whats your style

luv2luvgirls · 07-30-2011, 10:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Violette

Yes, I think it does. I am shy when it comes to pursuing/being pursued. Professionally, not shy at all.

I too, wonder if the shyness around romance is socialized in me as well. Or maybe not being out for very long has something to do with my shyness. Don't know, seems the older I get the more shy I am. Oddly, though, the older I get the more confident I am as a person. Okay, I don't have a clue (or, perhaps too many).

I appreciate it when someone shows interest. I try to show some interest by making direct eye contact and smiling. If the person doesn't show any interest back (maybe playing it cool, or just not interested, or doesn't know I am gay) then I back the heck off.

I don't know, how does a femme let someone know they are gay? Do we even register on the gaydar??

hmmm good point,yeah if you try and they play it cool or just dont notice which is what happens with me TBH lol I dont keep trying
Femmes show up on my gaydar just sayin

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Originally Posted by weatherboi

i don't consider myself shy. i am prey. i have been attracting predators since I was little!!!

you know that is what happens to me..and usually it feels like its outta the blue

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Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

I don't think I'm competitive at least that's not how I carry that natural ability to want to be successful or attain things I may want or desire. It's just is what it is..

Im only competitive in life not in romance at all..but I do find I am not shy in the least.
I do find its a natural ability to me as well...it just happens to be I am good at a lot of things I try

Rockinonahigh · 07-30-2011, 11:12 AM

First of I dont play games with anyones feelings, but that being said if the right intrest is shown...watch out things can change in a heart beat.

Leigh · 07-30-2011, 12:11 PM

I'm like Mistie in the sense that I'm very shy and will not likely pursue someone making Me the prey ~ I am slowly beginning to come out of My shell, so maybe this whole shyness business won't last too long

Gemme · 07-30-2011, 10:49 PM

I am the prey, until I am not.

I have periods of shyness, interrupted by bouts of coyness and manipulation.

moxie · 07-30-2011, 11:13 PM

I tend to start out being the persuer but I have gotten off that train and have decided to wait on someone to woo me. I deserve it. Looks like I'll be waiting a while.

07-30-2011, 12:11 PM	#3
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474860	I'm like Mistie in the sense that I'm very shy and will not likely pursue someone making Me the prey ~ I am slowly beginning to come out of My shell, so maybe this whole shyness business won't last too long __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

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Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,631 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,498 Thanked 107,925 Times in 25,666 Posts Rep Power: 21474887	I am the prey, until I am not. I have periods of shyness, interrupted by bouts of coyness and manipulation. __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.

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moxie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: a cynical princess wannabe Preferred Pronoun?: lipgloss junkie Relationship Status: yep Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: the ville Posts: 3,027 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,544 Thanked 6,765 Times in 1,846 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I tend to start out being the persuer but I have gotten off that train and have decided to wait on someone to woo me. I deserve it. Looks like I'll be waiting a while. __________________ "Accept what people offer. Drink their milkshakes. Take their love." - Wally Lamb

07-30-2011, 11:12 AM	#2
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	First of I dont play games with anyones feelings, but that being said if the right intrest is shown...watch out things can change in a heart beat.