The Anti-Love List

bigbutchmistie · 06-21-2011, 08:32 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mister Bent

I'm against love, is this the right thread?

I'm really more "friendship and gratuitous sex."

LOL.

ummmmm

undone · 06-22-2011, 02:16 AM

non of these please...

One who does not like animals! Now I am not saying I want a zoo (unless I have a place big enough to be a zoo or a ranch)

One who doesn’t enjoy kids or family, I don’t have kids or ever want to be pregnant, but she should be able to get down on the floor and play, or tolerate a little family struggles here and there

One who is not capable of having a hard emotional conversation with out giving or assuming blame

One who doesn't find a way to see what it looks like from the out side in.

One who won't laugh at themselves on occasion.

One who can't help work through an issue her's, mine, ours they don’t go away they will just follow you till you figure it out.

One who will after a few years will decide that since the honey moon is over then so is the whole kit in caboodle.

One that assumes every thing said is out of a bad thought or mean space.

One who has boundary issues, emotional, family, friends, physical

One who doesn’t know how to take the lead and share it on occasion

One with out wonder, with out the urge to see, explore, new places, foods, experiences all of it!

One who puts some one else as more important than there spouse (with the exclusion of children)

One with a lot of insecurities some sure who doesn't but if a person is insecure about everything that is just to much

One who needs TVs, computer, or a some game system. If you can't live a week or two with out watching a screen, I would become way to frustrated.

One not a playful as I like to be, who can't be a little rough or tough when it's just fun

Leading to some one that isn't as strong as I am physically, emotionally, mentally.

One who thinks that sex is a ruling factor not intimacy and trust if you can keep those then sex is a natural.

One who only see's the negative side of things even most bad things have some kind of upswing to them!

One who feels the need to hover in public like I might disappear, or hook up with some one else.

Thinker · 06-22-2011, 08:29 AM

"Fun and Fluff" is different from "Cruel and Critical". So while you're having fun with this and thinking through the things you don't want, please choose your words carefully.

We can have fun without being hurtful to a group of people.

Carry on...

Thinker (moderator)

06-22-2011, 08:29 AM	#3
Thinker Senior Member How Do You Identify?: transman Preferred Pronoun?: male Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 1,868 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 710 Thanked 4,133 Times in 1,079 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	"Fun and Fluff" is different from "Cruel and Critical". So while you're having fun with this and thinking through the things you don't want, please choose your words carefully. We can have fun without being hurtful to a group of people. Carry on... Thinker (moderator) __________________ Practice humility and kindness.

06-22-2011, 02:16 AM	#2
undone Junior Member How Do You Identify?: me! Preferred Pronoun?: Woman Relationship Status: Sold! Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Long Beach, CA but home is Portland Posts: 96 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 174 Thanked 178 Times in 63 Posts Rep Power: 507771	non of these please... One who does not like animals! Now I am not saying I want a zoo (unless I have a place big enough to be a zoo or a ranch) One who doesn’t enjoy kids or family, I don’t have kids or ever want to be pregnant, but she should be able to get down on the floor and play, or tolerate a little family struggles here and there One who is not capable of having a hard emotional conversation with out giving or assuming blame One who doesn't find a way to see what it looks like from the out side in. One who won't laugh at themselves on occasion. One who can't help work through an issue her's, mine, ours they don’t go away they will just follow you till you figure it out. One who will after a few years will decide that since the honey moon is over then so is the whole kit in caboodle. One that assumes every thing said is out of a bad thought or mean space. One who has boundary issues, emotional, family, friends, physical One who doesn’t know how to take the lead and share it on occasion One with out wonder, with out the urge to see, explore, new places, foods, experiences all of it! One who puts some one else as more important than there spouse (with the exclusion of children) One with a lot of insecurities some sure who doesn't but if a person is insecure about everything that is just to much One who needs TVs, computer, or a some game system. If you can't live a week or two with out watching a screen, I would become way to frustrated. One not a playful as I like to be, who can't be a little rough or tough when it's just fun Leading to some one that isn't as strong as I am physically, emotionally, mentally. One who thinks that sex is a ruling factor not intimacy and trust if you can keep those then sex is a natural. One who only see's the negative side of things even most bad things have some kind of upswing to them! One who feels the need to hover in public like I might disappear, or hook up with some one else.