whats your style

luv2luvgirls · 07-30-2011, 08:02 AM

I tend to be the hunter...but im not gonna lie I dont mind a femme hunting me for a change lol...

So Incubus, Lady Snow and Claybaby..in life are you a go getter and competitive? I tend to get gungho at work and in games lol

Bigbutchmistie....so do you think its because you are shy you dont persue?

clay · 07-30-2011, 08:06 AM

Yes ma'am....competitive to a degree....in affairs of the heart....not so much! I want someone to WANT to be with me....if competition is involved...I am "walk away, Jo"...<wink>

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Originally Posted by luv2luvgirls

I tend to be the hunter...but im not gonna lie I dont mind a femme hunting me for a change lol...

So Invitucus, Lady Snow and Claybaby..in life are you a go getter and competitive? I tend to get gungho at work and in games lol

Bigbutchmistie....so do you think its because you are shy you dont persue?

luv2luvgirls · 07-30-2011, 08:09 AM

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Originally Posted by claybabytwo

Yes ma'am....competitive to a degree....in affairs of the heart....not so much! I want someone to WANT to be with me....if competition is involved...I am "walk away, Jo"...<wink>

couldnt have said it better dude!!

clay · 07-30-2011, 08:11 AM

Thanks, dude!!!!

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Originally Posted by luv2luvgirls

couldnt have said it better dude!!

*Anya* · 07-30-2011, 09:20 AM

In matters Of the heart, prey-yes. I have a hard time being the initiator. I think I have pretty much been socialized into this role and I try to break out and to be more of the pursuer but it is not comfortable for me. I am pretty shy too.

In matters of the heart, no competition. Refuse to play games-either want me or not.

In work and life, yes I will and have-pursued jobs and opportunities that I have wanted and have also been competitive in those arenas. Somehow it is much easier for me behind my professional role than in my personal life.

tapu · 07-30-2011, 09:23 AM

Hungry like the wolf.

MissPriss · 07-30-2011, 09:26 AM

I definately like to be chased....but I can also chase Im a skilled hunter! lol

bigbutchmistie · 07-30-2011, 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by luv2luvgirls

I tend to be the hunter...but im not gonna lie I dont mind a femme hunting me for a change lol...

So Incubus, Lady Snow and Claybaby..in life are you a go getter and competitive? I tend to get gungho at work and in games lol

Bigbutchmistie....so do you think its because you are shy you dont persue?

Yes, its because I am shy that I dont pursue...

The_Lady_Snow · 07-30-2011, 10:32 AM

I don't think I'm competitive at least that's not how I carry that natural ability to want to be successful or attain things I may want or desire. It's just is what it is..

tiggs · 07-30-2011, 10:49 AM

I am definitely the prey, I wouldn't have it any other way. If I am interested in someone I will let them know with coy flirting, smiles and the like but I will not initiate at all, guess I am old fashioned that way. That and the dominant, alpha personality thing is so dang sexy *fans self*. lol

luv2luvgirls · 07-30-2011, 10:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Violette

Yes, I think it does. I am shy when it comes to pursuing/being pursued. Professionally, not shy at all.

I too, wonder if the shyness around romance is socialized in me as well. Or maybe not being out for very long has something to do with my shyness. Don't know, seems the older I get the more shy I am. Oddly, though, the older I get the more confident I am as a person. Okay, I don't have a clue (or, perhaps too many).

I appreciate it when someone shows interest. I try to show some interest by making direct eye contact and smiling. If the person doesn't show any interest back (maybe playing it cool, or just not interested, or doesn't know I am gay) then I back the heck off.

I don't know, how does a femme let someone know they are gay? Do we even register on the gaydar??

hmmm good point,yeah if you try and they play it cool or just dont notice which is what happens with me TBH lol I dont keep trying
Femmes show up on my gaydar just sayin

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Originally Posted by weatherboi

i don't consider myself shy. i am prey. i have been attracting predators since I was little!!!

you know that is what happens to me..and usually it feels like its outta the blue

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Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

I don't think I'm competitive at least that's not how I carry that natural ability to want to be successful or attain things I may want or desire. It's just is what it is..

Im only competitive in life not in romance at all..but I do find I am not shy in the least.
I do find its a natural ability to me as well...it just happens to be I am good at a lot of things I try

Rockinonahigh · 07-30-2011, 11:12 AM

First of I dont play games with anyones feelings, but that being said if the right intrest is shown...watch out things can change in a heart beat.

Leigh · 07-30-2011, 12:11 PM

I'm like Mistie in the sense that I'm very shy and will not likely pursue someone making Me the prey ~ I am slowly beginning to come out of My shell, so maybe this whole shyness business won't last too long

Gemme · 07-30-2011, 10:49 PM

I am the prey, until I am not.

I have periods of shyness, interrupted by bouts of coyness and manipulation.

07-30-2011, 08:02 AM	#1
luv2luvgirls Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Asshole Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Kentucky/Austin/Wherever Posts: 2,310 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,387 Thanked 5,470 Times in 1,827 Posts Rep Power: 0	I tend to be the hunter...but im not gonna lie I dont mind a femme hunting me for a change lol... So Incubus, Lady Snow and Claybaby..in life are you a go getter and competitive? I tend to get gungho at work and in games lol Bigbutchmistie....so do you think its because you are shy you dont persue? Last edited by luv2luvgirls; 07-30-2011 at 08:09 AM. Reason: did I really say the wrong username smh

07-30-2011, 09:20 AM	#5
Anya Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: West Coast Posts: 8,258 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39,306 Thanked 40,445 Times in 7,285 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	Hmm... In matters Of the heart, prey-yes. I have a hard time being the initiator. I think I have pretty much been socialized into this role and I try to break out and to be more of the pursuer but it is not comfortable for me. I am pretty shy too. In matters of the heart, no competition. Refuse to play games-either want me or not. In work and life, yes I will and have-pursued jobs and opportunities that I have wanted and have also been competitive in those arenas. Somehow it is much easier for me behind my professional role than in my personal life. __________________ ~Anya~ Democracy Dies in Darkness ~Washington Post "...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable." UN Human Rights commissioner

07-30-2011, 09:23 AM	#6
tapu Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Understated butch. Preferred Pronoun?: I Relationship Status: Party of One Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Maine Posts: 1,654 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,324 Thanked 3,115 Times in 1,103 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Hungry like the wolf. __________________ Really? That's not funny to you?

07-30-2011, 10:32 AM	#9
The_Lady_Snow MILLION $$$ PUSSY How Do You Identify?: Kinky, Raw, Perverted, Uber Queer Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Iconic Ms. Relationship Status: Keeper of 3, only one has the map to my freckles Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: La Reina del Sur Posts: 22,488 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 32,231 Thanked 80,077 Times in 15,670 Posts Rep Power: 21474874	I don't think I'm competitive at least that's not how I carry that natural ability to want to be successful or attain things I may want or desire. It's just is what it is.. __________________ "If you’re going to play these dirty games of ours, then you might as well indulge completely. It’s all about turning back into an animal and that’s the beauty of it. Place your guilt on the sidewalk and take a blow torch to it (guilt is usually worthless anyway). Be perverted, be filthy, do things that mannered people shouldn’t do. If you’re going to be gross then go for it and don’t wimp out."---Master Aiden

07-30-2011, 10:49 AM	#10
tiggs Member How Do You Identify?: femme submissive Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: married and collared to Converse Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: canada Posts: 359 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,456 Thanked 726 Times in 248 Posts Rep Power: 2288328	I am definitely the prey, I wouldn't have it any other way. If I am interested in someone I will let them know with coy flirting, smiles and the like but I will not initiate at all, guess I am old fashioned that way. That and the dominant, alpha personality thing is so dang sexy fans self. lol __________________ “The world is not a dangerous place because of those who do evil, but because of those that look on and do nothing" - Albert Einstein

07-30-2011, 09:26 AM	#7
MissPriss Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: only lasting realtionship I have is with my job, my gun and my truck. Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Tennessee Posts: 566 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 789 Thanked 580 Times in 259 Posts Rep Power: 2223294	I definately like to be chased....but I can also chase Im a skilled hunter! lol

07-30-2011, 11:12 AM	#12
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	First of I dont play games with anyones feelings, but that being said if the right intrest is shown...watch out things can change in a heart beat.

07-30-2011, 12:11 PM	#13
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	I'm like Mistie in the sense that I'm very shy and will not likely pursue someone making Me the prey ~ I am slowly beginning to come out of My shell, so maybe this whole shyness business won't last too long __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

07-30-2011, 10:49 PM	#14
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,631 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,498 Thanked 107,925 Times in 25,666 Posts Rep Power: 21474887	I am the prey, until I am not. I have periods of shyness, interrupted by bouts of coyness and manipulation. __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.