Hallooo! I'm Star Anise...

Star Anise · 06-30-2011, 09:23 PM

I evidently am a new member here, very keen to meet interesting or like-minded individuals to shoot the breeze, share life experiences with.

I define myself as an "intuitive" femme, which (to me) means I don't really try to be femme as such, it just comes naturally to me.

I have realised that pretty much whoever you are, or whatever you are into...There will be someone out there to tell you it's wrong. So whatever.

I have always been fascinated/attracted to butch women, ever since I was quite a young girl, and despite being told many a time that the butch/femme dynamic is wrong and perpetuating gender stereotypes, and though I try not adhere to strict rules concerning my relationships, if I am honest with my feelings...it is a sexy butch that really gets my heart pumping.

So really I am here to explore this dynamic more (guilt free) and indulge in the possibilities!

Feel free to contact me for a chat, I don't stand upon ceremony, and I am very approachable.

Anise.

Stitch · 06-30-2011, 09:29 PM

Welcome!!! I hope you have a good time here.

Indulge all you want, that's pretty much what we are here for.

always2late · 06-30-2011, 09:35 PM

Welcome to the Planet!

Dreams · 06-30-2011, 09:38 PM

howdy and welcome!!..

Gentle Tiger · 06-30-2011, 10:32 PM

Welcome to the Planet Star Anise. Explore and have fun on your adventure here.

deb_U_taunt · 07-01-2011, 05:57 AM

Welcome Anise

Linus · 07-01-2011, 06:58 AM

and enjoy the Planet! If you have any questions do not hesitate to ask.

Camo Eagle · 07-01-2011, 10:28 PM

WELCOME Star Anise

Arwen · 07-08-2011, 11:04 AM

Hello and welcome! I went looking for your hello thread. Are you from NZ? I have a dear friend that moved there from the States to be with a woman. Sadly her partner passed away. I think Steph is still there though. Haven't heard from her in a while.

Chancie · 07-08-2011, 11:07 AM

I got this for you so you could jump in and play, but

It looks dirty, oh yes it does.

Softly · 07-08-2011, 11:09 AM

Welcome!!!

Leigh · 07-08-2011, 11:33 AM

Welcome to the Planet :-)

Star Anise · 07-08-2011, 02:54 PM

Thank you all so much for your welcomes!

Leigh · 07-08-2011, 03:23 PM

Your very welcome :-)

Ben · 07-09-2011, 12:46 AM

Welcome to the Planet!!

Mr Nice Guy · 07-09-2011, 03:47 AM

Welcome to the planet. Sound like I'm talking to Clark Kent on his first day at work. Have fun and enjoy. Lots of wonderful people here.

Star Anise · 07-09-2011, 04:02 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Arwen

Hello and welcome! I went looking for your hello thread. Are you from NZ? I have a dear friend that moved there from the States to be with a woman. Sadly her partner passed away. I think Steph is still there though. Haven't heard from her in a while.

Well originally I am actually from Australia, but moved to NZ at a young enough age to claim it as my own. I love it here!

06-30-2011, 09:23 PM	#1
Star Anise Member How Do You Identify?: Femme in boots. Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: Free range femme. Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: St Kilda. Melbourne. Posts: 118 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 256 Thanked 539 Times in 88 Posts Rep Power: 4729077	Hallooo! I'm Star Anise... I evidently am a new member here, very keen to meet interesting or like-minded individuals to shoot the breeze, share life experiences with. I define myself as an "intuitive" femme, which (to me) means I don't really try to be femme as such, it just comes naturally to me. I have realised that pretty much whoever you are, or whatever you are into...There will be someone out there to tell you it's wrong. So whatever. I have always been fascinated/attracted to butch women, ever since I was quite a young girl, and despite being told many a time that the butch/femme dynamic is wrong and perpetuating gender stereotypes, and though I try not adhere to strict rules concerning my relationships, if I am honest with my feelings...it is a sexy butch that really gets my heart pumping. So really I am here to explore this dynamic more (guilt free) and indulge in the possibilities! Feel free to contact me for a chat, I don't stand upon ceremony, and I am very approachable. Anise.

06-30-2011, 09:35 PM	#3
always2late Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: m'lady Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NJ Posts: 2,000 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,834 Thanked 6,231 Times in 1,462 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Welcome to the Planet! __________________ Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing there is a field. I'll meet you there ~ Rumi

06-30-2011, 09:38 PM	#4
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06-30-2011, 10:32 PM	#5
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07-01-2011, 06:58 AM	#7
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06-30-2011, 09:29 PM	#2
Stitch Member How Do You Identify?: Sweetest Soft Butch you don't know yet Preferred Pronoun?: She, Hy, Relationship Status: Solo Artist Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Vancouver, Canada Posts: 191 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 16 Thanked 305 Times in 111 Posts Rep Power: 2008424	Welcome!!! I hope you have a good time here. Indulge all you want, that's pretty much what we are here for.

07-01-2011, 05:57 AM	#6
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07-01-2011, 10:28 PM	#8
Camo Eagle Member How Do You Identify?: FTM in these communities. Male in everyday & public life. Preferred Pronoun?: He/Him Relationship Status: Unavailable Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Texas Posts: 241 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 268 Thanked 328 Times in 152 Posts Rep Power: 2982903	WELCOME Star Anise

07-08-2011, 11:04 AM	#9
Arwen Joy Seeker How Do You Identify?: Smartly-Flavored Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Mrs. Syzygy 1/9/14 Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Joyville, NM (aka Land of Enchantment) Posts: 10,140 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,636 Thanked 28,119 Times in 6,414 Posts Rep Power: 21474862	Hello and welcome! I went looking for your hello thread. Are you from NZ? I have a dear friend that moved there from the States to be with a woman. Sadly her partner passed away. I think Steph is still there though. Haven't heard from her in a while. __________________ I wrote a book, y'all! *FREE* Tarotscopes Seek Joy, y'all. Eschew hate. 9Words: A Poetry Challenge \| Do you like me?

07-08-2011, 11:07 AM	#10
Chancie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: queer femme-inist Relationship Status: I'm lucky. Join Date: May 2010 Location: Western Mass Posts: 3,774 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,518 Thanked 14,541 Times in 2,744 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I got this for you so you could jump in and play, but It looks dirty, oh yes it does.

07-08-2011, 11:09 AM	#11
Softly Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Seattle Posts: 655 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 465 Thanked 701 Times in 253 Posts Rep Power: 3646036	Welcome!!!

07-08-2011, 11:33 AM	#12
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07-08-2011, 02:54 PM	#13
Star Anise Member How Do You Identify?: Femme in boots. Preferred Pronoun?: she/her Relationship Status: Free range femme. Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: St Kilda. Melbourne. Posts: 118 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 256 Thanked 539 Times in 88 Posts Rep Power: 4729077	Thank you all so much for your welcomes! __________________ ~~Anise x http://i282.photobucket.com/albums/k...rsona/bfrs.jpg Who's my Daddi?

07-08-2011, 03:23 PM	#14
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Your very welcome :-) __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

07-09-2011, 12:46 AM	#15
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07-09-2011, 03:47 AM	#16
Mr Nice Guy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Kind, sweet, loving, romantic and a rare Butch. :) Relationship Status: I don't drive a Uhaul. :) Join Date: May 2011 Location: Another New Englander Posts: 1,768 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,035 Thanked 4,894 Times in 1,307 Posts Rep Power: 0	Welcome to the planet. Sound like I'm talking to Clark Kent on his first day at work. Have fun and enjoy. Lots of wonderful people here.