spooned from behind with her fist in my hair. Laughing and being silly with someone you also can be deeply intimate with. Feeling like I matter deeply to one important person. Having someone to do those special things for and with that define your special relationship. This thread makes me misty eyed!