Kids Korner - Lessons from/with Our Kids

luv2luvgirls · 07-31-2011, 07:34 AM

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Originally Posted by jelli

I honestly don't know. I am sure in retrospect that I had them to soothe some childhood issue9wanting to feel needed and loved), but for the love of all things 'lipgloss", I wouldn't trade a single day with any of them.

We've grown up together and shared so many experiences.

I was meant to love. Simple as that.

that was so well put

yup I was meant to love...i love my lil girl so feircely...I make up stories for her at night she loves it,still wants to be tucked in...Im dreading the day the hormones kick in and she hates me for a minute...but we all go thur it as teens so I know its coming back at me.

jelli · 07-31-2011, 07:39 AM

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Originally Posted by luv2luvgirls

that was so well put

yup I was meant to love...i love my lil girl so feircely...I make up stories for her at night she loves it,still wants to be tucked in...Im dreading the day the hormones kick in and she hates me for a minute...but we all go thur it as teens so I know its coming back at me.

Hormones - male or female.

All the talks.

Masturbation.

Dating.

Drugs.

Etc...

it's a wonder we all survive. lol

luv2luvgirls · 07-31-2011, 07:45 AM

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Originally Posted by jelli

Hormones - male or female.

All the talks.

Masturbation.

Dating.

Drugs.

Etc...

it's a wonder we all survive. lol

I forgot about all that

jelli · 07-31-2011, 09:07 AM

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Originally Posted by luv2luvgirls

I forgot about all that

Lucky you to forget. j/k

When our oldest was about 4 yrs old he kept running back and forth between the door and the couch. i was washing dishes and just kept smiling at him thinking he was just entertaining himself. Well, he was.

He was entertaining himself by going to the door where it was cold enough to get an erection and then running back to the couch until it went away. I was horrified and yet laughing inside(I have twisted humor). I just closed the door and brought his attention to something more educational. lol

luv2luvgirls · 07-31-2011, 09:14 AM

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Originally Posted by jelli

Lucky you to forget. j/k

When our oldest was about 4 yrs old he kept running back and forth between the door and the couch. i was washing dishes and just kept smiling at him thinking he was just entertaining himself. Well, he was.

He was entertaining himself by going to the door where it was cold enough to get an erection and then running back to the couch until it went away. I was horrified and yet laughing inside(I have twisted humor). I just closed the door and brought his attention to something more educational. lol

hahahaha, I had a simular experience...but mine was so lil she might have been one? she would rock forever in her diaper...i asked her pediatrician why she was doing it and he was like coz it feels good. i guess its that simple huh lol

My sisters son woke up w/ a woody for the first time one morning and ran to my sister saying he broke his member and could his dad fix it? lmao..Amber didnt know what to say to him so she called her husband

jelli · 07-31-2011, 09:36 AM

I also learned to have the bath water high enough so that it wasn't a 'floating/bobbing" issue. lol I tried never to shame them though.

Then you have the issues of farting, burping, etc. And I don't just mean the boys. lol

Tcountry · 07-31-2011, 09:53 AM

I learned how to listen....I mean Really listen. Because everything they say is important to them.

I remember when the oldest was about 4. she walked up to her mom with a serious look on her face & said "Mom we need to talk...I have a problem..."

I don't remember what the problem was....but it was so darn cute & in my head I was thinkin ur 4 what problems could u have? lol

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