Butches: How do you like to be romanced?

[dark_crystal]

Originally Posted by AtLastHome

a hand on a knee might convince me that she is interested in a romantic way. Just a soft touch, not talking a big squeeze

oh i usually go for the "brushing your upper arm with my boobs" move

too much?

[Slater]

Originally Posted by dark_crystal

oh i usually go for the "brushing your upper arm with my boobs" move

too much?

Too much? That's crazy talk. The "boobs on the upper arm" move is a classic. It's right up there with the "lean forward when we are seated across from each other so you can have a good look at my cleavage" move femmes often do.

[dixie]

Originally Posted by dark_crystal

oh i usually go for the "brushing your upper arm with my boobs" move

too much?

Originally Posted by Slater

Too much? That's crazy talk. The "boobs on the upper arm" move is a classic. It's right up there with the "lean forward when we are seated across from each other so you can have a good look at my cleavage" move femmes often do.

I usually do that "move" without even realizing it! (Somehow I even accomplished it with HD, in the middle of Walmart when we were picking up things we forgot on our trip LOL)

Glad to know I'm not the only one, and that it's not necessarily a bad thing!

[luv2luvgirls]

I would agree with the post's on putting thought and time into romancing me...but yeah a lil boob action dont hurt

I like when its the little details someone shows me they picked up on.

[Gaige]

Originally Posted by dixielady

I usually do that "move" without even realizing it! (Somehow I even accomplished it with HD, in the middle of Walmart when we were picking up things we forgot on our trip LOL)

Glad to know I'm not the only one, and that it's not necessarily a bad thing!

After the first few times i thought it was unintentional. Then as it continued, i started to wonder. I try to never assume anything which is why i came right out and asked you :laughin: either way, intentional or not, i enjoyed it

[The cute widdle wesbian]

Hmm ... let's see. I'm a very simple person, it doesn't take much, but it depends on how long I've been with this girl. Like, if we've been together for a while, we're committed to each other, etc etc, I like to be touched a lot. That's all it really takes, and I'm not talking sexually but just kinda touched. My arm, my knee, my ears (I love that lol), Idk it's kind of a gesture that she wants to be near me. That's how my cute widdle simpleton brain processes it anyway. I don't need material things generally, it's just not necessary.

If it's a first date, and really this works for the whole relationship, but when it's too early on for a little of touching and kissing, I'm usually the romancer. lol, I'm usually always the romancer anyway. But if a femme really wants to sweep me off my feet on the first few dates, I like to be taken somewhere I wanna go, I like to do things that I wanna do, and I like the gesture that she actually wants to be with me doing something I like, even if she doesn't find it to be a perfect blast. Haha, I'm not a boring person but sometimes what I like to do isn't what everyone else likes. An example of that is I was hanging out with a GF at my place after about 2 or 3 weeks of dating. A day was devoted to my favorite sitcom that I love. I was watching my show all day, while talking to her and doing the sweet stuff I try to do, and I asked her if she wanted to do something else. She goes, "No, I don't like this show but I just love your smile." Little things like that make me happy.

[bigbutchmistie]

I posted earlier what I like.. But I also think more and more the older I get the more about show and tell I am.. Meaning.. show me your interested, as we date with actions and gestures of affection... After being committed dont stop. It should only get better

[Rockinonahigh]

When I was younger I was as clueless as to any femme being intrested in me,green as grass I shure was.Over time I sorta caught on pretty well if someone was intrested or not,but all they were intrested in was a wife for a night date or moveing in not longer after hello how are ya,back then nither of them worked well at all cause I really was very buisey with jobs,my very young kids so I was very carefull in who I went out with.Over the years I havent changed much just got smarter,beleave less BS and really am looking for someone who isnt a player or has the U haul warmed up and ready to go.
With this being said,I really would like that if someone is intrested in me for them to let me know,I know I can be kinda dense but thats what life dose to us older guys after awhile.Its nce if we have some common ground in what we like,our political views,respect each other,become friends first most definatly keep an open mind that as anyone gets to know me they will learn im not the stodgy old bookworm you thought I could be.It will be a wild ride for the one fourtunate enough to be brave enough to try.

[flapdoodle]

food
good cooked food

[JRM]

Originally Posted by flapdoodle

food
good cooked food

Poor J probably would like to have good cooked food instead of looking at rusty pots and pans lol

[Martina]

JRM's mating call: "Hand me the remote!"

[femmeandstrong]

Just exactly as it is happening 😊

[JRM]

Originally Posted by Martina

JRM's mating call: "Hand me the remote!"

Lol it don't even take that