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This is a day of accomplishment and fulfillment. Whenever I seem to be running out of time to do what I need to do, I take a reality check. Starting with this simple observation: There is the same amount of minutes and hours in each day. Check! I am the "master" of my time because I can make choices. Check! I have no reason to feel out of control as I look forward to the next few hours or days. Check! I gain confidence about being the authority over my time by first starting my day with prayer. Centered and relaxed, I don't fight time; I go with the flow. I think with clarity and act efficiently. I know when to say yes and when to say no. I feel composed, and my day flows smoothly. But the Lord answered her, "Martha, Martha, you are worried and distracted by many things; there is need of only one thing."--Luke10:41-42 http://www.dailyword.com/dailyword/51992
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Oh Birther! Mother-Father of this cosmos,
Focus Your light within us- make it useful. Create Your reign of unity now through our fiery hearts and willing hands. Help us love beyond our ideals, and sprout acts of compassion for all creatures. Animate the Earth within us, and feel the Wisdom underneath supporting all. Untangle the knots within, so that we can mind our heart's simple ties to each other. Don't let surface things delude us, But free us from what holds us back from our true purpose. Out of You, the astonishing fire, Returning light and sound to the cosmos. Amen/Aum |
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"Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on Earth where moth and rust decay and where thieves break in and steal, but lay up for for yourselves your treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal..For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also."
"No one can serve two masters, for either she/he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be loyal to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon." "Therefore I say to you, do not worry about what you will eat and drink, nor about your body, what you will put on. Is life not more than food and the body more than clothes?" "Look at the birds of the air, for they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, yet God feeds them. Are you not of more value than they?" "Which of you by worrying can add one cubit to your stature? So why worry about clothing? Consider the lillies of the field, how they grow, they neither toil nor spin, and yet I say to you that even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed as fine as one of these. Now if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is, and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will not God much more clothe you, oh you of little faith? "Therefore, do not worry, saying: "What shall we eat?" or "What shall we drink?" or "What shall we wear?" For after all these things the gentiles seek. Your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God, and all these things shall be added to you. Therefore, do not worry about tomorrow for tomorrow will worry about it's own things. Sufficient for the day is it's own trouble."
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![]() ![]() Alysa Stanton poses in front of an ark in the synagogue at Hebrew Union College, Thursday, May 21, 2009, in Cincinnati.Stanton is to be ordained June 6, as mainstream Judaism's first black woman rabbi. She will become the rabbi at Congregation Bayt Shalom in Greenville , N.C. , on Aug. 1.(From Time magazine; also featured on ABC news Alysa Stanton, of Lakewood , Colorado , will soon be the first female African-American rabbi anywhere. Cleveland Heights native Alysa Stanton, an African-American woman who converted from Christianity to Judaism two decades ago, is about to change the course of world history. The 45-year-old single mother of an adopted teenage daughter recently completed rabbinical school and is about to become the first ever black female rabbi, experts say. Alysa Stanton • Age: 45 • Born: Cleveland , lived in Cleveland Heights • Achievement: First black women to be ordained a rabbi. • Education: Bachelor's degree in psychology; master's in counseling and multiculturalism; and a master's in Hebrew letters. • On God: "I don't believe one has to warm a pew to be religious or spiritual. I can find God in the mountains, in the trees, in the smile of a baby. My God is too big to be boxed in." Stanton will be ordained June 6 in Cincinnati where she graduated from Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion. She has already secured a position at a synagogue in North Carolina . Scholars believe Stanton will be the first black clergy woman in the history of a religion that traces its roots back thousands of years to Old Testament patriarchs Abraham, Isaac and Jacob. The Reform and Conservative movements of Judaism first began ordaining women in the 1970s and 1980s. But no black woman has been ordained until now. "I try not to think about it," Stanton said in a telephone interview from Cincinnati this week. "It's daunting. I'm taking it with a sense of awe and reverence. And a healthy dose of fear. "I try not to focus on being the first. I focus on being the best -- the best human being, the best rabbi I can be." Stanton was born in Cleveland and lived in Cleveland Heights, attending Boulevard Elementary School , until she was 11 when her family, Pentecostal Christians, moved to Denver . It was in Cleveland Heights , she said, where she began a spiritual quest, sampling various Christian denominations, but eventually coming to Judaism. "I believe I was born Jewish, but not of a Jewish womb," she said. "I had to make it legal." Stanton said she was attracted to the culture, creed and social justice work of Judaism. "It involves more than worship," she said. "It's a way of life." In 1987, she converted, becoming one of the few black members of Denver 's largest synagogue, Temple Emanuel , where she taught religion and was a cantor. With academic degrees in psychology and counseling from Colorado State University in Denver , Stanton worked as a psychotherapist before enrolling in Hebrew Union College in 2002. She studied in Israel her first year. "It's been quite a journey," she said, noting that along the way she amassed $250,000 in student loan debt. Asked whether she still carries remnants of Christianity, she quickly responded: "I'm a Jew. But the fabric of our lives -- each thread -- hones us into who we are. "My mom, for example, gave me the undeniable, unshakable faith in God. That didn't change by my becoming a Jew. My history makes me therabbi that I am. I want to help people in their spiritual journey whatever that may be." Joking, she added, "Some of my best friends are Christians." Stanton is one of 43 rabbinical students who graduated this year from the three campuses -- New York , Los Angeles and Cincinnati -- ofHebrew Union . Only about half of them have found work. Because of tough economic times, school officials say, congregations are contributing less money, forcing synagogues to tighten budgets. Large congregations are going without assistant rabbis. Small congregations are merging. And shrinking retirement funds are forcing veteran and retired rabbis to keep working, crimping the job market. "I am blessed," said Stanton, who, on August 1, will become rabbi of Bayt Shalom in Greenville , N.C. , a 53-family congregation affiliated with both the Conservative and Reform movements. "I was their first choice," she said. "They were my first choice." The irony of a black woman presiding over a white congregation in the deep south is not lost on Stanton . "God has a sense of humor," she said. Rabbi David Weisberg, who taught Stanton Biblical studies at Hebrew Union , said he was confident his student will do well wherever she goes. "She's a good teacher and she brings lots of faith," he said. "I hope some day we won't be concerned whether people are black or white, but what they contribute to the community. Alysa makes a big contribution to the community of humanity." Stanton 's ordination has drawn widespread media attention from dozens of news outlets as far away as England and Israel . And the buzz is traveling quickly throughout the Jewish community worldwide. Jewish scholars Jonathan Sarna of Brandeis University and Ori Z.Soltes of Georgetown University , both told The Plain Dealer they know of no evidence of a black female ever being ordained a rabbi. "It's very exiting," said Soltes. Rabbi Joshua Caruso of Anshe Chesed Fairmount Temple inBeachwood said Stanton was treated like a celebrity when she came to his temple in January last year for a Martin Luther King Day service. "People were fascinated," he said. "She is a special lady. She's very charismatic. As a preacher, she has some wonderful stylistic skills and deliveries that will grab people." More than 50 friends and relatives from 12 states and Canada are going to Cincinnati to celebrate Stanton 's ordination. Her mother, Anne Harrison, 79, and daughter, Shana Michaela Stanton, 14, will be there. So will the press. "I'm living in a fishbowl," said Stanton , longing to be out of the limelight. "But that comes with the honor I've been given. "Up until now I've avoided interviews. But now it's celebratory time and it's nice to be able to spread a little hope, inspiration and joy."
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This is a hard lesson for me to learn and re-learn. I admit I am a Prima Donna. I'm spoiled and have wants and desires. All wants, craving, MUST HAVE feeling is related to how one runs dopamine. And dopamine is ... intense and mean. There is no other way of seeing it.
James Holmes out in Colorado...his dopamine has spiked, probably with testosterone and he spiraled into a T, D, violent and euphoric state. Now he's looking blank (a flat affect is a sign of lack of dopamine, former meth-users have this same look) according to the media. People are wondering how he can be so emotionless (they are giving him serotonin-increasing meds, S and D work at inverse proportion to each other) The hoarding, the serving 2 masters (usually in secret), the fear-induced clutching for possessions, goods, the best foods, etc......it's dopamine related. I want what I want because I have the delusion that I am entitled to whatever I want. Serotonin engenders well-being and happiness. You feel what you need (I need air. I need water, I need healthy foods and not really much more.). No hoarding because there's no fear-based clutching onto possessions. The focus is away from ego protection, status protection, "saving face", escalating desires, etc. Because the fallacy of dopamine is that having our wants and desires met will make us happy. This is far from true. Dopamine will only make us crave more. There is no end to the bottomless pit of want/desire. Quote:
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Mariamma; Hardly anyone takes this advice from Jesus, and it is certainly not for the faint-hearted. My financial life has been like that Indiana Jones movie where Harrison Ford is about to get the Holy Grail but he's facing a great divide, a canyon that he must get across. There is no bridge, no rope, nothing. But Indiana remembers the prophesies just in time imploring him to make a leap of faith. He steps out into the canyon and when he does, a bridge materializes under his feet lol! I believe this is a key to walking with the Source. My spirit guide tests my faith using dreams. One time I was high on a mountain cliff in the dark and told by a powerful voice in the sky to jump, and being the warrior that I am, I did, and landed on a sandy beach with him watching another mountain rise out of the ocean lol. The place we want to get to is to be able to change the atomic structure of these un balanced chemical reactions without using synthetics.
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