The Love list.

[dixie]

Originally Posted by sassy_girl

But, but beautiful is just part of it.. (and I agree she is)..what if she ummm does not love dogs or something? Beautiful can only go so far... What if she has a tendency to be late or tap her toe... That's it?





disclaimer: Hypothetically using Dixie here, I am sure she loves dogs.

Oh, like I said...I am very far from perfect. Although I do love dogs and am never late (lol), I have many many more faults, just as most other folks do. (The occasional toe-tapping, talking too much sometimes, yada yada, the list probably goes on and on...lol) I don't see myself as beautiful, therefore beauty/looks doesn't go very far in my opinion. Hopefully it's the little things, the positive things, that will help outweigh my faults in the eyes of someone special to me. Just as any faults they have are outweighed by their positives. I guess for me it's all about balances.

Oh, and I will also say that I agree with Puplove, that when you meet that someone, all those little things disappear. Sometimes, even what you once considered a fault kinda melts away, and sometimes even becomes an endearing quality.

[asphaltcowboi]

wow alot of great lists.. seems most of us are looking for pretty much the same thing.. hmm ..for me i think looking for the small things in someone is what keeps me for "jumping" into a relationship.
looks are only somewhat important but not as important as someone that keeps themself clean/sharp and have self pride. but for my liking has to be femme.
someone who respects me but does not fear me.
will tell me when im wrong (not just let it slide)
someone that can agree to disagree without a underlieing reason
someone willing to be 50/50.. yard work,house work and excepts that im butch and i prefer to do the heavy stuff.
someone that will be themself right from the start not change soon as they know my heart is into them. other then the natural growing/changing.
someone who loves animals
someone who has self esteem with or without me by there side.
does not change just to impress others
someone who is comfertable in there own skin and is just as comfertable next to mine.
drives my energy level puts that extra bounce in my step
lets me know were all good in pubic.. like when others are checking her out she takes my hand or slips her hand in my back pocket or puts an arm around me.
doesnt care about my spelling or my lazy way of talking
sees more in me then just a butch biker motor head.
someone that believes that forever does and can happen
i could do pages of stuff but i think for me it gets down to someone who loves me for me and that i can love them for them.. not phoney..but is always true to there inner being and not afraid to be that person
im sure there is more but basics.. be yourself not who you think i would want you to be. give me the chance to know who you really are befor i break my own heart.