What Do You Miss?

wolfbittenpoet · 06-16-2011, 04:28 PM

Having someone to watch sleep all night besides the cat.
Having stripes all over my body under my shirt because they lose control.
Having a surprise 2 am snack watching the stars or old movies.
Knowing someone will worry if I don't call or show up somewhere.

foxyshaman · 06-16-2011, 04:41 PM

My map girl. She could get me anywhere. And her eggs benedict, we would have that on Sunday mornings, laying in bed watching Coronation Street. I hate coronation street now and have not touched eggs bene.

swan · 06-19-2011, 11:19 AM

I miss having someone to go places with. And someone to call and say "hey, I forgot the *blank* for dinner. Can you swing by and grab some on the way over?" I don't know that I miss it enough to have a partner right now though. But sometimes I do miss being part of an us instead of just me.

AtLast · 06-19-2011, 11:30 AM

I miss a trusted mind to make tough decisions with. I miss taking pride in our home together and sharing dreams.

I miss the serenity I found "knowing" we would age together sharing silly songs, fur-kids, good and bad cooking, road trips, making up after disagreeing. Hell, I miss diagreement.

I miss the heat of our passion and knowing we would accept each other's ways of aging with kindness.

I miss feeling whole and knowing the gifts of interdependence.

I know, however, that all that I miss is not worth travel down a path with the wrong person.

little_ms_sunshyne · 06-19-2011, 11:30 AM

I miss THE CITY and everything that comes with it...friends, family, noise, restaurants, and shopping!

swan · 06-19-2011, 11:24 PM

I was getting into the shower tonight and realized that I really miss having someone to brush my hair for me. Maybe that could be a fundraiser at the Reunion. Some nice Butch could raffle themselves off to brush someone's hair for a while.... I'd bid on that.

*Anya* · 06-24-2011, 10:17 AM

Aww, I can relate! You know femmes would be happy to brush your hair too..

tapu · 06-24-2011, 10:18 AM

small talk about big stuff

swan · 06-24-2011, 11:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Anya/Georgia

Aww, I can relate! You know femmes would be happy to brush your hair too..

True! Very true... I'm laughing at myself because the weather's turned HOT and the humidity is rising so I've got mad curls again. I was just thinking to myself (again) "That's it, THIS is the summer I'm going to shave my head!"

I say that every summer around this time of year.

06-16-2011, 04:28 PM	#1
wolfbittenpoet Member How Do You Identify?: Typewriter Boy Preferred Pronoun?: He/They Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: FL where cows go mooooo Posts: 535 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 893 Thanked 1,579 Times in 403 Posts Rep Power: 7518427	Having someone to watch sleep all night besides the cat. Having stripes all over my body under my shirt because they lose control. Having a surprise 2 am snack watching the stars or old movies. Knowing someone will worry if I don't call or show up somewhere. __________________ Burn Burn Burn

06-16-2011, 04:41 PM	#2
foxyshaman Member How Do You Identify?: spiritually minded dirt dog Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: canada Posts: 898 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,957 Thanked 2,592 Times in 663 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	My map girl. She could get me anywhere. And her eggs benedict, we would have that on Sunday mornings, laying in bed watching Coronation Street. I hate coronation street now and have not touched eggs bene. __________________ Do not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail. Muriel Strode

06-24-2011, 10:18 AM	#8
tapu Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Understated butch. Preferred Pronoun?: I Relationship Status: Party of One Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Maine Posts: 1,654 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,324 Thanked 3,115 Times in 1,103 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	small talk about big stuff __________________ Really? That's not funny to you?

06-19-2011, 11:19 AM	#3
swan Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: I see cactus... all around.... Posts: 225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 583 Thanked 727 Times in 198 Posts Rep Power: 10751732	I miss having someone to go places with. And someone to call and say "hey, I forgot the blank for dinner. Can you swing by and grab some on the way over?" I don't know that I miss it enough to have a partner right now though. But sometimes I do miss being part of an us instead of just me.

06-19-2011, 11:30 AM	#4
AtLast Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Woman Preferred Pronoun?: HER - SHE Relationship Status: Relating Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: CA & AZ I'm a Snowbird Posts: 5,408 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,826 Thanked 10,827 Times in 3,199 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	I miss a trusted mind to make tough decisions with. I miss taking pride in our home together and sharing dreams. I miss the serenity I found "knowing" we would age together sharing silly songs, fur-kids, good and bad cooking, road trips, making up after disagreeing. Hell, I miss diagreement. I miss the heat of our passion and knowing we would accept each other's ways of aging with kindness. I miss feeling whole and knowing the gifts of interdependence. I know, however, that all that I miss is not worth travel down a path with the wrong person.

06-19-2011, 11:30 AM	#5
little_ms_sunshyne Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: . Posts: 3,312 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,339 Thanked 12,241 Times in 2,541 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	*I miss THE CITY and everything that comes with it...friends, family, noise, restaurants, and shopping!*

06-19-2011, 11:24 PM	#6
swan Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: I see cactus... all around.... Posts: 225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 583 Thanked 727 Times in 198 Posts Rep Power: 10751732	I was getting into the shower tonight and realized that I really miss having someone to brush my hair for me. Maybe that could be a fundraiser at the Reunion. Some nice Butch could raffle themselves off to brush someone's hair for a while.... I'd bid on that.

06-24-2011, 10:17 AM	#7
Anya Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: West Coast Posts: 8,258 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39,306 Thanked 40,445 Times in 7,285 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Aww, I can relate! You know femmes would be happy to brush your hair too..