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			Hi All,  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I'm new to the community. I'm a 43 year old BBW who lives in Vancouver, BC. I think I've identified as femme for about as long as I identified as "different" when I was 14 years ago. I'm single and looking to meet friends and other like-minded folks here. I can be kind of shy, but when I get going I can be a wordy so-and-so.   I'm glad I found my way here!So... where are the best places to hang out? Last edited by lettertodaddy; 08-23-2011 at 03:47 PM. Reason: because my brain is on slo-mo  | 
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			Hello and welcome!  
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Thanks, cara! I see you're another PacNW'er!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Welcome! It's great here, you're going to love it.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			Thanks! Trying to keep up with some of the conversation threads has been a challenge.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			Hi Princessbelle!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Welcome to BFP. Enjoy!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Thanks, Greyson. And I love your quote from Barbara Jordan. She's always been one of my personal heroes.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Welcome!!! Glad to have you here!  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			 
		
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			Thank you! I'm so glad I stumbled across this site.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			We've been acquainted but I'll introduce Myself properly  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			![]() My name is Matthew from Winnipeg, Canada ~ its a pleasure to meet you  
		
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			I just woke up, so it's too early to tell. Missing that butch that broke my heart, though. I'm thinking I'd like to sleep for about another hour. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			And I just realized I made myself older than I am. I won't be 43 for 3 more weeks. Gotta hold on to that youth for as long as I can!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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