What TO DO in a relationship.....

JAGG · 08-19-2011, 09:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Debby

I have a really strong work ethic and it is a sickness I was told. lol
I think knocking out a wall to rearrange the house is fun.
My yard looks so bad right now. It's embarrassing, it feels like a reflection of being lazy.

It has been my experience that who ever says that a strong work ethic is a sickness , is just trying to justify their laziness. And maybe manipulate you into not doing so much. That way they don't appear to be so lazy, and the more you do the more they know you are going to resent them not helping. So if they can get you to slow down, or stop, all the better for them. They also know sooner or later you are probably going to expect them to help, that's what they are trying to avoid.
Am I right or am I right?

deb_U_taunt · 08-19-2011, 09:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JAGG

It has been my experience that who ever says that a strong work ethic is a sickness , is just trying to justify their laziness. And maybe manipulate you into not doing so much. That way they don't appear to be so lazy, and the more you do the more they know you are going to resent them not helping. So if they can get you to slow down, or stop, all the better for them. They also know sooner or later you are probably going to expect them to help, that's what they are trying to avoid.
Am I right or am I right?

LMAO...you are so damn right!!! I work because I love to be busy. l love feeling productive at the end of the day. If they can't keep up they need to get out of the way.

bigbutchmistie · 08-19-2011, 10:55 PM

Make out with her like it was the first time

girl_dee · 08-25-2011, 09:43 PM

Live in reality, not virtual reality

Be smart and take care of yourself, even if it means you will have to be the bad guy.

Mtn · 08-26-2011, 12:56 AM

When the relationship is over, accept one's personal responsibility and then move on. Don't air dirty laundry, doesn't make anyone look good, don't make passive agressive posts and pretend they are not.

Glenn · 08-26-2011, 05:41 AM

Don't Do anything. Take some breaks from your relationship. Focus on your other interests, or get some other s*** straightened out. Do something or go somewhere else then come back.

girl_dee · 08-26-2011, 06:05 AM

Take time together every now and then, no computers or phones, and just be, you never know what a difference that could make

bigbutchmistie · 08-30-2011, 06:12 AM

stand by her side even if you disagree with her and think she is wrong. Support her through the good and the bad.

Never go to bed angry at each other

Always be affectionate

Always be silly and laugh together

Loyalty is never an option

Make her feel like she is the most beautiful woman in the world.

Communication, Communication, and COMMUNICATION. Talk about anything and everything.

Never hide anything from your partner. Any deception will kill a relationship.

08-26-2011, 12:56 AM	#5
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08-19-2011, 10:55 PM	#3
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Make out with her like it was the first time

08-25-2011, 09:43 PM	#4
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08-26-2011, 05:41 AM	#6
Glenn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Ol butch bones. Preferred Pronoun?: Old thing Relationship Status: Too old to play. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: :rolleyes: Posts: 1,547 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,602 Thanked 3,729 Times in 1,095 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Don't Do anything. Take some breaks from your relationship. Focus on your other interests, or get some other s*** straightened out. Do something or go somewhere else then come back.

08-26-2011, 06:05 AM	#7
girl_dee Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: dee Relationship Status: Hitched up Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Livin’ the Dream Posts: 24,079 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,560 Thanked 54,829 Times in 13,908 Posts Rep Power: 21474874	Take time together every now and then, no computers or phones, and just be, you never know what a difference that could make

08-30-2011, 06:12 AM	#8
bigbutchmistie Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Since You Need A Label. Butch Relationship Status: Still Dreaming Of My Happily Ever After Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Arlington Texas Posts: 4,009 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,950 Thanked 5,364 Times in 1,941 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	stand by her side even if you disagree with her and think she is wrong. Support her through the good and the bad. Never go to bed angry at each other Always be affectionate Always be silly and laugh together Loyalty is never an option Make her feel like she is the most beautiful woman in the world. Communication, Communication, and COMMUNICATION. Talk about anything and everything. Never hide anything from your partner. Any deception will kill a relationship.