Dating women with children, any thoughts?

The_Lady_Snow · 08-18-2011, 09:23 PM

[QUOTE=J. Mason;401197]Yes you are correct. I think she has spoken to the boys about me in good context and I have never given her any reason to not trust me. Ohhh and this is someone who is NOT on this site, just to clear things up.[/QUt

I would think you would want to hang out with Mom first without the kids being involved, you don't even know if you can hang with this relationship why expose the kids? If you aren't gonna stick around for a long time there is no sense in meeting the kids until some kind of relationship or friendship is built and has some steady foundation. I could be wrong though...

J. Mason · 08-18-2011, 09:26 PM

Oh of course I do wanna spend time with the mom without the boys thats a given.

The_Lady_Snow · 08-18-2011, 09:30 PM

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Originally Posted by J. Mason

Oh of course I do wanna spend time with the mom without the boys thats a given.

Maybe until you and her have some form of solid relationship or friendship, the kids should be kept out. It's only fair to them. Just a suggestion

J. Mason · 08-18-2011, 09:34 PM

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Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

Maybe until you and her have some form of solid relationship or friendship, the kids should be kept out. It's only fair to them. Just a suggestion

I appreciate that, I made this thread for alot of open suggestions and opinions on the whole topic, I am glad to see positive posts.

dixie · 08-18-2011, 09:30 PM

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Originally Posted by J. Mason

Yes you are correct. I think she has spoken to the boys about me in good context and I have never given her any reason to not trust me. Ohhh and this is someone who is NOT on this site, just to clear things up.

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Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

I would think you would want to hang out with Mom first without the kids being involved, you don't even know if you can hang with this relationship why expose the kids? If you aren't gonna stick around for a long time there is no sense in meeting the kids until some kind of relationship or friendship is built and has some steady foundation. I could be wrong though...

I have to agree with Snow. There's never a guarantee how things will go in a first meeting, even if things seem perfect beforehand. I don't understand why someone would want to expose their children right off the bat to someone who may not (hopefully may) be a presence in their lives. Also, perhaps it's just me, but I think especially first meetings should be focused on the two individuals. Y'all need time together and alone to talk and get to know one another in person. With children present it will be harder to accomplish this and may give a false sense of things, if you will.

Corkey · 08-18-2011, 09:33 PM

I'm kind of wondering if perhaps she isn't as comfortable and is bringing the teenagers with for emotional back up. Which if the case would send up a red flag for me. Not that I know her or you but it's kind of well, weird.

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