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Old 08-24-2011, 05:45 AM   #1
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Matthew, you're too kind! So far all of us east coasters are very tongue-in-cheek about the whole thing. It really was very mild. We sure will be talking about it for a while yet, though, since it's one of the most exciting things ever!

This thread is wonderful, I'm glad to see so much action on it lately!!
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This thread is wonderful, I'm glad to see so much action on it lately!!

Many times I don't think that bbw women get the attention they deserve, and not to take away from any other woman ~ everyone deserves that kind of attention but we all know the stigma on looks today and how important it seems that everyone is as thin as a twig. I'm also happy that this thread is getting alot of action, its about time ~ keep it coming everyone
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BBW here.....

I struggled with self acceptence for many years, and one day I woke up and realized.

I'm pretty, I'm fat, and I'm proud.

So from one BBW to another I say hello and Happy Hump Day.
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Matthew, you're too kind! So far all of us east coasters are very tongue-in-cheek about the whole thing. It really was very mild. We sure will be talking about it for a while yet, though, since it's one of the most exciting things ever!

This thread is wonderful, I'm glad to see so much action on it lately!!
I would totally make a remark about the thread getting "so much action", but I don't want to get scolded by a moderator. Well, I guess that depends on which moderator. Maybe I *do* want to get scolded.

Anyway, I posted this link in one of the other threads but I thought those who frequent this one might also enjoy this photographer's work: http://www.fatbottomboudoir.com/.


--Slater, who for some reason always thinks ScandalAndy lives in Oklahoma and could not figure out why she was talking about the earthquake
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I would totally make a remark about the thread getting "so much action", but I don't want to get scolded by a moderator. Well, I guess that depends on which moderator. Maybe I *do* want to get scolded.

Anyway, I posted this link in one of the other threads but I thought those who frequent this one might also enjoy this photographer's work: http://www.fatbottomboudoir.com/.


--Slater, who for some reason always thinks ScandalAndy lives in Oklahoma and could not figure out why she was talking about the earthquake

I love this link........Thank you for posting it......I see a photo session in my future.
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BBW here.....

I struggled with self acceptence for many years, and one day I woke up and realized.

I'm pretty, I'm fat, and I'm proud.

So from one BBW to another I say hello and Happy Hump Day.
You are beautiful inside and out Abigail, never forget that

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I would totally make a remark about the thread getting "so much action", but I don't want to get scolded by a moderator. Well, I guess that depends on which moderator. Maybe I *do* want to get scolded.
I think we could make alot of remarks in these threads but sometimes we just have to bite our tongues and chuckle to ourselves ~ I know its hard but sometimes we just gotta do it
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I have been to this thread a couple of times, I am bbw and I still cant accept it.
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I have been to this thread a couple of times, I am bbw and I still cant accept it.

Can you accept part of it?

I know for me, personally, I still cannot accept my stomach but I've gotten better with everything else. I started with my breasts, luckily they get a lot of attention and i added to that by agreeing to be a shot girl, where they get to be front and center. I was nervous and thought it was too much, but after I got over that, I realized that i had at least one part of me that was super hot. Then i thought, "well, if i have one good part, maybe I have more". From there I started trying to be nicer to myself when looking at my butt. I started looking at other butts and realizing that it's hard to get such a nice round curve! There was something I could do that others couldn't, so I praised myself for it.

Little by little I'm working on accepting the things that others tell me are wrong. it takes time, and lots of repetition, and sometimes you have good and bad days, but you can do it. I know you can. I believe in you.
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I would totally make a remark about the thread getting "so much action", but I don't want to get scolded by a moderator. Well, I guess that depends on which moderator. Maybe I *do* want to get scolded.

Anyway, I posted this link in one of the other threads but I thought those who frequent this one might also enjoy this photographer's work: http://www.fatbottomboudoir.com/.


--Slater, who for some reason always thinks ScandalAndy lives in Oklahoma and could not figure out why she was talking about the earthquake
OMG Slater, you make me laugh!!! Thank you for noticing that i do not, in fact, live in Oklahoma, teehee! I intend to rag on you about this in October!

I'm all for a good scolding, so I will take full credit on interpreting this thread "getting action" in all kinds of naughty ways!

Thank you so much for the link! Do you follow Adipositivity at all? I'm a fan of her work. And if you click on my photo gallery, you'll see I'm already a fan of bbws in photo shoots. They're freaking empowering and, in my case, help me think better about myself. I encourage everyone to try it out!
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