Single Butches & Femmes Cafe

atomiczombie · 07-08-2011, 02:17 AM

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Originally Posted by AtLastHome

Lets have a cup and talk, laugh, flirt, debate, just get together as Femmes and Butches (FIB & MIB). Hell, there is a singles FtM & Femmes thread- why not us?!!

Are trans folks invited too?

Stitch · 07-08-2011, 02:21 AM

I don't see why not.
A little bit of everyone is there.
Pretty open fun group of people who like to flirt with each other.

msW8ing · 07-16-2011, 08:28 AM

Just poppin in to say good morning and wish everyone a wonderful weekend.

Delish · 07-16-2011, 08:31 AM

Morning! Time to watch some golf and drink a Lil coffee

Inked_Trinity · 07-16-2011, 09:52 AM

WOW! I just found this thread! I'm happy now!

Sachita · 07-16-2011, 11:27 AM

I want to date and have fun. I'm not sure what I'm looking for except to be treated well by someone and enjoy nice moments, conversations and playful exchange.

I'm feeling a bit disappointed in people these days. I'm not so sure why I am drawing such insanity into my life here lately but I'm sure there's a reason. But I'm definitely open to it.

ScandalAndy · 07-16-2011, 05:49 PM

Hi everyone!!! Wandered over to see what trouble you were getting into over here!

Sachita · 07-17-2011, 11:40 AM

speaking of fishing I think I'm going to grab the kayak and go drop a line. kisses see ya'll later.

WolfyOne · 07-17-2011, 11:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Sachita

speaking of fishing I think I'm going to grab the kayak and go drop a line. kisses see ya'll later.

Tease me while I'm home slaving over laundry, lol

Catch something good enough to eat
Enjoy yourself on the lake

flower77 · 08-12-2011, 12:39 PM

I'm single. Just thought I'd say..

:-)))

sweetfemme247 · 08-12-2011, 12:40 PM

Im single and ready to mingle

sweetiefemme · 08-12-2011, 09:17 PM

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Originally Posted by sweetfemme247

Im single and ready to mingle

I see you are in Washington too, what part?
I am in Eastern WA, and I swear there are only 5 other gay people here, uggghh.

Prudence · 03-06-2012, 12:15 PM

Hello from the great state of Tennessee.. like the thread. Today is a beautiful day... sunny and in the mid 60s. We took a nasty hit several days ago from the a F1 tornado touch down in my small town. Today for me.. I'm picking up limbs. Decided to cut back some monkey grass that has taken over my walkway. Now I have a numb thumb.. maybe time to take a break and grab a tuna fish sandwich and a glass of ice water. Have a good day all........Prudence

istolurboxers38 · 03-17-2012, 01:54 PM

Have a great St. Patrick's Day everyone. It is a nice day think the gym is in order.

REA33 · 06-23-2018, 05:16 AM

I see this is a femme and butch planet.
A friend told me about this site (she is a butch), she encouraged me to try to join in.
Well, in fact I am a stem (androgynous look) >> neither butch nor femme.
Am I acceptable in here?
I hope i put my words in the right thread.
Actually I want to make a new topic, but I couldn't do it b4 I reach 30 posts.

Breathless · 06-23-2018, 05:51 AM

REA33---
In answer to your question.. YES you are welcome here.. truth be known, although the site is called butch-femme.. we are every label and non-label under the umbrella..and some... only real requirement is that you be respectful.
To meet the 30 limit, look at perhaps playing some of the words game threads (if you are interested) or even the introduce yourself threads.. There is even a few threads for the newer peeps to find FAQ, or members looking for how to's..
Welcome to the site!

Gemme · 06-23-2018, 07:02 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by REA33

I see this is a femme and butch planet.
A friend told me about this site (she is a butch), she encouraged me to try to join in.
Well, in fact I am a stem (androgynous look) >> neither butch nor femme.
Am I acceptable in here?
I hope i put my words in the right thread.
Actually I want to make a new topic, but I couldn't do it b4 I reach 30 posts.

Yep. As Breathless said, we have all flavors of identity and gender here. Take a peek around and feel free to post and interact more. We don't bite too bad.

DapperButch · 06-23-2018, 10:06 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by REA33

I see this is a femme and butch planet.
A friend told me about this site (she is a butch), she encouraged me to try to join in.
Well, in fact I am a stem (androgynous look) >> neither butch nor femme.
Am I acceptable in here?
I hope i put my words in the right thread.
Actually I want to make a new topic, but I couldn't do it b4 I reach 30 posts.

Hello and welcome. You might want to check out the subforms on this page.

http://www.butchfemmeplanet.com/foru...isplay.php?f=5

REA33 · 06-23-2018, 11:46 AM

Thanks y'all for welcoming me into this site

Still a lil bit confused with this site, I need to get used with it.

AtLast · 07-16-2011, 11:20 PM

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Originally Posted by atomiczombie

Are trans folks invited too?

I did start the thread because there is a distinct FtM/Trans and Femmes singles thread and a general singles thread for all folks which includes trans folks. There wasn't one for just plain old butche and femme singles that that want to seek one another out.

Actually, I wish that the general for all singles one was the only single thread, but distinctions started to happen so I thought this was fair for both femmes and butches to find each other on the site that really do seek only each other in terms of romantic relationships.

Ugh... gets so complicated sometimes. But, I don't think any member of any identification can actually be "banned" from any thread. Seems like that would be against the TOS. I sure don't want any one to be offended in any way.

There are other singles/relational threads too- like Daddy/Girl, and D/s specific. Geez... we have so many distinctions! which is one of the things I like about the site over all. Yet, I am not a good candidate for a woman/femme that prefers transmen. And I don't have any problem at all with women/femmes that find that they prefer transmen in terms of romance and dating. Some like both, too.

07-16-2011, 08:28 AM	#3
msW8ing Member How Do You Identify?: multi-faceted gem, femme, submissive babygirl if the chemistry is there. Preferred Pronoun?: lady Relationship Status: working on myself Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Lewiston, Idaho Posts: 920 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,700 Thanked 2,497 Times in 654 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Just poppin in to say good morning and wish everyone a wonderful weekend. __________________ *Don't judge me by my past..I don't live there anymore* A lady who knows the ropes..will never be bound. ~Mae West

07-16-2011, 08:31 AM	#4
Delish Member How Do You Identify?: Queen of our castle Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: She put a ring on it and the date is set :) Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Missouri...in her arms :) Posts: 1,089 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,279 Thanked 834 Times in 427 Posts Rep Power: 3888561	Morning! Time to watch some golf and drink a Lil coffee __________________

07-16-2011, 09:52 AM	#5
Inked_Trinity Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Preferred Pronoun?: BadAss! / Sarcastic Bastard! Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Earth Posts: 2,352 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,507 Thanked 6,927 Times in 1,819 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	WOW! I just found this thread! I'm happy now! __________________ Tell me I can't do it.. then stand back and watch me amaze you.

07-16-2011, 11:27 AM	#6
Sachita Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Completely in love Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Virginia Posts: 3,225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,564 Thanked 8,992 Times in 2,247 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I want to date and have fun. I'm not sure what I'm looking for except to be treated well by someone and enjoy nice moments, conversations and playful exchange. I'm feeling a bit disappointed in people these days. I'm not so sure why I am drawing such insanity into my life here lately but I'm sure there's a reason. But I'm definitely open to it. __________________ You either like me or you don't. It took me Twenty-something years to learn how to love myself, I don't have that kinda time to convince somebody else. ~ Daniel Franzese

07-16-2011, 05:49 PM	#7
ScandalAndy Member How Do You Identify?: human femme spitfire Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: it's official! Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: east coast USA Posts: 1,167 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,758 Thanked 3,217 Times in 753 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Hi everyone!!! Wandered over to see what trouble you were getting into over here! __________________ The joy of discovery is certainly the liveliest that the mind of man can ever feel. - Claude Bernard (1813-78)

07-08-2011, 02:21 AM	#2
Stitch Member How Do You Identify?: Sweetest Soft Butch you don't know yet Preferred Pronoun?: She, Hy, Relationship Status: Solo Artist Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Vancouver, Canada Posts: 191 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16 Thanked 305 Times in 111 Posts Rep Power: 2008424	I don't see why not. A little bit of everyone is there. Pretty open fun group of people who like to flirt with each other.

07-17-2011, 11:40 AM	#8
Sachita Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Completely in love Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Virginia Posts: 3,225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,564 Thanked 8,992 Times in 2,247 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	speaking of fishing I think I'm going to grab the kayak and go drop a line. kisses see ya'll later. __________________ You either like me or you don't. It took me Twenty-something years to learn how to love myself, I don't have that kinda time to convince somebody else. ~ Daniel Franzese

08-12-2011, 12:39 PM	#10
flower77 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Ms Relationship Status: Single pringle Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: UK (South) Posts: 11 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 17 Thanked 27 Times in 9 Posts Rep Power: 238401	Hello! I'm single. Just thought I'd say.. :-)))

08-12-2011, 12:40 PM	#11
sweetfemme247 Member How Do You Identify?: fem Preferred Pronoun?: femme, she, her, baby, sweetie Relationship Status: holding my heart close and putting back up a wall Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: california, palm springs Posts: 994 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 206 Thanked 719 Times in 350 Posts Rep Power: 4115671	Im single and ready to mingle __________________ Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present. Jim Rohn

03-06-2012, 12:15 PM	#13
Prudence Member How Do You Identify?: "congratulations, it's a girl" Preferred Pronoun?: Woman Relationship Status: single Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: Second star to the right, and straight on till morning. Posts: 509 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,333 Thanked 1,177 Times in 363 Posts Rep Power: 9187054	Hello from the great state of Tennessee.. like the thread. Today is a beautiful day... sunny and in the mid 60s. We took a nasty hit several days ago from the a F1 tornado touch down in my small town. Today for me.. I'm picking up limbs. Decided to cut back some monkey grass that has taken over my walkway. Now I have a numb thumb.. maybe time to take a break and grab a tuna fish sandwich and a glass of ice water. Have a good day all........Prudence

03-17-2012, 01:54 PM	#14
istolurboxers38 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: redneck femme Preferred Pronoun?: her, she, babygirl Relationship Status: single Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: vancouver washington Posts: 31 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 18 Thanked 95 Times in 23 Posts Rep Power: 919136	Have a great St. Patrick's Day everyone. It is a nice day think the gym is in order.

06-23-2018, 05:16 AM	#15
REA33 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Dm Lesbienne Preferred Pronoun?: androgyne Relationship Status: seul Join Date: Jan 2018 Location: Planète de la terre Posts: 54 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2 Thanked 35 Times in 19 Posts Rep Power: 8	Stem Lesbian I see this is a femme and butch planet. A friend told me about this site (she is a butch), she encouraged me to try to join in. Well, in fact I am a stem (androgynous look) >> neither butch nor femme. Am I acceptable in here? I hope i put my words in the right thread. Actually I want to make a new topic, but I couldn't do it b4 I reach 30 posts. __________________ I Live therefore I Love - I Love therefore I Live

06-23-2018, 05:51 AM	#16
Breathless Brat Extraordinaire How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Happy Tournaments Won: 23 Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Alberta Canada Posts: 1,412 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 7,549 Thanked 4,098 Times in 958 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	REA33--- In answer to your question.. YES you are welcome here.. truth be known, although the site is called butch-femme.. we are every label and non-label under the umbrella..and some... only real requirement is that you be respectful. To meet the 30 limit, look at perhaps playing some of the words game threads (if you are interested) or even the introduce yourself threads.. There is even a few threads for the newer peeps to find FAQ, or members looking for how to's.. Welcome to the site! __________________ *BE the change you wish to see in the world. Gandhi*

06-23-2018, 11:46 AM	#19
REA33 Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Dm Lesbienne Preferred Pronoun?: androgyne Relationship Status: seul Join Date: Jan 2018 Location: Planète de la terre Posts: 54 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2 Thanked 35 Times in 19 Posts Rep Power: 8	TY Thanks y'all for welcoming me into this site Still a lil bit confused with this site, I need to get used with it. __________________ I Live therefore I Love - I Love therefore I Live